Polls: Family & Friends

I mean when you last had to ghost someone what was the reason? And im talking about someone you’ve been speaking with for a little while at least.

also could have been this week or years ago when you last had to do this.

im sure everyone knows what ghosting means but jic: when you drop all contact from a person with no reason given to them whatsoever. You just disappear from them and you also ignore attempts they do to speak with you again. You might’ve even blocked them entirely.

Or should i instead not do that and just focus all on the other person sharing their story?

I usually try to share something similar to what they share with me. the intention is to make them feel less alone or abnormal about their ordeal. but on the other hand it might come across as making their story about me.

So for instance someone might share how they were broken up with and in turn i'd share an experience about how i was broken up with myself. Is this bad? Should i not do this?

Like something you said or did gave them the completely wrong idea and ever since they just didn’t like you from then on?

how did you handle that?

Which environment gives you the most peace? 👇🏻

it can be very fulfilling just talking to people sometimes lol. hope its not just me. like i get a good high going like some kind of drug

She keeps posting stuff like she is independent and that she has a bmw at age 19 putting everyone down. Her dad bought her this car and she is acting like she bought it herself. The reason I know is because my sister is friends with her older sister and she said that she literally cried for a car and was telling her dad how is she gonna get around for college without a car or get a job.

So this is not about what you do if this happened in a relationship, but instead with either a friend or an acquaintance whom you may talk to regularly. lets say they did or said something and it made you upset in some way and they seem to be completely unaware of the offense they caused for you what do you tend to do? could be a joke, a comment, or anything and they just continue to act and talk to you as if no offense occurred.

so I'll admit this now back when me and her date I wasn't ready for a relationship I had no job and nothing going for me. our relationship lasted 10 months until her very Strict patents break us up. our break up was super bad like all break ups even more so since she was my first girlfriend and I was almost the very first place she dated for 1 year. I do belive if I had more going for me in life back then we would have gotten married or lasted longer. we were class mates&online friends for 6 years before dating.. we tried being friends but that failed. we have not talked in years but i do bump into her from time to time if she's with friends she hides behind them but if she's by herself she just stares at me I don't know why. can you get a ex back after that many years?