so I'll admit this now back when me and her date I wasn't ready for a relationship I had no job and nothing going for me. our relationship lasted 10 months until her very Strict patents break us up. our break up was super bad like all break ups even more so since she was my first girlfriend and I was almost the very first place she dated for 1 year. I do belive if I had more going for me in life back then we would have gotten married or lasted longer. we were class mates&online friends for 6 years before dating.. we tried being friends but that failed. we have not talked in years but i do bump into her from time to time if she's with friends she hides behind them but if she's by herself she just stares at me I don't know why. can you get a ex back after that many years?
So after a nasty divorce, and 8 years of basically hating each other. We got back together and remarried a few years ago. We've been together for 18 years this time including 10 of that being a long distance relationship. So yes of course you can.
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that's a long as time did she date anyone with in that 8 years?
We both had other relationships. She had two children during that time. And now I have two stepsons. To be clear we had a child so we have 3 kids and our daughter is the oldest.
If I were ever going to get back with my ex, it would be my first one. There is no possible reconciliation between my 2nd and I. I'd happily get with her sister though.
I haven't talked to her sister since right before we broke up, which wasn't much of a breakup. More of me just never talking to her again. My first ex, I don't talk to her either, but I've seen what she's been up to social media and whatnot. Completely different person.
Sure. But it's tempting to look back at what could have been and how it could have worked out. You might never have made a good match and now be looking back thinking ah her, no. If your both still available and want to, give it to. Just don't assume it'll be the best thing ever and that she's who you'll eventually end up with.
I mean, I guess you can try? But most of the time they have either moved on or forgotten about you. Especially if you ended on bad terms. Just try to strike up a conversation with her and see how it goes.
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