Polls: Family & Friends

my brother in law has green card but my sister and he don't want to move to America. My brother is the same. They are not interested moving. I am so alone in Canada. sigh. only the person who like to come is my mother. I don't know why they don't want to come. obviously there are more freedom in America. why don't they come?

If your child solved this puzzle in the same way would you consider them smart or dumb?

In case of surrogacy if the biological mother decides she doesn't want the baby but the biological father wants the baby who should have a say?

The surrogate mother says it's up to the couple to decide. She is fine with both decisions.

If telling your loved ones, your last week is spent with mourning family members and it's like you've already died. By delaying saying anything, you can make happier, special memories for them to remember you by.

Be honest.
My friends were fed up with me crying and complaining about not getting respect and people disrespecting me but I don’t do NOTHING about it and they tried helping me stand up for myself but I am too afraid. My guy best friend said, “You know what? We don’t know what to do anymore. I guess you LOVE being treated so badly do you? We tried helping you. I guess you’re too much of a coward to have self respect. You want someone to get into your face huh? Yeah you like when I get in your face don’t you? Don’t you? You wanna man to get into your face and disrespect YOU! That’s what you love.” He got in my face. Then my girl best friend said, “Yeah you LOVE when people disrespect you huh? You want people to yell at you IN YOUR FACE. You wanna be the weak ass woman that has no respect for herself? Yes I will get into your face. YOU won’t anything since YOU DON’T HAVE THE HANDS TO FIGHT!” She got in my face. They kept doing it until I screamed at them to stop and then they said, “Then start standing up for yourself then! Instead of being a coward and acting like a little girl, be a woman and stand up for yourself damn it!”
Don’t you think they were being rude for getting in my face to teach me a lesson?

kind of a vent i guess, because i just had someone be surprised that my parents and i aren’t “disappointed” in my bisexual sibling? who the f*ck asks that? current year, man.

I move to Canada 10 years ago. But I feel I should move back to Korea. I didn’t like Korea because of monsoon season eating out chunk of summer fun season and people don’t have freedom what so ever but I am willing to take a risk.. I just have to act like everyone does which I hated because there seem to be no individual and freedom. But I kind of thinking maybe it will be easier acting like everyone else. Especially I need my family love. I don’t know. Canada or America is good when you are young. My friend told me that. I think he has a point. He goes back to Columbia which his family is from and try to find a boy friend there. And a woman I know moved to Ireland. I think she is descendant from it. A lot of people go back to their original country. What about you? Are you planing to leave US or Canada?

I personally don't feel connected to my child who has a behavioral disorder (most likely ADHD combined with another disorder) and resent him. He does nothing but fuck up my life and well being day in and day out. Because of his disorder he's always acting wild and out of control and I feel like he reminds me of a wild animal. My friend has a dog who is more tamed than my child.

Likely they will be passing through in a few weeks so we can meet up then. Also they promised promised not to make it last minute and they switched the timing from further to closer last minute.. well last minute for me which is less than a two week warning.

So not only am I just getting over being sick but I was caught off guard and I’m not up to it. Literally, I don’t want to throw up on them.

They keep checking to see if I’m going to change my mind.. giving me up to the last minute which is so stressful like I wish they’d just say ok we’ll see you next time.

Anyhow, how terrible on a scale of 1-10 is it for me to not go? I already have them a heads up so it’s not out of no where but I feel bad. But also sick. Plus it’s only been 72 hours- I can still be contagious I don’t even see why they’d want to risk it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Thing is we almost met up several times but didn’t bc of miscalculation on both our parts so I feel like I’m more tipping the scale of fault now— which is not useful but hey that’s where I’m at.

My first love told me out of his own mouth that I shouldn’t trust him after I guess I showed that I trusted him too much. Like a fool I did. But that was just one of many times where I have trusted people and eventually realized that I shouldn’t have. I talked to my dad about it and he said that I should never trust anyone 100%. It took me 25 years to finally agree with him that it has to be this way. But I’m just wondering if anyone else can agree or disagree? And why do you feel that way?

So he wanted me to fix his bed with new sheets and he told me he already fixed mine. And I know he is so lazy so I bet him 10 dollars he didn't do it. I go into my room and only the bedsheet that you lay on is fixed the rest was on the coach without any covers🤣

Do I owe him 10$ or he should pay me?