
Am I a Bad Friend?


I can understand where she is coming from. You said you and her fooled around! Regardless if it was serious or not, I think it was wrong to go there with her brother. I also technically think it's also wrong to go there with your best friend brother in general. Seems to me you care more about spreading your legs and being a whore than you do about your friends and hurting them.
Yeah she might have invited you alone but was it necessary for you to use the trip to go and fuck her brother. I'd be making you pay me back for the trip.
Just because you did stuff with her brother? No. But maybe depending on other context.
What other context? We had sex oral, vaginal and anal
What's your relationship with your friend?
What were you invited to do?
Did you ditch your friend to fuck her brother?
Why did she say she was mad, was it just for fucking her brother?
We are very close, almost besties.
I was invited to come hang out and have fun.
I didn't ditch her, she was busy doing other things.
She said Friends don't fuck their Friend's family.
Right but do you do stuff with your friend?
Yea but was the weekend getaway?
I mean are you pursuing the brother? Is this gunna make things awkward between you and the brother?
Yes we have played together and still do sometimes.
It was just her family. I don't think it was intended as a little lovers trip.
It was just sex, there will be no relationship
Then yea, it's weird to play around with someone's sibling if you play around with them (unless they're okay with it). The trip does not seem like the best place to have done that, and you mighta made things awk with the brother.
You’re a very interesting person. It’s not wrong to like someone and act on your feelings. But just having sex to have sex causes more harm then good. I think the fact you even ask this question either you feel like you did something wrong or you just want people to tell you want you want to hear on the situation to make you feel better about it.
And if someone walked in seeing their family member naked. That’s fucked up. Don’t be a degenerate ok. Your life will be a lot less complicated that way.
She probably knew that you and he would be interested in fucking, but that you would respect her thoughts on that matter and not do it. But you and he could have been fucking for a long time without her knowing. Hopefully she and you can get over this and she will not be upset by it since obviously you and he are likely to do it a lot more.
He had to have loved it! You are a gorgeous gal and he would certainly grab the opportunity on a weekend like that!
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why would you be a bad friend just cuz you hung out with someone else can have more than one friend lol
Exactly. He was more interested in cuddling
lol :)
Of course more happened than cuddling
I don't see a problem with this. If your friend is jealous or upset, then of course you need to deal with that. If she told you to leave for brother alone and you didn't then that also is an issue. Other than those things, I simply cannot see the difficulty.
She never said he was off-limits
That Friends don't fuck Friend's family
@SarahP080102 If it felt good, and you would do it again, go for it. Hope he was a good fuck and everything you did you enjoyed.
I don't see a problem with it as long as you don't lie to her should it come up. You don't have to tell her either but if she asks be honest. Besides she wanted you to have fun and it sounds like you did
It's a "family trip" and probably not the place to be having sex, if that's what you're implying. And what's with posting your picture (if that's you) along with this? What do your looks have to do with anything?
If he's single then it's fine. What fun did you have?
He is single, and we had adult fun
We were careful.
No but what are the facts? What did you do on your fun weekend?
With her Brother?
She’s mad you didn’t ask her to join in
I don't think she is into him like that
But she may be into you
We have fooled around but it has never been serious
It doesn’t have to be serious as long as it was fun. Was it good enough you would do it again?
Oh yeah
No, it's not like you had a fun weekend with her boyfriend.
As long as he left with his balls empty..
It's all good
@sarahp080102 not at all. You both have needs and if I was you I would fuck him more and make sure she can hear you.
@sarahp080102 if I was your friends brother I'd let you fuck me as much as you want
It's not like you took advantage of him or something, you're both adults
As long as you are both legal consenting adults then nothing can be said, but if you were going to fuck my brother, I would expect you to get my permission first. Otherwise you risk losing my friendship!
For some reason you Girls seem to be more worried about your Friendships instead of your Relationships with Guys, I don't know why.
Would you prefer to spend the rest of your life with your best Friend or the Guy you love?
Creep alert ^^^
If she is actually your friend, then she probably knows how much you enjoy sex and her brother is a guy who will be in close proximity to a sexually charged attractive girl.
YEAH BUT LET'S BE HONEST HERE YOU COULDN'T CARE A LESS ABOUT ANY OF THAT
YOU ABOUT NOTHING BESIDES SPREADING YOUR LEGS
Having a "fun weekend" with your friends brother does not make you a bad friend, now having a fun weekend with your friends boyfriend that would make you a bad friend.
Nope she's just jealous
Exactly. Not my fault she couldn't get any
I agree.
Yes. Just based on the pic. And your real name is Maureen. I know it.
What the F?
Hope you didn't leave your friend out completely. That would be bad. Hopefully she doesn't mind you getting it on with her brother.
No you're not a bad friend. I hope you did spend some time with your friend during the weekend.
You two boned and she walked in on you or something?
Wait ummm can you elaborate on what exactly happened?
Which idiot told you that? stop talking to him
She said I was a horrible friend
stop talking to her.
The question should be, how did she find out?
It was probably a little obvious a couple of time
Did she walk in on you guys?
No she didn't actually see it
Lucky you I've been caught messing around with my sister's friends a few times by her lol
No of course not.
Maybe she wants her brother, lol.
YOLO Have fun while you're still here
She could have joined you
Not at all. Just have fun
Enjoy your life you only get the one.
You can do what you feel like
Yes bc u never reply to my dms haha
Why are you putting your photo?
Nope…you are a good friend
No you aren’t
So you are easy
Cought fucking loads.
Lol it's life dear
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