Don't do it. Embrace your manliness instead. Get some rugby shorts that show off your hairy legs for casual wear and freeballing around the house.
Also buy some great double breasted suits to show how much of a powerful man you are and buy some musky smelling aftershave.
Keep the fridge stocked full of beer but drink in moderation like a man in full control of himself.
Cancel your gym membership and get some if your own equipment you can use in the privacy of your own home and don't brag about how strong you're getting.
Don't prance around in women's clothes and be a bitch, start living like a man, take up metal fabrication as a hobby and learn to keep your house working as it should. Watch sports on the tv and yell at it.
You're a man, embrace it!
Dress however you want. I personally don't associate my clothes with my gender identity, as they are both very fluid. Most of the items i get from the women's section are accessories tho. Like scarves, beanies, maybe some androgynous flats or some bracelets. The rest is pretty much guy stuff.
But yea wear what you want, it feels right.
Sure man, do what ya feel. There's no shame in crossdressing, so long as you're not doing it for entertainment value (basically that thing where people use men in feminine clothes as humor, basically saying any man wearing a dress or something is a joke). Basically, if you want to do it, go for it! Obviously you're going to have to be prepared for negative reactions from some people, but so long as you don't let those get to you you'll be fine.
a warning to you... once you start, it can EASILY become a full blown addiction!. it totally did for me. now i can't be anywhere near womens clothes without checking out the outfits. i have WAY more womens clothes than i do male clothes now too. and every time i turn around im shopping online for hours on end. i can't even remember the last time i even went shopping or looked at males clothes, but can't go over 2 days when it comes to womens
To be honest, if I had a friend in the same situation as you, I would tell them to go for it!
There is no shame in cross dressing. Heck, it can be pretty fun. I'm a girl and I love dressing up and wearing fun clothes. So why can't a guy have that fun also? I don't think people should shame others for it. But unfortunately there are those out there who will. But I don't think that should stop you from doing something you enjoy.
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Life is too short to waste time worrying about what others think. If that is what YOU want to do, then go for it. Life is about creating yourself, and discovering who you want to be. So yes, absolutely! It's not hurting a soul, and it makes you happy. :)
I think you totally should! Your friend should be fine with and should be proud of you for being who you are, and if they're not, they're probably not your friends. I know if it was one of my friends, it may be just a little weird at first, but overall I'd be fine with it, and like I said, I'd be proud of them!
People will always judge you in life no matter what you do so if it makes you happy, do it, no question about it. I'd support my friend in the same situation, if that's the person he/she truly is or if cross dressing is what they like doing then that's fine, who am I to judge? It doesn't affect how I see him or her, still the same person at the end of day despite what clothes they wear.
If its something you want to do go for it... I'm friends with a few drag queens and give my best friend (who is a guy) a few drinks and he will be asking me for a dress, lipstick and heals. He's also worn my leggings at a club coz he couldn't get in in the pants he was wearing and I was wearing leggings under my skirt
Enjoy it sweetie. If you like being dressed like a girl, what's wrong with that? It isn't drugs or alchohol. You might check this book out for helpful tips.
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If I had a crossdressing friend I would advise him to do it in private or gatherings of crossdressings. Honestly I have opinions on gay people and how far is too much. But if you're community (location of where you live) is ok with it then proceed with your life, just be wary of the anti-gay people.
I voted A. If you are holding back because you have a fear of being judged in a negative way... then be bold and unleash your inner girl. You will be judged if you do and you'll be judged if you don't. No matter what we do in life , there's always someone " waiting in the wings" to judge us.
Be who you want to be, and don't allow other peoples ignorant opinions define who you are. If you were my close friend , i'd support and encourage you to pursue anything which made you happy
go right ahead! if it makes you happy then by all means wear whatever you like! i have a friend who sometimes dresses up and wear makeup and i fully support it! have fun and don't worry about what others think! :)
It sounds like somethings you need to really express and the more you deny it, the worse you may feel. Do and wear what you love and be prepared for shit-head to give you shit, but just go on doing your thing.
You do you, boo. If you want to wear a dress that’s up to you. If you want to wear your dress for a walk in the park, that’s also up to you. I wear panties under my guy clothes every day. Do what feels right to you.
Babe, I tried cross dressing too because I've always wanted to.
I did it, and it felt great. You go do your thang baby.
Cross-dressing is a sin. They're are consequences for your actions. The holy lord did not die on the cross so you could go prancing about in panties as you please. May the lord have mercy on you're soul.
do it! its 2015, people should be able to dress how they want without fear of being ridiculed.
It seems to be who you are and it obviously brings you pleasure to dress en femme, so why shouldn't you? Be strong and enjoy!
you should put more thought into why you feel like doing it, if you feel strongly about it, then, you are who you are, but if you are not sure then take time and think, maybe meditate on it or something.
Do whatever the hell you want in your life. It isn't illegal or harming anyone so do you. Fuck what others say. Not literally fuck though ;).
If that's what makes you feel good, 100% do it. Life is self expression and if that is a way to express yourself, and free yourself than defiantly!!!
If you don't mind being looked down on and ridiculed, sure, do it.
Life is too short to second guess yourself. Go have fun!!! :-)
Do what ever floats your boat, its your life you can live it how you see fit.
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