My girlfriend wants me to crossdressing, should I do it?

[jpapayamatch]

Hello, I am a 22 year old guy and I am a couple with my girlfriend who is the same age as me. But here she would like me to crossdressing. If you are a majority think that I can do it then I would do it. Tell me your opinion and I you explain why in the comments.

[Mickey9999]

Just reading your question and the above conversations, i have two opinions. One, if this isn’t for hers or your sexual pleasure than no don’t do it if you don’t want to. Two, from the conversations above it seems to be that she wants you to cross dress in public so that women aren’t attracted to you... that in itself ridiculous in sensibility and extremely controlling. You cheated, i assume you’re apologetic, and it seems she hasn’t forgiven you as she wants you to dress as a woman. If you want to stay in this relationship, she will need time to forgive and learn to trust you again and you will have to earn that trust (not by cross dressing but by making her secure with your attention, love, and thoughtfulness)

[jpapayamatch]

Yes you understand everything. But I think I'll do it if it can reassure her. But it is also a way for her to get revenge and make me lose my virility and as I was a little macho she said that it will give me a good lesson

[Anonymous]

If you don't want to don't. If it makes you uncomfortable don't. Everyone has to set their own boundaries in a relationship. Have you asked her why she wants you do that? Does she have an attraction to feminine men or men who wear make up or is this some sort of bi fantasy for her?

[jpapayamatch]

It's because I cheated on him

[Opinion Owner]

did you mean him or her?

[jpapayamatch]

Sorry I'm not English or American so I'm still making mistakes. I mean she

[Opinion Owner]

I figured it was just a pronoun switch. Well if you feel guilty then I guess do it as your punishment.

[jpapayamatch]

Yes of course I feel guilty. Okay so you think I should do it?

[Opinion Owner]

No you don't have to do it. Tell her you will make it up to her in other ways and be completely faithful to her from now on or it will become a really bad habit she won't be able to ignore. Just be completely honest and be good to her every day.

[jpapayamatch]

Yes, but she told me that if I dressed myself like that I would not attract the attention of women is true

[Opinion Owner]

that is no guarantee. She has to be able to trust you. She doesn't have to worry about the other women it is you she should be focusing on.

[jpapayamatch]

I see what you mean. But she says there is much less chance that women will care about me if I dress up as a woman. And she thinks it's a just punishment

[Katie1964]

Well, that's up to you. Are you comfortable wearing women's clothing? If not, are you willing to do that for her fantasy? If the answer is no to both of those, then don't.

As for me, I am pretty willing to role play with Hubby and I feel secure with him. But he also does not ask me to do things if I tell him that I am not comfortable doing what he wants.

Probably need to have a discussion with her about how you feel about it.

[jpapayamatch]

I never wear women's clothes. But in fact it's for revenge because I cheated on it. I told him that if people think I deserve then I would do it

[Katie1964]

I'm confused. In your question you said girlfriend, in your response you said "him". Is this a poor command of the English language, one of those new gender confusion things or just trolling?

[jpapayamatch]

yes sorry I do not speak English well yet

[jpapayamatch]

I'm not English or American yet sorry for mistakes

[Katie1964]

Its fine, don't worry about it.

[jpapayamatch]

Thanks you are kind.

[jpapayamatch]

Anyway she said I'll start tomorrow. She's going to teach me how to make up, how to walk with heels, and she said a lot of other things

[Katerina_Belle]

Don’t ever let someone have the power to make you do something you don’t want to do.

So if you don’t want to do it then don’t.

[Hamsteroids]

Lol dude if you’re into cross dressing, then just say so. No one cares if you do

[jpapayamatch]

Yes, but it's not that I like it. But I do not know if you've read the other comments, but she wants to do that because I cheated on her

[Hamsteroids]

Then she should’ve dumped you, not make you cross dress 🙄

[jpapayamatch]

I see your point of view. But she gives me a chance if I crossdressing myself.

[jpapayamatch]

Do you think I deserve it

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Don’t do it if you don’t want to.

[jpapayamatch]

Yes, but she wants to do that to me because I cheated on her. And I really regret it.

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Getting revenge is a bad thing. Would you doing this change your relationship for the better? No. So don’t do it.

[jpapayamatch]

Bey she told me that it would reassure her because if I dress up as a woman I will not attract the attention of women anymore

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Lol that’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard today 😂😂😂 You know this is bullshit.

[jpapayamatch]

I do not know, it seems logical to me that by being dressed as a woman I do not attract women's attention or they will not be interested in me, because I think the majority of women are not interested in the men who are going dress up as a woman.

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

I thought she only wanted you to dress up in private. Apparently she wants you to do that in public too. It’s hilarious you let her decide what to do 😂 Seriously, grow some balls because you had the balls to cheat on her

[jpapayamatch]

Oh, it's not nice of you to laugh at me.😢 Yes she also wants me to do this in public and everyday. She says it's a good lesson for me.

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

I have no mercy for cheaters. Deal with it.

[jpapayamatch]

Yes I see you have no mercy. So you think my girlfriend is right?

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Nope. I said that getting revenge is wrong. But I don’t side with you either because you screwed up big time.

[jpapayamatch]

Oh okay. Anyway she said I'll start tomorrow. She's going to teach me how to make up, how to walk with heels, and she said a lot of other things

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Lol okay. Good luck then

[jpapayamatch]

She also said that with time not following but that over time we will start by replacing my clothes man. I just hope that with time I will not take the woman's habits and that my manhood will remain intact.

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Lol 😂 That doesn’t work that way at all haha 😂

[jpapayamatch]

Please do not make fun of me. What do you want to say exactly?

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

What I want to say is what I’ve said multiple times now: you choose whether you do it or not. Apparently you made the choice to do it, so good luck with it. That’s all I can say

[jpapayamatch]

Yes, I decided to do it but I do not really have a choice, it is a complicated situation and it would be too long to explain in the comments. In any case, thank you for your answers. And does it bother you if I ask you for advice for example on make-up to help me?

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

Your girlfriend would be happy to help you with that. I won’t help you with that.

[jpapayamatch]

Oh yes she is very happy. Sorry I did not want to bother you or bother you again sorry. Just one last question, do you think that with time I would take women's habits?

[DiamondQueenOfAce]

No lol

[jpapayamatch]

Ok, that reassures me

[Agape93]

If you like it, go for it!

[VictoriaJane3044]

This is a little bizarre.

[jpapayamatch]

it's because I cheated on her

[abby712]

Are u gay?

[jpapayamatch]

No lol

[abby712]

Then why would u ever consider cross dressing?

[jpapayamatch]

This is my girlfriend who wants. Because I cheated on him and that's the way to get revenge

[abby712]

On him

[jpapayamatch]

oh sorry I'm not English nor American I still make mistakes

[jpapayamatch]

Do you think I deserve it?

[abby712]

Sounds like your gay have fun with your gay marriage.

[jpapayamatch]

I am not gay. I make spelling mistakes because I do not yet speak English properly. But she wants to do this to for revenge because as I cheated on her