Why do girls wear chokers like they are some enslaved animal? Doesn't this demean them?

Question

Sure it is sexy, however, it is also like marking yourself as being submissive and a slave. It is similar to those neck chains people would put around slaves in ancient Rome. Isn't this demeaning sexually? Don't you want equal treatment as a gender? Or will you do anything to impress a man, even if that means catering to his dominating tendencies.

Dim1213 · Accepted Answer

A choker like that is not at all choking her. It is just a pretty necklace.
The dog collar and emo collars are what you are referring too.
My answer is that they enjoy feeling like an animal while wearing a dog collar. Some women like the feeling of it. While others do it for looks or cause they enjoy how it looks.
It all depends on the girl. My innocent freind wore a choker like that one time and it surprised the heck out of me. When I asked her about it. She just said it was a nice piece of jewelry and she enjoyed how she looked in it.
My other freind who wore dog collars when asked said that she enjoyed the slight choking feeling it gave her.
All women are different and wear different things for different reasons. It is usually very bad to generalize things with a big group of people.

RealLifeSnorlax · Accepted Answer

Chokers are the black belt of sucking dick

dragonfly6516 · Accepted Answer

I'm a sub, proud of it, and very much enjoy being a sub. But while we're on the topic:
Ear Piercing was originally a status symbol. Men with both ears pierced were considered most wealthy.

High heeled shoes were originally worn by men because height was also a status symbol.

Corsetry was practiced by both sexes as a corset forced you to stand straighter, taller, and carry yourself more regally.

Women didn't usually have money of their own, so the men carried the coin purse.

Shoulder pads, now commonly found in women's blouses were also originally a male accouterment, because wide shoulders gave the impression of a broad body, also a sign of power.

PinkMichae · Accepted Answer

I have never heard of such a thing. I sell alternative jewelry including chokers. It's simply a style. Chokers were common amongst women in the Victorian days. Do you think they thought of themselves as animals. I'm very curious what quack job gave you this information? If anything these days a lot of women who are more rebellious, strong, and independent wear chokers. Now if you're specifically talking about sex collars women can wear them in a submissive or dominant sexual situation. And there's nothing wrong with being free with your freaky side.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

This is a good one...

My boyfriend being 41 thinks this same thing.
When he sees girls wearing these he thinks they want to get fucked BDSM style and that this is there way of showing men that's what they want from them.
I think that's a stupid way of thinking and shows ne where the mans mind is at...
We as women wear them because they look good and are in style at this point in time thats all.

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

i wear a choker and i'm not a feminist so i'm not bothered by what it might entail but i'll admit i've always gave my boyfriends blowjobs and i'm not exactly embarassed by the fact that i do... and i never met a man who didn't want them or didn't like them so let's not pretend... although a feminist might be offended by this

SarahsSummer · Accepted Answer

You sir are a pretty twisted individual. It's just a piece of jewelry. I suspect you think bracelets are symbolic of shackles keeping us enslaved as well.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven't worn a choker, and I'm not crazy about wearing one, but I think it might just be an accessory, or have similar effects as sexy lingeries to men who do get turned on by them.

The choker itself in my opinion, might not make us slaves, but it's how men treat us during sex.

I don't want a partner who would choke me when we're having sex, if he had not communicated with me about his fetish/fantasy as such, and just choked me all of a sudden. In fact, I might panic and/or get offended, and would slap him if my partner choked me. When I regained my consciousness and could breathe, I would say something like "Don't you ever disrespect me. We're done!" Then put on my clothes and walk away.

PromasMorris · Answer

I wear a chocker bcause I hate feeling free I have feeling that people all over the world are not free so I don't want to act richer or wealthier then they are so to do so I wear a chocker so I'm not free. my boyfriend says that I'm his maid and he controls me but I still love him.

lexythelou22 · Answer

I think you tried to wear one and it cut off circulation to your brain, dear. It's a trendy accessory, not just something to fulfill some fetish. And I dont wear them for men. Quite frankly, I don't give a fuck about a man's opinion unless he's paying for my clothes and accessories👍

JetplaneJane · Answer

I think chokers make nice accessories, they add a sexy edge to a lot of outfits. But I never wear them because men have it in their heads that it means something sexual, particularly blowjobs. I see a lot of really pretty ones that I'd love to wear but then I stop and remember that everyone will think I'm DTF if I do.

Kitten967 · Answer

Chokers used to be worn by prostitutes so others knew what they were. Also some women like being submissive and a slave. Most women just find it as a fashion trend

Anonymous · Answer

I wear chokers and choker chains and I like bdsm but have never had sex so I'm not a sex slave. I enjoy being choked because it's a much more natural form of getting high than drugs and I like having someone I trust enough not to kill me when they have their hands or belt or scarf around my neck. I always wore chokers because I like the fashion look and because they make me feel secure but I never thought they hinted towards liking being choked because most girls I know who wear them don't like being choked. Sometimes people choke me when I wear my chokers so I get it

Katie2244 · Answer

I wear chokers because I like them I certainly don't find it demeaning in any way

ObedientMalee · Answer

Your looking into it way too much and i bet you just made this question to get off to answers. They wear it because they want to and it's in fashion nowdays

Anonymous · Answer

If you think that wearing a piece of jewelry is enough to make you look like an enslaved animal, what can I say... Something must be wrong with your perception. As for me, I dislike chokers passionately, however other people like them. It's not up to me to dictate them what to wear.

Kayla45 · Answer

There are many reasons why we do it, I personally wear chokers and collars for cosplay and role-play purposes. Many men fetishize being dominate over women, that's how it got started. It's basically a sexual fetish.

Beth97 · Answer

I like them... but not the stupid 12 year old novelty kind. freaking do it right. leather strap... metal ring... I do enjoy being a sub and I'm a freak, but I wear them because I like them. I like being different. except now that its trendy, everyone is

WriterAndPainter · Answer

Chokers have been around for 1,000's of years. They were worn to protect or used as a symbol of power. It does not demean women in any way shape or form.

Memememe1234 · Answer

I personally think its just a fashion trend that will eventually die out. Also i actually really like it. It's just a neclace and i dont really see what the problem with it is. Goes with a lot of outfits 👍

Soteris · Answer

No. Choakers are about as closely related to what you think of as socks are to shoes. They go on the same body part, they might look.. vaguely the same.. but they are completely different.

Besides even if they were wearing straight up dog/cat collars does not mean they want to be treated as animals. This whole "I look like this so treat me accordingly" was bullshit when people said women asked to be raped by how they dressed and its bullshit now.

likitb4istickit · Answer

Because sometimes they are an enslaved animal. It's just a fashion statement. The statement is usually something along the lines of "Come fuck me, I do it like an animal and it takes less effort than average to get in my pants". That's been my experience anyway. Hell as far as fashion statements to me it's more demeaning that some black guy wears his pants half down his ass with the pant legs getting tripped over. Whoever's idea that originally was is a moron.

FusionGuy · Answer

I fucking love chokers, I see one and sexual ideas flourish through my mind. Maybe women do like to be treated like animalistic slaves (and maybe I like treating them like one) and they won't admit it obviously but why does it matter. Takes a real man to treat a woman like that in bed and equally outside.

Anonymous · Answer

I think a choker looks sexy. And many women chose what to wear based on how it makes them feel. If it makes them feel sexy and attractive, good for them and their choice.

If you think it's because women think they are sub human, there's something psychologically wrong with you. Like, we're going to see your neighbors talking about you on the news some day, that kind of wrong.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

I am a man who wears chokers. Not the kinds you are thinking of but more like these:  What does it say about me?

Linda2233 · Answer

Well, i don't like them, but it is used as an acc. To make clothes or whatever that girl wearing so much better. And they don't have any hidden meanings, just an ordinary accessory.

maghat · Answer

Yes it is. And it's also sexy to us men. Girls will do anything to be sexy these days, probably just a generational fad, but a great time to be a guy 😜

RJGraveyTrain · Answer

Lmfao #anonlogic It's a fashion trend dude, relax.

normalice · Answer

I think they're really hot, myself. It might have something to do with some subtle suggestion that a girl who wears one is 'punishable' or something, but mostly, I think it accentuates a girl's neck. And necks are sexy.

Mr-Kabuki · Answer

It's called a necklace that's tight. That's it. Thats like saying wearing bracelets are demeaning cause they are like handcuffs or wearing a jacket is like a straight jacket

Anonymous · Answer

Women like to be enslaved. Women natural tendency is to be subservant to a strong man.

CheerGirl38139 · Answer

why the fuck was this posted in sexual behavior?

sailorjupiter · Answer

Even I wore the choker whenever I want to feel sexy (underneath my hijab, at home, during my dancing workout), nothing to feel like a slave or what, it's just a fashion/trend

glamgamergal · Answer

a choker is just a tight necklace tbh thats why they sell it with all the jewlery and not with lingerie its just an accessory

lushbomb · Answer

it was so in in 2014... died.. then cam back 2016. and it just looks nice.

GuyWannaHelp · Answer

The fact that it is called a "choker" doesn't mean it is demeaning. It is just a neckless which is tight to the throat, nothing more.

AnaWryneck · Answer

Not all women think the same so you can't talk about "Don't you want" when we all don't want the same things let alone it's cloth or w. e the fuck it is doesn't say nothing about their personalities

Blitzkrieger · Answer

I dont think women wear it for that reason. But some bdsm collars for public wear do look a lot like chokers. Its mainly not to arouse suspicion.

vishna · Answer

Let's skip the fluff, go ahead and put the Dave Chapelle video in the comments.

CrystalChild · Answer

quitte frankly it's odd that's what you think of when you see a girl in a choker

markony · Answer

I am admiring why do girls leashing themeslves like animals !!
One time a stupid gir sent back PM asking me a about her leashing Chocker
And it turned out that she is truly animal
Like what everyone here said LOL

JustinTheGreat · Answer

I think you're just reading into it too much. It's just a necklace

Monica1602 · Answer

What kind of stupid make a big deal about a piece of jewelry?

12345Bee · Answer

Um, because it's a fashion trend and they are cute? Not demeaning at all

RealandGenuine26 · Answer

I don't... mainly because I don't like it hugging my neck. it feels uncomfortable

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I think they're just fashion. I used to wear them when I was 10 or so and with no idea about the submissive business.

WhereIsMyMind · Answer

I never thought they looked slutty or degrading, I just thought they were the type of thing 13 year old emo's wear.

MusicMayhem · Answer

It just draws attention to their sexy, feminine necks that's all.

Stone_Fizzlebeef · Answer

Not bad for troll bait. You're missing something, though... maybe a few buzz words like 'LGBT', 'heteronormative' and 'patriarchy', just to name a few. Use these tools wisely for maximum kek.

For Kekistan!

coachTanthony · Answer

chokers are very sexy... just like earrings or perfume.. lets not get carried away here ! lol

SovereignessofVamps · Answer

How can an object demean someone? You get to define what you wear.

Nuala · Answer

We want them because we like how they look... Has nothing to do with what you're talking about.

JustCallMeLeon · Answer

Its just a piece of jewelry mate... You watch too much bdsm...

beccaboo2 · Answer

Chokers are just a type of jewelry that has been in and out of fashion for centuries. Everyone from queens to prostitutes have worn them.

Imhotep99 · Answer

Don't judge a book by it's cover.

Jan1ssary_ · Answer

Lol, all of chicks are over you cause of this shit, for sure its sexy AF but there was no reason to add it on ''Sexual Behaviour'' in the beginning lmao.

Bubblemilktae · Answer

What... i wear them only for fashion and because it looks cute. If people think me as a submissive or whatsover i dont really care. Like, judge me all you want. Good bye lol.

Smarter · Answer

lol, I have seen that last night. smh, they are saying choke me. They like objectification.

Jager66 · Answer

chokers are hot!! seriously, nothing hotter on a woman than a collar.

4465loveyou5577 · Answer

Is this a troll question?

yilanjor · Answer

Whatever women say about this topic makes no sense. Chokers are obviously making them look like a slave, an animal

Anonymous · Answer

Dude, wow!! How old are you again LOL? It's just fashion. It's all good!

Anonymous · Answer

Not this bitch. Too much boss going on here.. Might put a leash And chain on him though 💋

writer1000000 · Answer

it was very few slaves in ancient Rome that had neck chains or even chains at all

PT1911 · Answer

Newsflash: Women do the exact opposite of what they want

Anonymous · Answer

Chokers are pretty, there is no deep meaning for most of the girls.

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