A choker like that is not at all choking her. It is just a pretty necklace.
The dog collar and emo collars are what you are referring too.
My answer is that they enjoy feeling like an animal while wearing a dog collar. Some women like the feeling of it. While others do it for looks or cause they enjoy how it looks.
It all depends on the girl. My innocent freind wore a choker like that one time and it surprised the heck out of me. When I asked her about it. She just said it was a nice piece of jewelry and she enjoyed how she looked in it.
My other freind who wore dog collars when asked said that she enjoyed the slight choking feeling it gave her.
All women are different and wear different things for different reasons. It is usually very bad to generalize things with a big group of people.
Chokers are the black belt of sucking dick
I'm a sub, proud of it, and very much enjoy being a sub. But while we're on the topic:
Ear Piercing was originally a status symbol. Men with both ears pierced were considered most wealthy.
High heeled shoes were originally worn by men because height was also a status symbol.
Corsetry was practiced by both sexes as a corset forced you to stand straighter, taller, and carry yourself more regally.
Women didn't usually have money of their own, so the men carried the coin purse.
Shoulder pads, now commonly found in women's blouses were also originally a male accouterment, because wide shoulders gave the impression of a broad body, also a sign of power.
I have never heard of such a thing. I sell alternative jewelry including chokers. It's simply a style. Chokers were common amongst women in the Victorian days. Do you think they thought of themselves as animals. I'm very curious what quack job gave you this information? If anything these days a lot of women who are more rebellious, strong, and independent wear chokers. Now if you're specifically talking about sex collars women can wear them in a submissive or dominant sexual situation. And there's nothing wrong with being free with your freaky side.
This is a good one...
My boyfriend being 41 thinks this same thing.
When he sees girls wearing these he thinks they want to get fucked BDSM style and that this is there way of showing men that's what they want from them.
I think that's a stupid way of thinking and shows ne where the mans mind is at...
We as women wear them because they look good and are in style at this point in time thats all.
i wear a choker and i'm not a feminist so i'm not bothered by what it might entail but i'll admit i've always gave my boyfriends blowjobs and i'm not exactly embarassed by the fact that i do... and i never met a man who didn't want them or didn't like them so let's not pretend... although a feminist might be offended by this
You sir are a pretty twisted individual. It's just a piece of jewelry. I suspect you think bracelets are symbolic of shackles keeping us enslaved as well.
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I haven't worn a choker, and I'm not crazy about wearing one, but I think it might just be an accessory, or have similar effects as sexy lingeries to men who do get turned on by them.
The choker itself in my opinion, might not make us slaves, but it's how men treat us during sex.
I don't want a partner who would choke me when we're having sex, if he had not communicated with me about his fetish/fantasy as such, and just choked me all of a sudden. In fact, I might panic and/or get offended, and would slap him if my partner choked me. When I regained my consciousness and could breathe, I would say something like "Don't you ever disrespect me. We're done!" Then put on my clothes and walk away.
I wear a chocker bcause I hate feeling free I have feeling that people all over the world are not free so I don't want to act richer or wealthier then they are so to do so I wear a chocker so I'm not free. my boyfriend says that I'm his maid and he controls me but I still love him.
I think you tried to wear one and it cut off circulation to your brain, dear. It's a trendy accessory, not just something to fulfill some fetish. And I dont wear them for men. Quite frankly, I don't give a fuck about a man's opinion unless he's paying for my clothes and accessories👍
I think chokers make nice accessories, they add a sexy edge to a lot of outfits. But I never wear them because men have it in their heads that it means something sexual, particularly blowjobs. I see a lot of really pretty ones that I'd love to wear but then I stop and remember that everyone will think I'm DTF if I do.
Chokers used to be worn by prostitutes so others knew what they were. Also some women like being submissive and a slave. Most women just find it as a fashion trend
I wear chokers and choker chains and I like bdsm but have never had sex so I'm not a sex slave. I enjoy being choked because it's a much more natural form of getting high than drugs and I like having someone I trust enough not to kill me when they have their hands or belt or scarf around my neck. I always wore chokers because I like the fashion look and because they make me feel secure but I never thought they hinted towards liking being choked because most girls I know who wear them don't like being choked. Sometimes people choke me when I wear my chokers so I get it
I wear chokers because I like them I certainly don't find it demeaning in any way
Your looking into it way too much and i bet you just made this question to get off to answers. They wear it because they want to and it's in fashion nowdays
If you think that wearing a piece of jewelry is enough to make you look like an enslaved animal, what can I say... Something must be wrong with your perception. As for me, I dislike chokers passionately, however other people like them. It's not up to me to dictate them what to wear.
There are many reasons why we do it, I personally wear chokers and collars for cosplay and role-play purposes. Many men fetishize being dominate over women, that's how it got started. It's basically a sexual fetish.
I like them... but not the stupid 12 year old novelty kind. freaking do it right. leather strap... metal ring... I do enjoy being a sub and I'm a freak, but I wear them because I like them. I like being different. except now that its trendy, everyone is
Chokers have been around for 1,000's of years. They were worn to protect or used as a symbol of power. It does not demean women in any way shape or form.
I personally think its just a fashion trend that will eventually die out. Also i actually really like it. It's just a neclace and i dont really see what the problem with it is. Goes with a lot of outfits 👍
No. Choakers are about as closely related to what you think of as socks are to shoes. They go on the same body part, they might look.. vaguely the same.. but they are completely different.
Besides even if they were wearing straight up dog/cat collars does not mean they want to be treated as animals. This whole "I look like this so treat me accordingly" was bullshit when people said women asked to be raped by how they dressed and its bullshit now.
Because sometimes they are an enslaved animal. It's just a fashion statement. The statement is usually something along the lines of "Come fuck me, I do it like an animal and it takes less effort than average to get in my pants". That's been my experience anyway. Hell as far as fashion statements to me it's more demeaning that some black guy wears his pants half down his ass with the pant legs getting tripped over. Whoever's idea that originally was is a moron.
I fucking love chokers, I see one and sexual ideas flourish through my mind. Maybe women do like to be treated like animalistic slaves (and maybe I like treating them like one) and they won't admit it obviously but why does it matter. Takes a real man to treat a woman like that in bed and equally outside.
I think a choker looks sexy. And many women chose what to wear based on how it makes them feel. If it makes them feel sexy and attractive, good for them and their choice.
If you think it's because women think they are sub human, there's something psychologically wrong with you. Like, we're going to see your neighbors talking about you on the news some day, that kind of wrong.
I am a man who wears chokers. Not the kinds you are thinking of but more like these:
www.rivithead.com/.../...leather-choker-14cls.html
www.rivithead.com/.../2-row-pyramid-choker.html
What does it say about me?
Well, i don't like them, but it is used as an acc. To make clothes or whatever that girl wearing so much better. And they don't have any hidden meanings, just an ordinary accessory.
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