I've just felt so insecure about having big eyes because people used to make fun of my eyes but some people say they are really pretty so I'm just curious to hear others opinions.
If a girl has big eyes is that a turn on or turn off?
The eye size doesn't matter at all as long as I find them attractive (color, shape, brightness... etc). For instance, a lot of Asian women have beautiful eyes regardless of their small size. And the opposite is true.
And one more thing, If you keep being insecure about your eyes' size, you won't be attractive. I assure you. There is nothing more unattractive than a girl who constantly thinks there is something wrong with her. I would have to continuously remind her that there is nothing wrong with her, she would feel good for a day, a week or a month and then the cycle repeats itself.
So, for god's sake, learn to accept yourself for who you are. How you ask? It is easy, just (fully) accept this truth:
-- Not everyone will like you or find you attractive.
It may sound a little hard to swallow but it is the only truth you won't find in any self-help book and you need to accept and understand it if you want to live happy and secure for the rest of your life.
Understanding that no matter how beautiful, charming or nice you are there will be always those who find you ugly, horrible and rude is so enlightening. You will feel bold to love your big eyes and accept them as an integral part of you. Your confidence will soar high. And when that happens, You won't come here and ask for random strangers' opinions about you.
It will take you time to fully accept this truth and live with it as it did with me but in the end, the benefits you'll reap are far worthy of the time. Good luck!
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Well, let's put it this way- I regularly jerk off to girls who look like this:
https://data.whicdn.com/images/67017955/large.jpg
Now, do you think that I find bigger eyes to be a turn-on, or a turn-off? And do you think that the sexiest anime girl characters having larger eyes is a coincidence, or intentional to try and emphasise their relative beauty and 'cut factor'?
Girl, are you serious? Big eyes are usually perceived to be a hallmark of beauty across different cultures. If you go online and search for "what beauty looks like around world", tell me how many people on there have small eyes? I'm pretty sure (and I'm not dissing small eyed people) that the majority of the searches will present you with big eyed people. So what the duck are those people who don't like your eyes talking about?
Please don't let what others opinion dictate whether or not you should appreciate your outer (and inner beauty too of c) appearances, because you should be your own best friend and love what you have. Easier to embrace yourself than to reject, right?
*Opinion from a big eyed person like you.
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Who cares what other people think! You are Beautiful just the way you are and anyone who can't see that is blind. One day you will find someone who appreciates you in every way. I actually have an adorable story for you. My mom always was self conscious about her nose and she hated it (she never told anybody though) and one day my dad just mentioned that his favorite thing about her was her nose. He said it was just so cute and made her stand out from all the rest.
My point is that not everyone will like everything about you but find the people who LOVE everything about you, flaws and all.
You're Gorgeous hold your head up high❤️
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If it fits your face then I don't see how it can e a turn off. It's just another facial feature. Unless you have those weird bug eyes that make you look like an alien or something. That cab get a little weird.
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I think that it is supposed to be a perk, especially if it looks proportional to her other facial features
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Either one. It the person inside that counts. See how the female is. It all about flesh. If a female has true love in her. When it shine in her eyes that it will be the same with small eyes or large eyes.
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A lot of things you get made fun of for in school turn out to be your best feature later on. Like freckles, for another example.
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it all depends on different people. just like some prefer brunette over blonde. it doesn't mean blondes are ugly it's all just preferences. big eyes are fine. don't let that make you feel ugly. you're pretty just the way you are
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I love all types of eyes and all shapes are pretty. My preference on guys are almond shaped eyes, I find them interesting. My friends has big round eyes and looks beautiful.
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It depends on the eyes and the whole face but in general big eyes are really attractive. And they probably made fun of you because they were jealous or just simply a child.. when I was younger people just to make fun of my big lips and now everyone tells me how beautiful they are.. :)
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I'm curious as to how big your eyes are... if I find you attractive, then I find you attractive. That includes your eyes. :)
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I think big eyes look great and if it suits your face then it's fine
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Big eyes are beautiful... I have smaller eyes, sometimes I wish they were bigger.
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Felicity Jones has big eyes, and those eyes are absolutely captivating!
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I'm not turned on or off by the size of a persons eyes. That's just weird.
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I think it depends on the proportion of the eyes to the rest of the face, but these larger pupils are dumb, i mean it's not about a huge iris in my case.
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ffs many people find different things attractive, someone out there finds them attractive. ffs these questions annoy me
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I'm an eye person I'd probably like it. but frankly its dependant on a whole lot
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I have friend whose a girl that has big eyes and they are very beautiful as you can get lost in them.
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From everything I've heard and read guys love girls who have big eyes!
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I think it depends, can you give me an example? find a picture and show me something similar to yours. I will tell you the complete truth.
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I think it is pretty sexy..
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Girls with big eyes are a turn on for sure.
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Depend how big are your eyes.
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Eye size doesn't factor into beauty for me.
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