Girls do you wear choker necklaces?

[phyllisisabelle]

[winelover2424]

I don't get it either... I feel like women these days have no idea what guys like/care about/find attractive... To be brutally honest, and I feel like I speak for many of my fellow dudes when I say this, men honestly could give a fuck-less about stuff like big ass eyebrows, weird lip stick, chokers, etc., etc., etc. You ladies are spending way too much time worrying about shit like this and/or trying to out do other women... I fully blame Pinterest, Instagram, possibly the Kardashians (they are the absolute WORST), etc.

[diamondcrocodile]

Men always assume we dress the way we dress and look the way we look to impress them. WE DON'T. We do it because we want to, not to get your approval or attention. If a girl wants to do her makeup or wear a choker, who are YOU to tell her she can't? Do what makes you happy. Living your life constantly seeking the approval of others will get you nowhere.

[phyllisisabelle]

I dont see it that way. Girls do it for themselves not to out do other women. Would you rather women just went completely natural and didn't shave or wear any makeup or fix their hair? Sure there are some girls who go to extremes but most women do it just to make themselves feel good. Whats wrong with that?

[diamondcrocodile]

@phyllisisabelle yes

[Probably_Friendzoned]

You nailed it dude.

[lumos]

Right... what if I told you that we don't give a fuck about what you like and wear this for ourselves? Quit making everything about you lol

[winelover2424]

Oh fuck, I really stirred the feminist hornets nest this time... lol... what I didn't say, and looking back now, should have included in my previous comment, was that what men want is a women who knows who she is. Self-confidence is the sexiest thing about a woman. If you truly want to paint your eyebrows on with a paint roller, wear chokers or shoestrings or whatever around your neck, or whatever else is "trending", go right ahead, do it. I was just giving a male perspective, so calm down. That's the problem with girls these days - you expect men to give you their full attention all day, everyday and listen to everything you have to say, and for us give you meaningful/deep answers to every stupid question you nag us with, and blah blah blah, but then when we actually try to, you either don't want to hear it, or twist it into us attacking women and start with all the hyper-feminist bullshit (btw y'all don't understand feminism at all, go read a history book)...

[winelover2424]

P. s. Back when I was in highschool and college (I'm 30 years old, FYI), most girls wore fucking sweat pants and hoodies to class or whatever they could throw on quick... They didn't give a fuck... They were the last great generation of women... I couldn't even imagine being that age today... No wonder there are so many gay dudes now...

[diamondcrocodile]

@winelover2424

1) you're obviously just a troll that enjoys harassing women, I can just imagine you just giddy from the reaction you've gotten

2) no one said anything about feminism, you just hate when women disagree with you and stand up for themselves and voice their opinion apparently

3) You cannot say that you support a women for being confident and following "whatever else is 'trending'" but then go right back and get mad for us doing exactly that. I told you we do it for ourselves, not the approval of men. That means I am confident enough in myself that I do things I enjoy! So what's wrong with that?

4) Do not disregard what I have to say as nonsense just because you don't like it.

[diamondcrocodile]

also, everything you have said is hilarious. You want a woman in sweats that is easily pushed around that you can convince to do whatever you want without talking back. goooood.

"No wonder there are so many gay dudes now" 😂

[diamondcrocodile]

I'm tired, and you can throw whatever insults or civil explanations you want at me, but I probably won't respond because I'll be sleeping ✌ enjoy that wine 🍷

[winelover2424]

I love how you just automatically assume I'm a troll... or that I'm a male chauvinistic pig... Or that I get off on harassing women... or whatever else you want to say about me/call me... Again, I was just giving my opinion as a man... I'm sorry I offended you, but I'm not sorry for being man enough to say what I said... I could have been a little less sarcastic/facetious in the way I worded it, but it is what it is. by the way... Just bc you feel a certain way, doesn't mean I have to... that's why it's called an opinion... by the way... Not liking what someone has to say doesn't give you the right to personally attack and make snap judgements about them...

[diamondcrocodile]

When did I say you were a male chauvinistic pig? When did I personally attack you? If you'd go back and read my first response, it was completely civil and respectful. I do admit I did get slightly more annoyed after you referred to my comment as a feminist hornets nest and then went off on a tangent about how women "expect men to give you their full attention all day, everyday and listen to everything you have to say, and for us give you meaningful/deep answers to every stupid question you nag us with, and blah blah blah," when it was really completely irrelevant to the topic, especially since I definitely wasn't asking you to sit down with me and share feelings and have a deep conversation. And implying that our shitty personalities cause men to "go gay". And when you said women your age were the "last great generation if women", now who's attacking whom?

[diamondcrocodile]

Go ahead and have your opinion, but if you were reading the actual question, you'd also notice that @OP specifically asked girls, she didn't ask for your opinion. We aren't required to appreciate it, just like I'm not required to like your opinion and just like you're not required to agree with me.

[winelover2424]

Yea, I admit that I misread the damn question at first... You really "got me", didn't you? Are you happy now? Can we finally just fucking drop this?

[diamondcrocodile]

My aim wasn't to "get you" 😞, but yes, we can drop it.

[diamondcrocodile]

I didn't attack him and I didn't assume he was against women.

[Probably_Friendzoned]

You literally said exactly that. He is completely in the right here. You attacked him for having an opinion contrary to your own, and he rightly mocked you for it.

[didden6]

This is somthing that dates back to the roman empire a friend of mine works at the museum and he Always laughs theb fact that back then a black cord around the neck means she is a prostitute
but thats a long time ago these days the meaning is gone i think.
I do think it looks good on a girl
sorry for my English im from Belgium

[Julietta816]

No, I don't wear them. And I don't like them. I think women looks like a slut when they're wearing them. Sorry not sorry. Like you're wearing dog-collar.
I wear normal necklaces, looks good and classy.
If you want to wear them go ahead, it's your choice, but I told you my opinion and I hope you will not insult me for having opinion different than yours.

[phyllisisabelle]

A dog collar would have a ring on it to attach a leash to it. These dont.

[Julietta816]

Okey, you're right. But they're still looking like a dog-collars to me even without that ring.
And there are many types of chokers. And chokers with ring exist.

[luvstoned4him]

Yes but I wear more of the quirky kinds.

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[Lithium65]

knew it ;)

[luvstoned4him]

@Lithium65 lol haha :D

[LittleSally]

Sometimes, but the pretty, classy kind.

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[diamondcrocodile]

I do wear them, in fact I'm wearing one in my profile picture lol. But it's the only one I own, I don't own any of the thick black ones like the ones you posted.

[phyllisisabelle]

Only the bottom one is a thick black one.

[diamondcrocodile]

Thick or* black ones, my bad. Do you wear chokers?

[phyllisisabelle]

Yes. The thin black ones are my favorites.

[Bulletproofdino]

Chokers look good, because it's basically a necklace.

[winelover2424]

I am really not trying to be an asshole, but I just want you ladies to understand us men better, so I feel obligated to say this: Chokers are not equivalent to necklaces. Necklaces/pearls/etc. show class; chokers = trash. If you asked the majority of men, let me be clear, REAL MEN (those looking for "wifey material", not just someone to bone), what they think of a woman who wears chokers, most would respond with a term that rhymes with "smore"... and any guy that says he likes them only says that bc he thinks girls that wear chokers are easy... See my opinion I posted earlier for clarification...

[phyllisisabelle]

@winelover2424 Then thats the guys problem not the girls. Apparently you haven't seen some of the choker necklaces out there. Men I guess equate the word choker to bondage. If they do thats their problem. I wasn't aware you spoke for all real men.

[lumos]

@winelover2424 necklace = any type of jewelry you put around your NECK. Good bye

[diamondcrocodile]

@winelover2424 bruh!! The lives of women do not revolve around pleasing men!! Stop trying to control what girls wear and do, we can do whatever the hell we want, whether you approve or not! Jesus Christ, it's like you don't even HEAR any of the actual women trying to explain to you that this ISN'T for you

[ShortCircuit]

I like them, I really do. I just wish there wasn't such a huge "slut" stigma placed on them. I can't look at them the same way.

[natebragz]

TBH, whenever I see someone with a choker I have a throwback of when me and my friends were watching Orphan. Trust me, its not a good movie.

[Warmapplecrumble]

What happens in movie?

[natebragz]

@Warmapplecrumble The adopted girl ends up being this demonic old lady that kills the dad because he's loyal. It's a horror movie. The wife finds out she escaped an asylum by squeezing herself into a girls body

[Warmapplecrumble]

Sounds creepy... how is the choker related?

[natebragz]

@Warmapplecrumble she wore a choker... by the way what's your name?

[natebragz]

@Warmapplecrumble I mean they do look quite cute on girls, but some of them just get me

[Warmapplecrumble]

Apple is my name on gag

And I can't wear choker.. I have asthma, and anything on my neck too tight triggers it

[natebragz]

@Warmapplecrumble that sucks... why apple tho :P

[natebragz]

In my opinion its better if a girl doesn't have anything but a simple shirt, and pant. Not even makeup (it makes you seem as insecure), for me at least

[Warmapplecrumble]

Short of my gag name :-p

[natebragz]

@Warmapplecrumble?

[Warmapplecrumble]

Jeans and shirt look good on girls

But I prefer dress on me cause I'm a woman, not that colour, maybe black but I like the style. And only real jewellery. Something simple like pearl stud earings, a small pearl necklace with a bracelet. Flip flops. Sun glasses and hat if its sunny :-)

Don't like make up either coconut oil works fine. Nice gloss and gives a nice tan.

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[inventboot]

i dont get the whole fascination with them.. and they just came in to fashion right, they weren't popular a while ago, right?

it's just a fad.. it'll fade

[phyllisisabelle]

They have been around for years.

[inventboot]

but they just got here as a fad

[phyllisisabelle]

No women have been wearing them for many years. Its not a "fad". I remember girls wearing them 20 years ago.

[inventboot]

then it must have "just come back". like i said, it's a fad. things come and go. this will too

[phyllisisabelle]

Thats why I asked for GIRLS to respond to see how many wear them. Not spend a lot of time debating them with guys.

[inventboot]

i dc, you allowed us to answer

[neilsmart]

I wear a choker all the time, rarely take it off, most guys say it looks hot

[Mekara]

I like them. I wish I owned one. I'd always wear it!

[Chanel1981]

I don't care for this look on me but some women can pull it off.

[singlebee]

It looks really hot if it suits her!! I definitely like that fashion

[sp33d]

These things already look so uncomfortable. Why would anyone wear them?

[phyllisisabelle]

Actually they are not uncomfortable.

[neilsmart]

your a guy, so you don't have to wear them

[malealpha00]

chokers look hot on chicks. especially when its tight around their necks.

[Pepperbox23]

Yes, I like them a lot <3

[lilliank]

the only jewelry I wear

[dylanthe13]

i am wearing choker as an anklet

[taleets]

i did but they are out of style now so not anymore

[chieechuu]

I used to wear that on my legs

[BillieJean1070]

It's the symbolism :)

[Whatthefluff]

No. I personally don't like this trend

[calimac]

I used to but not anymore

[UnknownBartley]

They look hot on a girl

[LesbianBusinessWoman]

Rarely, but my girlfriend wears them more

[Rachel_is_gay]

I have one, but I don't wear it often

[Yournextmeal]

I want to be cooked while wearing one

[Yumix]

love chokers on girls

[the3ghzpc]

*walks away* nope just nope

[COCOCHANEL]

i don't

[ccal28]

I just comes across as flirty to me nothing more

[ccal28]

it***

[Lumberman53]

I like the look of choker necklaces on girls

[neilsmart]

whats your reasons?

[Lumberman53]

@neilsmart I just find it sexy

[neilsmart]

do you like the choker in my profile pic?

[Lumberman53]

@neilsmart yes I like it

[StainedClass]

I don't think they do.

[alice55]

I do, a lot.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Sometimes.

[PrincessPie]

I do :)

[scarlett]

Yes! I love them.

[Marsh007]

That will be super sexy

[Penged]

yes 😄

[lumos]

Sometimes!

[TsundereMatrix]

I did as a teenager

[MaiElena]

i wear collars

[cinderelli]

yeah I do

[Alicia_1997]

Love them

[KatherineJ]

Sometimes I do.

[NaughtySarah]

Yeah often

[KiaTate]

I wear them.

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

I used to

[FaithfulGuardian]

i dig that

[logesh-kumar]

Yes I love it..