Do you like when girls wear chokers?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Chokers are a sign that a woman wants to be sunmissive. Before Fifty Shades, feminist “discourse” has avoided uncomfortable truths for decades. Female use of the word “slut,” which either rivals or equals its usage by men, is desperately ignored by feminists, lest it destroy their only-men-are-that-sexist argument. A litany of studies showing gender symmetry in domestic violence, the role of life-balance free choice in women working part-time (and therefore explaining why they earn less) and anti-male bias in the family court system are all thrown on the proverbial scrapheap so that they don’t need to be addressed.
Consequently, feminists are in a damaging spiral on this issue. There is no gender equivalence here; women are the ones thronging to see what SJWs call serious sexual abuse and rape culture on screen. If men were doing it en masse, they could call it misogyny. But the delicate leftist creatures dare not label their less uptight cinema-going sisters with the badge of misogyny. It would destroy the whole glass house that these intellectual lightweights inhabit.
Fifty Shades of Grey is the newest example of this hyper-tunnel vision. But unlike dry yet perfectly accurate scientific studies, E. L. James’ flawed pseudo-classic is demanding that women pay attention with its visceral appeal. Despite its literary bankruptcy, including sentences that would make a horny fifteen-year-old boy cringe, the book cuts to the heart of the female sexual identity.
Rape culture and male oppression of women are highly effective fictions used in the western world to vilify men. But in Fifty Shades, Anastasia voluntarily thrusts herself into Christian Grey’s palm. She even tries to pry it open herself, figuratively, just so she can be under his thumb.
There’s no story reminiscent of feminist fear-mongering here. Anastasia doesn’t start an initially placid relationship which becomes twisted with the stereotypical growth of “male abuse” and the exercise of roid rage-like violence against her. Instead, Anastasia signs a “contract” for the BDSM activities. It’s Anastasia who wants this.

[Opinion Owner]

The plot devices James uses to superficially tone down the raw sexuality of the book series (yes, there are three of them!), such as the injection of Grey’s “vulnerabilities” and Anastasia’s signing of the contract, are merely mechanisms to maintain a woman’s plausible deniability and that of the female audience.
The author herself, given her poor writing abilities, was probably unaware of the purpose of these devices. When reading the book or watching the film, which I saw today, women can live this plausible deniability vicariously through Anastasia.
If you were going to see the film before reading this, still go see it. And if you did not plan to go see it, change your fucking mind and go. Some of the scenes will be unbearably corny and the teeth-grinding dialogue will repel you, but you will witness a perfect encapsulation of the female sexual drive. Even in the dark, pay heed to any noises from the mostly female crowd.

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps in the corner of your eye you’ll catch the illuminated faces of some women. Soak in the rapt attention they give to the spectacle before them. Before and after the screening, notice the excitement of groups of women, the emotions they express and the completely different vibe they give off. For them, this is no regular film and they’ll be treating it, irrespective of whether they’re not dressed up, as a festive occasion. This is their psychology and fantasies they are paying to see.
Most potently, when you pay to watch this film, as the women are, you are paying to watch patriarchy in action. The film may be set in “our time” but the world that Anastasia must make herself enter represents her deep-seated patriarchal dreams and cravings. And that forms a mirror reflecting the primal desires of all normal women.
Fifty Shades of Grey doesn’t just incapacitate feminism. It ties it up, flogs it, and chokes it unconscious.

[nick3790]

my last girlfriend actually wore them a lot, she was kinda into the whole punk/alternative rock scene, and got me into it too... at first I kinda hated it, but after a little bit I learned to love it, now I think chokers are hot. honestly everyone has different tastes, and if someone's into you, like properly, they'll learn to look past the physical quickly, and learn to love every piece of you, including your fashion choices, no matter how bizzare. they may be.

[Asker]

True :) If you love someone you learn to love everything about them

[nick3790]

yeah... unless something their doing is causing them or those around them harm, people still try to love those parts, but their better off talked about in a relationship... and it wouldn't make you unnaccepting to do so/ show concern, but it is hard to get called on your shit.

[lushbomb]

i like how other girls wear them but i dont like those they just remind me of patrick.. i have weird ones... i get them in mexico and everyone asks me where i get them lol... like theyre silver not plastic lol.. when you close the weird one you have to put the line metal part in the hole.. O / so it looks like the line is inside the circle its so cool

[DinaM]

It's weird, but I can't think of any girl I know who wears a choker. Necklaces, yes, lots of them... one of my best friends always wears a necklace no matter what, it's like her trademark (she claims she even showers with it), but no chokers.

Maybe it's a cultural thing.

[SarcasticElla41]

i will wear them with the rigt outfit but i like the tattoo chokers more, never worn the kind you listed above. My friend once wore a shoelace to an event and got lots of compliments about it

[Asker]

Tattoo chokers are nice too :) Everything depends on an outfit

[DizzyDesii]

I only own one. But i hardly wear it now because my friends warned me that around here its known as the dick suckers jewelry 😂🙈 👀 Lmao wtf

[Asker]

Yeah I've heard that too :) I read it's beacuse prostitutes used to wear them some time ago but I wear them anyway cuz I think they look cute

[DizzyDesii]

Oh heck no now im def debating if i'll wear it lmao. And most guys here said it looks like a dog collar so they hate it 😂

[Asker]

It's different here cuz almost every guy I know likes them but some of them still make jokes about it being a black belt in blowjobs :D

[Robsinsf53]

Its a very seductive piece of a woman's attire and for being such a small piece but, on a sensual part of the woman's body, I think they should be required on certain dresses, blouses and such.

[Asker]

I agree 100%

[bedroomeyes]

You mean HOEkers? Lol, jk, I wear them sometimes.

But for real, chokers were supposedly only worn by prostitutes and lesbians back in the day. This won't stop me from wearing them occasionally.

[Asker]

I read about it and I still wear them even thought I'm neither a hooker nor lesbian :)

[JadeTrintyIII]

Its goes further back to slaves. AND then further still to tribal status of neck rings for matriarch roles.

[Asker]

@JadeTrintyIII I know but I don't think many people know about it so they don't look at it that way nowadays

[bedroomeyes]

It really doesn't go further back to slaves, and I'm not surprised you brought that up.

[JadeTrintyIII]

why? because I'm white? Guess what Jews were slaves centuries before Africans. And they had slave bracelets, you know those pretty little anklets & bracelets everyone likes with the chain to the finger or toe, also chokers. Also because I'm a nerd Princess Leia wore one... boom Mic drop! lol

[bedroomeyes]

Did you just assume that I only think Africans were enslaved because you made the assumption that I'm black over a picture of a doll?

[JadeTrintyIII]

I didn't even look at your picture to be honest. In America where all that is in the news is either Black lives matter or white people are all racist. So I merely spoke what came to mind when someone decides to complain about the mention of slavery. I'm Cherokee so I know a thing or two about losing life, liberty, and land. But I know almost every color of the rainbow has been enslaved at some point. I was merely counter your statement of "they don't go further back" when clearly they do. And the statement that because I'm white I must be racist fur bringing up slavery. I'm not. My two best friends are black NOT African American, they make that quite clear. One is American and the other Jamaican.

[bedroomeyes]

1. Are you white or are you Cherokee? 2. Did I say you're racist? 3. Do I care that you have two black friends?

[JadeTrintyIII]

Cherokee are white, this stereo type "Indian r red, how white man" is stupid. You attacked my comment as if to imply I was racist, if I misunderstood 1. My apologies 2. Learn to better compose a retort so it can't be misconstrued that way 3. My apologies. Lastly, when people start arguing with me over race, color, and bs they usually end by accusing me of not knowing any black people, so again my apologies for putting that out there before you could attack that aspect or for even putting it out there.
Now down to the actual premise of this site, OPINIONS! We are all entitled to our opinions but getting butt hurt because someone thinks differently than you is stupid. We are all adults, or should be, and as such we should be having a rational discussion or debate and not attacking PERSONAL beliefs or ideals. That is why I put the mic drop joke, to liven the hostility. Good day to you Ma'am.

[bedroomeyes]

Cherokees are not white. Bye. Don't try to be a know-it-all and then bitch about hostility next time.

[JadeTrintyIII]

F U? Is that what you are seeking out of this? Furries Unlimited... Lol you are so wound up and in a bunch. Learnhow to be a human being and Cherokee are White.

[bedroomeyes]

Native Americans aren't white.

[JadeTrintyIII]

You sir are an imbecile. Asians aren't yellow Indians aren't red and Europeans aren't Caucasian (Spanish are quite dark). Native Americans are white maybe not Caucasian but white.

[OlderAndWiser]

I think it is VERY alluring, especially a black ribbon choker with cameo:

[Asker]

This one should be worn on special occasions :)

[OlderAndWiser]

Oh, yes, it is a dressy item, great for creating that Marie Antoinette aura!

[Asker]

Yeah exactly :)

[WhereAmI]

Like these?

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[Asker]

No haha :)

[WalterBlack]

Sometimes. But not the style in the picture. I like this style s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/.../...-necklaces.jpg

[ChrisFluentMusic13]

I think if a girl is wearing one something like this, it's more related with the Rocker type alternative style scene. Which is really cute on a girl, or like the second pic (The one with the heart I don't know how the photos are goin to go in order after posting lol) also. Used to not think much about them, but after the last girl I dated, they just kind of drive me crazy lol. Follow Me?

[cattertone]

I find them pretty attractive, though I prefer the thicker bands. the chokers definitely draws my attention.

[Asker]

Glad you like them :)

[cattertone]

I'm glad girls like wearing them 😉 haha

[Asker]

See? Everyone's happy haha :)

[cattertone]

haha exactly. what kind of chokers do you like to wear?

[Asker]

The ones above, the satin ones, the classic black ones :)

[cattertone]

Nice :) I'd have to say that the Satin ones are my favorite to see on a girl.

[0112358]

I find them pretty hot. I tend to notice girls wearing them.

[Asker]

Great :)

[JadeTrintyIII]

Depends on the girl and the choker. Not all of them can pull it off.

[Asker]

You're right :)

[DaveDavidson]

I personally think they're hot (usually), wish girls wore them more.

[Asker]

Nice :) me and my sister wear them a lot

[_lauren_]

i like them, but i can't stand the feeling of anything on my neck for too long.

[Asker]

I used to be the same but some of them are so comfy that you don't feel like wearing anything :)

[_lauren_]

but if I feel something for.001 seconds then I flinch thinking it's a bug and I look stupid doing that a couple of times a day.

[April10]

I think it's beautiful if you have the neck for that. Not everyone can pull off a choker. Me. :(

[Asker]

Oh I'm sorry :(

[Brad1998]

I think chokers look rlly hot on the right girl haha

[Asker]

Everything looks great on the right person :)

[Brad1998]

Haha yup. You like wearing chokers or nahh?

[Asker]

I do :)

[Brad1998]

That's great :)

[Walrus_au]

Personally, I cannot stand anything right against my throat, it really super irritates me.

So when someone else wears things there, it sometimes gives me the sympathy willies so to speak.

That said, I am well aware that is my issue not hers, so whatever she wants to wear.

[chethi]

those chokers drive me crazy. keeps inviting me to play over it with my lips. 😉

[Asker]

Wow cool :)

[metalsucks2]

Yes but this type

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[Asker]

These are also nice :)

[MidnightThoughts]

I like them. I think they look kind of sexy actually. Those ones look cute too. I have one exactly like the first and last one, but I always struggle to make a pretty knot like that 😂

[Asker]

I have this choker too but in color white and I love it :) But mine has a buckle at the back so i don't have to make a knot

[MidnightThoughts]

ohh, that's much easier then :p
Sometimes I just spare myself the trouble and use it like this: silvona.pl/.../...0ba345df037d9bf650124d16d4fd.jpg
which looks very nice too in my opinion :)

[Asker]

True :) I like it

[Thinkthought]

yes, absolutely. I think they are the perfect accessory for women.

[Asker]

Great :) I love adding them to my outfits

[Thinkthought]

awesome, I say wear them all the time.

[Asker]

I do wear them almost all the time :)

[Reddr]

😂These were a thing in the late 90's especially in the form of a tattoo necklace. I've been noticing them lately and they make me smile, becauseI can't believe the stupid things have made it back to being a popular fad.

[Tall_Shy_Me]

yes and no because any can choke u with it and yes because it looks good on most girls

[Asker]

True :)