Do you think that my girlfriend dresses a bit too revealing at times or no?

[Anonymous]

So my girlfriend has never been one to dress SUPER revealing... she never once wore butt cheek shorts or had her boobs spilling out. But she's never been super modest either.

She just basically wears clothing of all sorts. From full pants/jeans to thigh length shorts... to maxi skirts/dresses to ones above the knee to near mid-thigh length... from high necklines to a crack or two of cleavage... from long sleeves to bare arms... from bare upper back to completely covered back... to showing midriff to midriff covered... she just basically wears both modest clothing, and clothing in which are a bit revealing, but not over the top.

To the gym or to exercise she usually wears a tank top and shorts, and takes her tank top off to work out just in her sports bra when she knows her bare body will not touch the equipment. I can't exactly blame her, as I take off my shirt as well.

To the beach/pool, she usually wears just traditional bikinis in which look like bra and underwear. The top shows a bit of cleavage but her boobs are well covered up, and the bottom shows a bit of butt cheek, but still covers her ass well.

No one is bothered by her choice of clothing, and no one even looks at her, so maybe I'm just being a bit paranoid.. but with all the preaching about "modesty" lately, it just sort of makes me wonder.

If it helps you, here are some visual examples to help you get more or less of an idea of what she wears.

Her shorts are about this length, upper to mid-thigh

Her skirts/dresses are sometimes above the knee

Other times they are close to mid-thigh length

When she shows cleavage it's only about this much

To the gym she usually dresses sort of like this

To the beach she usually wears bikinis like this

From the back, her bikini bottoms are about this revealing

Do any of those examples look too immodest to you? Be aware, she doesn't dress like that ALL time. It's like 50% of the time she dresses very modestly, and the other 50% she shows a bit of skin.

Yes, indeed. She should cover up more and be more modest!

No. There's nothing wrong with what she's doing, it's her choice.

[mac_daddy416]

Ur being paranoid you should be proud to show your woman off. And perhaps reason other aren't looking ur probably starring at them to see who is looking lol. Chill out man u talking like ur old man in Viagra.

[Asker]

I actually never was really bothered by skin unless boobs or ass cheeks were hanging out (basically I was only bothered by obvious sluts) till in the internet fairly recently I saw a bunch of people preaching about "modesty" and "respecting yourself" and shit.

Nah, I don't stare at anyone. I just glance for less than a second. I live in Florida, so most girls dress just like her, and guys also show a lot of skin (shorts and often shirtless, or unbuttoned top of shirt, or bare arms)... so there's nothing new to look at.

Yeah, I am talking like an old man, lol. My girlfriend really doesn't dress immodest. No one talks about her dressing immodestly, and most women around here in general dress just like her.

There are the ones with their butt cheeks hanging out in which people DO talk about... but no one talks about my girlfriend, or other women who dress like her.

[Shaft50]

She seems to dress normally and within modest standards

[Asker]

Yeah, that's what I'd say so myself. If it's hot obviously she's gonna wear less, but she never has her boobs spilling out or wears butt cheek shorts or anything like that.

[Shaft50]

Are you happy with how she dresses?

[Asker]

Yeah, there's literally nothing wrong with it unless you're from a super conservative family and/or culture, in which she isn't.

[JulieXO]

She seems to dress like every other normal girl. Nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

Pretty much :) The average girl in my area dresses pretty much just like her. Some days they cover up with a regular t-shirt and form fitting jeans, while other days they show a bit of leg and such. There's nothing abnormal in the way she dresses. :)

[Elliegirl]

I think she dresses pretty cute.

[Asker]

Aww, you think so? :) Well I'm sure she'd say thank you, she's a very polite girl who loves compliments! I'll pass it onto her that you think her style is cute! ;)

[Elliegirl]

Thanks. Find out where she got that sea foam green skirt for me (if she has that one). It’s adorable and I want one!

[Asker]

Haha, those weren't pictures of clothes she owns. Just pictures in which look more or less like something she would wear, in regards to the amount of skin showing. I just found them all on Google. I don't think it was even from an online shopping website... just a picture from Pinterest or something. Sorry to disappoint you with that. :( But yes, you are correct! The skirt itself is indeed adorable! :) If I was a girl I'd buy one, too!

[DeeDeeDeVour]

If she has a hot body, be proud and show her off!

[Asker]

Yeah, basically! Plus, she works really hard on it. She eats healthy a solid 95% of the time, and works out 2 hours a day.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

You sound very pleased with her. I'm glad you are. So, don't worry. Be proud and show her off! Let the others drool!

[Asker]

Yes, I am indeed :) She's very beautiful, and really kind, too! Yes, let the others drool! Lol!

[Bethany22]

Her gym outfit is too revealing, but the other outfits are fine

[lauren27]

I think her clothing options are just fine

[Asker]

I'd say so too :) The people preaching modesty are overall not to be taken very seriously. Normal people show a bit of skin on casual occasions in hot places.

[Starshine85]

Sounds normal for western countries anyway

[Asker]

Yeah, in most Western countries bodies aren't a big deal like in some third world countries.

[soe11]

Starshine85
In most countries normal now a day, even more revealing in some Asian countries than western countries.

[soe11]

All outfits are normal in societies, so don't worry about it.

So let's her allow her as well as compliment her.

[LesbianBusinessWoman]

It's her choice dude

I like how she dresses

[Asker]

Aww, you do? :) Well that's nice! I'll pass it onto her! She loves compliments! :D

[WonderingManII]

Personally I would just be glad I got her. :)

[Nerdvana]

Is this about how she dresses or you insecurities?

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with the way she dresses.

[Asker]

I'd say so myself to. Just some internet idiots preaching "modesty" got me thinking otherwise.

[hornymike6969]

thats a nice ass when you zoom in lol.

[Asker]

Of course it is, the bikini is being worn by a model... bikini companies purposely make sure only attractive women wear their products. So you then associate bikinis with attractive women.

[anuragk033]

i understand you bro but you can't really do anything about it

[Asker]

I honestly am not bothered by it. Plus, around our area literally everyone women dresses like her when outdoors... when indoors they cover up more because of AC, but outside, since we're in Florida, it's hot as fuck.

I was just wondering what people generally think.

[anuragk033]

it's just fine if you are American

[Asker]

You, in American countries bodies aren't a big deal like in some third world countries.

[Asker]

Yep*

[Anonymous]

Yes, indeed. She should cover up more and be more modest!

[Asker]

You literally just copied and pasted what's on the poll... in that case don't even comment at all!

[Opinion Owner]

Because l have the same opinion with my own opinion. Why type it again of l think in the same way? That's why polls are. We can choose an option among them. If we think different we can tell it.

[Asker]

That's fair, I guess.

[Anon_af]

No, it's all good!

[Anonymous]

yep. we need to put an end to slutty gym clothes.

[Anonymous]

No, it's ok.