What makes a girl approachable? I don't know if I'm unapproachable or if guys just don't want to approach me. I'm guilty of not making eye contact or if I do I look away like it never happened and when I'm walking and I pass by a cute guy I avoid eye contact, I basically go on shut down whenever a cute guys even around. I honestly don't think I'm attractive, I might have attractive moments but that's about it. Evidently people tell my mom I'm pretty and all that stuff but I have a feeling everybody would say that about someones daughter. So do I just repel guys because I don't show interest or just because I'm unattractive? Would guys approach an attractive girl no matter what?
and I don't believe any of that intimidating stuff because guys approach extremely pretty girls all the time
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you wanna know the three ways to show a guy your interest?
1. eye contact. make as much eye contact as you can give without feeling like its a staring contest.
2. a smile. if you get some solid eye contact, smile at him, and try not to look away while smiling, because you wanna see if he smiles back.
3 primping. play with your hair, check your makeup, just basically make sure you're looking your best.
these three things are the way both guys and girls show interest in one another.
so if you want to be approached, you have to do 1, then 2, and if he's not approaching you by then, try doing all three.
but, if you make eye contact and he looks away, he either shy, or not interested. so, keep trying to make eye contact, and if he keeps avoiding, then he's not interested and you gotta move on.
but, if you are the pretty girl you say you are, you'll get some eye contact back, and look for a smile. I promise you that if you have mutual eye contact and smiles going back and forth, youve got something, and if he doesn't approach you, approach him.
i hope my insight into relationship psychology has helped you.
good luck, Lazy_Minotaur3