Why do some guys look away quickly when I look at them? Do they think I’m unattractive?

[Anonymous]

I've noticed if I'm just out somewhere that some guys quickly look away when I see them. I will be on my phone or something and when I look up they immediately look away. I'm just curious what makes them look away so quickly!

[RSav4013]

It depends on the guy. Typically though, eye contact makes people uncomfortable. It's possible that they actually do find you attractive, but lack the confidence to make eye contact and start a conversation.

[KneeDragger]

There could be lots of reasons for this.

My advice; don't waste time worrying about it and just be the best person you canon the outside and most important, on the inside.

[Xyglo27]

He was probably staring at you, secretly & you caught him 😏

Maybe he likes you, maybe he lusts you...
🤷 Could be anything...

[Asker]

Which option do u think is more likely? We used to have friendly chat but that stopped because I got tired of reaching out to him first...

[Xyglo27]

He likes you & lusts after you, both reasons.

I'm saying this because I used to be this guy. In college there was this girl who had a golden personality, we had compatible personalities, but I was a dumbass.
I liked her, I lusted after her but I didn't know that the guy is supposed to make the move. I didn't have really good social skills & was very shy around women.

Coming back to your story, the guy definitely likes you but is hesitant to make a move. Maybe there's a flaw within him or maybe he sees a red flag in you, I don't know, could be anything. He may be scared or confused... 😣😖

[Asker]

What are the signs that made you think that he definitely likes me?

[Xyglo27]

I told you, i used to be that shy guy who stare at the woman. I used to stare at her because I liked her, because I lusted after her.

I think that's why he likes you.

[Asker]

What if he looked away vecause he thought I was ugly lol?

[Leavesbound]

Probably they are shy. Maybe they don't think they are good enough for you but can't help look but don't want you to catch them looking.

[Anonymous]

I typically do that on very hot girls that i like. But i could usually look at some girl im not interested with no issues.

[Asker]

What if he looked away because he thought I was ugly lol?

[FakeNIK]

A guilty pleasure, by the way girls do this too & it's a sign that you're attractive

[Asker]

What if he looked away because he thought I was ugly lol?

[Asker]

Or because he simply recognized me?

[FakeNIK]

Why so negative, do they give any sign

[FakeNIK]

& yk it's fine but getting obsessed over these little things ain't gonna do any good

[FakeNIK]

Tell why does it matter what other think about you, Answer me honestly

[Asker]

Im just curious. I used to initiate some conversation with him on snapchat (just some friendly conversation). I stopped doing that because I wanted hin to reach out to him and he didin’t do that. Now he views every single snapchat story update of mine and sometimes within minutes after I’ve posted them. One day I saw him in public. He looked at me like it was a reflex as soon as I looked at him he looked away.

[Asker]

I wanted him to reach out to me*

[FakeNIK]

If a guy likes you he'll find a way to talk to you

[Asker]

So in this case do u think that he’s too shy or just not interested?

[FakeNIK]

My advice is to not get obsessed with this guy, if he's into you or something he'll contact you

[FakeNIK]

Guys can be shy I totally get that ok do one thing, Give him a chance start talking with him again if he's into you, You'll know

[Wise4myage]

Guys that do that are usually very shy, and I doubt they think you're unattractive.

[Asker]

Why do u think so?

[Asker]

by the way We used to have friendly chat but that stopped because I got tired of reaching out to him first...

[Wise4myage]

Because I have done that myself and I use to be very shy. Its too bad too, sounds like he passed on a good thing.

[Asker]

Do u think he’s interested but too shy?

[Wise4myage]

That's quite possible and you should consider approaching him if you find him attractive.

[Asker]

” Its too bad too”
by the way what did you mean by this 😃?

[Wise4myage]

He missed out

[Xyglo27]

Be careful while approaching. Just because he's shy & just because you're approaching him doesn't mean that he'll accept you.

That's what happened in my case so keep your heart strong & remove your expectations.

[Twalli]

They don't want you to catch them looking.

[Asker]

What if he looked away because he thought I was ugly lol?

[Twalli]

He wouldn't be looking in the first place then.

[Anonymous]

They could be shy. That's what I tend to do.

[Silvius]

You dominate them

[Asker]

What do u mean?

[Silvius]

They become insecure