Do guys LIKE it when girls dress scantily around them?

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Self-explanatory question. I'm asking as a girl who has a tendency to cover her figure up (knee-length dresses/skirts, jeans, large shirts, ect). I always feel unattractive around the opposite sex because I don't 'flaunt' as much as the females around me do. Are you guys uncomfortable when girls dress kinda scantily? Or do you prefer that over 'modest' girls? (I'm a very open-minded non-feminist, so feel free to give me you RAW opinions. I'm not asking so I can judge, I'm asking because I'm honestly curious about how the men of our society feel about how women dress and put themselves out there). Peace!~ ✌🏻

Ayendee · Accepted Answer

Guys like hot girls. Girls look hotter when they dress hot. Not to say that you have to dress like a slut, because you shouldn't, but tbh guys like it.

But if a guy likes a girl in a real way, more than a sexual way, then it won't matter how they dress because he likes her for her. Sure, girls who dress slutty might get more guys, but it's for all the wrong reasons.

Maybe dress a tad bit less conservative from time to time, but don't think you have to.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Our society? Where's that, exactly?

I personally don't mind either way. I have friends that dress very provocatively and I have friends that dress quite moderately but I live in Shanghai... so, I don't know if I'm included in your society or not.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Tbh i don’t think you have to care about what guys think about how u look. Style isn’t everything and a guy that can look past someone’s clothes is much more important. Than if he likes how you dress or not

So dress for you!😊, if u like Your style then keep doing it

VaIiant · Accepted Answer

There’s a nice middle between slutty and Amish. I strive to meet it.

Lochlan · Answer

Not exactly. It's more like, dress for how you feel comfortable yourself. Or for what you want to dress for, whether it be success, for study, for rollin' sleeves, for slackin', for kicking, for summer, for winter, for work, for you. Whatever feels right, it's all there because we have knowledge we're naked and we're relatively hairless apes. You don't have to worry about modesty or flaunting, you'll attract the guys you want by dressing for what feels right to you. If your boobs have a tendency to destroy society around you, just put a cardboard box on if you don't want the attention.

Guido · Answer

You dress for the occasion or place. Conservative for school or a business meeting. A little flashier for a date. If you are out at a bar and looking to attract attention then dress to show off your best attributes which could be cleavage, legs, butt etc. Chkse colors and styles that flatter your figure. If your out with a boyfriend and your serious about some intimate time then make sure you have on great looking lingerie under your attire that will get his motor revved up. It's all a matter of where you are and what kind of attention you want.

emmanuel_macaroni · Answer

I'd say just dressing well in a manner that suits you is more important than how much/little skin your outfit shows. Dressing scantily can be sexy but kind of loses its value if you do it too much, just in my opinion. On the other hand, being too conservative maybe undersells how you look. I'd just say pick the clothes that you like best which you think look good on you.

ATuairiscean · Answer

A girl who flaunts may attract more initial attention but as the guy gets to know the different "Girls" it becomes a more level playing field. TBH I don't think this matters as much to guys as girls think like you have sexy girls on the internet and wall to wall scantily clad girls on MTV anyway so its not like it is a rare sight.

markscott · Answer

I like it when I see a girl dressed scantily. She looks sexy and a little exciting. However, it's also distracting, and the scantily clad girl, is not the one who I would get into a relationship with. For relationships, I want a more modestly dressed girl. And no, I don't go after girls who are scantily dressed, I only like the way they look, because it's sexually attractive, and I'm a guy. Given a choice, I would be around more modestly dressed girls.

LittleRedKat · Answer

I'm sure they find it hot but then at the same time most won't respect you. You immediately become someone they want to fuck, not date. Personally I think it's great to show off a little, just not too much. Keep the slutty dressing for your man.

ForteExe · Answer

I prefer women who are modest towards the world but open to me. If you're in a relationship with a guy and you wanna dress down then he'd be thrilled. If you're single then walking around half naked will get you the wrong type of attention (assuming you don't want the world to think you're a body without a brain). Also +1 for non-feminist.

Omar5881 · Answer

I don't care about a girl's clothes as long as it's suitable for the place , anyways I feel comfortable anyway I don't give a shit really and don't feel unattractive , ok maybe your looks aren't on the A list but trust me it doesn't fuckin matter what matters is you and your personality and your interests I know a lot of hot chicks but when they talk i feel I wanna kill myself it's not about the looks darling

bamesjond0069 · Answer

Guys who want a slut will like it if you dress like a slut. Those guys don't like relationships very much and are just thinking with their dick.

Guys who want a serious relationship will like that you don't dress like a slut because girls who are slutty usually cheat or otherwise screw their man over if he isn't paying 100% attention all the time about what she is doing.

So depends on what kind of men you want to be interested in you.

Anonymous · Answer

If scantily women want to dress that way,.. just to warn them that there will be large percentage of men looking at them with sexual lust. I'm sure that was too blunt, but I'm just telling you the truth like it is.

If women covered up,... then men will be focusing on communicating with them better & their personality as oppose to being sexually lustful around them & women thinking automatically that all men are creepers.

Logorithim · Answer

I love it when a woman dresses scantily, but I don't treat her any differently- just enjoy the sights.

SkyKing89 · Answer

Scantily clad women excite something in me sexually so it does attract me in that sense. However I am more attracted to the modest type as you described for relationships, it's a relief to not have to defend my woman as much from the excited dudes operating on their second brain. So don't feel unattractive, by the sound of it the type of dudes you would attract if you dressed scantily are probably not your cup of tea.

Browneye57 · Answer

Do what you do for YOU. Don't bend your life to peer pressure or societal norms, or what you THINK they are, or perceive them to be. Be your own self. Be comfortable and confident with yourself. It's YOUR life.

Burgerboy21 · Answer

I'm personally into more modest clothing on women. I usually have a negative opinion about those who dress 'scantily.'

MeauxJoMan · Answer

It takes a little getting used to at first, but when you realize she's not trying to flaunt it, she's just showing everyone how fortunate the guy is to have her.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

The answer depends on the status of the relationship, the location, and whether anyone else is present.

A-man-22 · Answer

No, because we are not supposed to look at them but that makes it really difficult to.
Would women like it if average guys went round in skimpy suits, not they wouldn't.
It's the same the opposite way round.

Anonymous · Answer

Gosh everyday I see a question 'do guys like when girls do this' or ' do girls like when guys have this' can people just live their lives and not care about such bullshit? Damn.

vald9inches · Answer

nope i am very comfortable around girls. i like girls to look very feminine and sexy so i prefer if they dressed sexy but honestly they can dress however they want

taleswapper · Answer

Yes. Even those girls who are "off-limits" for one reason or another can be appreciated. Feminine beauty is a real thing.

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