Girls, Do girls like clean cut guys or are they considered boring?

[Anonymous]

Do girls like clean cut guys

Or are they seen as plain and boring, I have a short hair cut completely clean shaven no tattoos I always have a professional image I don’t drink smoke or party

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I don't think they're boring, and I don't mind that look. I actually prefer hair that isn't insanely long at the very least and is well cared for (I've seen way too many greasy/tangled guys with ratty looking long hair), minimal to no facial hair (I've also seen way too many dirty, stinky long beards with pieces of food stuck in them), and minimal to no tattoos. I don't care to drink (except for maybe one drink every once in awhile), smoke, or party, either.

You won't attract the girls who like all of that stuff, but there are plenty of us out there more like you, too. Everyone is different when it comes to preferences.

[Asker]

Yeah I have a very professional appearance short hair with pomade and brushed, I wear different cologne so I’m always smelling really good, I don’t need to drink or smoke to have a good time

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Sounds good! I think there are plenty of girls out there who like your type.

[Asker]

I also don’t hookup I only want one girl to give my heart to

[aWes0MeNeSs]

That's an excellent quality to have! I'm the same way, and I think most girls are, too.

[Asker]

Yeah it’s my downfall with dating people tell me not to focus on just one girl and to ask out a bunch and that’s just not how I’m wired if I like a girl I really like her and something about her is special which is why I gravitated towards her. Being honest I have only asked out three girls ever

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I'm exactly like that, too. I only like one guy at a time, too, and no one else really interests me while I'm interested in that one guy. Unfortunately for me, the feelings rarely turn out to be mutual or the timing is just really bad, lol.

[Asker]

See my big thing is my extremely low self esteem

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I get that, too. I've struggled with it before, though I've gotten a lot better. It takes a lot of time and doing positive things that make you feel better about yourself.

[Asker]

I just think I have a really ugly face

[Asker]

If you want to see I can post a picture

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I doubt that. You can post one if you'd like.

[Asker]

https://imgur.com/a/i1WyjYB

[aWes0MeNeSs]

I don't think you're ugly. I don't think there's anything wrong with you at all.

[Asker]

How what about my face

[aWes0MeNeSs]

Your face is what I saw the picture of. I think you look fine.

[Asker]

Would you believe me if I said I never had a girlfriend or had a girl flirt with me

[aWes0MeNeSs]

There's nothing wrong with that, and it doesn't necessarily mean you're ugly, either. It can happen with very introverted people or those who aren't very confident/have low self esteem as well.

[Asker]

Yeah I have always had horrible self esteem and believed that because women ignored me I must not be good looking

[aWes0MeNeSs]

It's easy to do, but that's not always the case. I've had really low self esteem in the past, too.

[CindyRuns]

To me... a clean cut guy was the only guy I would consider going out with (I'm married now).

I find tattoos to be trashy... I don't mind some tasteful facial hair... I hate being around smokers and I love being with someone who looks and acts like a professional.

All that said, I do the same (except for the tasteful facial hair) ... and guys I've been with are the ones who appreciate it !!!

[tallandsweet]

I like beards a lot because in my opinion, they are nice to look at as long as they're full.

However, I think clean cut guys have more of an "I am in control of my life" aura while bearded guys seem more laid back and relaxed, which has also been my experience.

[Asker]

So what about other aspects of hygiene

[tallandsweet]

As long as a man is well kept, I can be attracted to him.
I hate dirty fingernails or feet, ugly hands, hairy arms and dirty belly buttons. Afar from that, shower regularly and you should be good...

[Asker]

Ok so bare with me on this one I had this massive crush on this really petite blonde I used to work with like I said I’m clean cut My hair is cut short and is brushed with pomade, I wore different cologne everyday, I smelled really good, I took care of my physical appearance my biceps were really visible. She rejected me for a guy who had straggly dirty hair never shaved never showed never washed his clothes was overweight, bragged about doing drugs. Now I myself don’t drink smoke or party I have a very good guy image I don’t associate with anything that could lead to problems.

[tallandsweet]

Maybe you just weren’t her type. To be honest, I can fall in love with almost anyone, appearance only determines who meets each other in the first place, e. g. when you decide to speak to someone because they look attractive to you, but other factors start mattering more eventually.

[Briana_1998]

It depends on the person. If you think you look better that way then honestly you probably do. I've seen plenty of clean shaven guys that are very attractive. Generally I like the "rougher" look but if you pull off clean shaven well then you probably look better then most of the non shaven men

[Asker]

Like I just always feel more comfortable in it my self esteem is higher as well like I think the professional look is supposed to be my image

[Briana_1998]

Well that's all that matters :)

[Asker]

Personally myself I think it makes me look really good cause I always have on different cologne as well

[Briana_1998]

It probably does

[MissDawn7961]

you sound good to me ! I do like mustaches on some guys though for it makes them look manly , cute and sexy too ! if a guy is wearing a mustache but it does not look good on him and he asks me then he can be clean shaven and still be cute looking to me ! some men just do not look cute with a mustache at all ! so clean shaven for these guys is cool too ! Thanks

[Anonymous]

No I am not attracted to them at all. I like men with beards or stubble, messy hair and who dresses in like hoodies and jeans, flannels and just doesn't care much how they present themselves because they're too chill to care about it.

[Asker]

So poor hygiene dosent matter at all. Like I get what you’re saying because this happened to me I’m clean shaven and take care of my appearance and there was this other guy who had straggly dirty hair never shaved, never showered and didn’t wash his clothes but never the less this really attractive blonde chose him over me

[Teal97]

I love love love clean cut! It’s my favorite on a guy for sure

[Asker]

That’s awesome

[Yejin0]

Not boring at all. But yea of course some of the girls can find out boring but u can't be perfect to every girl. Just be yourself.

[SpringandCherries]

I think that's a great look, very classy. You sound very well-grounded (no partying or smoking). I prefer clean shaven to a bear 10 times out of 10. Sometimes stubble is nice though

[Asker]

You wouldn’t believe how hard it has been for me to get a girlfriend like this

[SpringandCherries]

people nowadays love what is fake and hate what is real. Focus on you, life is too short to live for others. Either way I like your look and personality!

[Asker]

So that’s a description you wouldn’t like my actual look with a photo

[Anonymous]

I prefer a nice clean goatee.

[Veronica__Sterling]

I love clean shaved guys

[Asker]

Why?

[Veronica__Sterling]

It doesn't bother while kissing 😂

[Veronica__Sterling]

Actually just personal choice

[suncookie]

depends on the person wearing the haircut lol

[_uck_uckGoose]

I like my clean cut man.

[Asker]

What do you like the most?

[_uck_uckGoose]

That he always smells nice and does his hair

[Asker]

So would be suprised if I told you I was rejected by a petite blonde for a guy who had dirty straggly hair never shaved never showers and always had dirty clothes he actually stored them in his locker at work and never took them home to wash

[_uck_uckGoose]

People like what they like 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Asker]

But I thought poor hygiene repulsed women. You understand how it completely blows my mind that I was turned away practicing good hygiene

[_uck_uckGoose]

Maybe he was more attractive

[Asker]

Like look wise

[ChocolateRose]

I like someone in the middle.

[rvarela]

I like clean shaved.

[Asker]

Why?