Do guys like boring girls?

[Anonymous]

This always really confuses me and has been self analyzing a lot. It seems like most guys either like the quiet cute girl who will laugh at their jokes, or the outgoing popular ones.

I'm outgoing and I joke all the time and speak my mind a lot, but not in a rude way. Whenever I have an outgoing day where I'm laughing and having a good time, I feel like they aren't attracted to that. I'm not about to completely change myself for what guys want but I just am really confused.

What personality type are guys most attracted to? Do they like outgoing girls?

[BaronScrewtape]

A way to tell which boys are self confident and which ones are not is whether or not they are comfortable around a girl who is not submissive. Keep that in mind. Also keep in mind, though, that many boys in your age group are raging horn-dogs who will do or put up with anything if it gets the laid. Keep that in mind as well.

Basically your best bet is to find a guy who has self confidence and genuinely wants to be around you as a friend. Easy, yes? I think of it as the girl version of something guys often go through: "If you loved me you would just know what was bothering me."

How the sexes get through life and relationships without telepathy is one of life's great mysteries.

Hopefully you will find a good guy. They do exist. Though they, too, are raging bags of hormones. Keep a club handy.

[gotc147]

Generally quiet, but open up at a reasonable rate, however with that must also come the knowledge that at first it's going to be a little awkward.

Outgoing is good, but also liking to have it just the two of us is great also.

Open-minded, optomistic and willing to try new things in all aspects. not nessesarily all things but at least most things.

Respectful, knows how to disagree with someone and allows others to have their own opinions.

Attractive on the outside is always a nice touch as well.

Beyond that, as far as personality goes, that's pretty specific, this is however only what I can really say is the perfect girl for me.

[Shlei3]

Depends on the guy. Some guys like outgoing girls while others prefer introverts. Be yourself, there's someone out there for everyone.

[ChelseaFC2009]

Outgoing type of girls that love to have fun are definitely attractive. If you are happy, people love to be around people that are happy. This means you are comfortable with your personality and that is what is attractive to guys. Referring to the quiet cute girl, it is simply an attraction to that girl per se but not that they particularly like quiet girls. Guys will like different types of personality. But in my opinion, I would be attracted to an outgoing girl because she is happy and fun and will be able to continue a conversation.

[324190214]

u should b quiet and shouldnt talk too much.