Wow, why are you being so jealous, envious and bitter? Guys like quiet, keen, demure girls. ALWAYS. Loud girls, trying to prim and show off are good for the moment till they grow tired of them. She has a personality. She is quiet. Plus, did you ever stop to think their personalities match's with her personality? Men overall LOVE quiet. It's who they are. And they often want a partner who reflects this part of them. It's called preference. You judge her for somebody you don't personally know. Because you're jealous. And that is not right. You're just going to get guys to want to be interested in her more. I know, because I was considered boring. But I had to stop caring about what others think on that level. Still got the unwanted attention. If you are interested in these guys, then go talk to them yourself. Stop blaming the girl for being innocent in this. This is not her problem nor her fault. Men like's challenges, not what comes easy.
I was that boring girl always on her phone in class.. Just over school at that point. I was also the smartest in my classes, except in math lol. Maybe get to know her and be less judgmental. The guys may think you have no personality because you do what everyone else does. She's different to them.
Your need to tell us that there's guys who like you but not in your class tells us you're insecure. So get out there and be yourself, who cares if anyone likes you or not. You'll never see them after graduating anyways.
well she is not an insecure judgmental girl like you that needs to compare herself with others. plus those socially deemed "boring" hide and treasure of a character while those very "out there" are usually void of meaning.. .
I like the reserved girls. I remember one crush I had, whenever there was a class wide joke and everyone would have a laugh, she would sort of smile but not really react as much as everyone else. She would sit at the front and I would be at the back. The class would react and it's like I could see her better than everyone else because everyone else was a blur and moving but she was clear. I loved that.
Besides something like that, reserved girls are easier. That's probably the biggest factor. Much easier to engage and talk to. That's where people show their personality. She might have the same interests as these guys who knows.
What is showing personality anyway? Jumping around and cracking wise? What do you think having good personality is?
My guess its because she's an unknown challenge and usually guys like a mystery factor when their intrigued with a girl.
On the other hand they are young boys that haven't matured to have reason in finding meaningful interest , so it may be just innocent case of adolescent adventuring.
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I can speek for myself. I prefer an introvert girl. I am the jealous type and there would be more problems with an outgoing girl that knows many guys and likes to party so what you call boring is just a judgement she can be fun AF but not the kind of fun YOU like the kind of fun I like
Guys change within age.., well most 😒.. just like when are around that age and they want a good body on a girl Blah blah blah... by the way maybe what u consider pretty boys don't... they like less make up and what not
"prettier girls" is not a valid argument since pretty is relative. however it's not just about the looks. this girl sounds like she has so much to say, the mystery just makes it really intriguing therefor some dude might be into her
Boring girls are the most talkative ones in my experience.
Sheâs mysterious and sheâs probably a nice gal. She also doesnât claim people she doesnât know have âno personalityâ and are âboringâ. Saying stuff like that makes you more of a drag than her...
Me being the shy girl in the class, the guys don't seem interested in me, so maybe they have seen her around her friends. She be a whole nother person when she's with friends.
I would say they prefer the girl becuz first she isn't predictable and 2nd they like to keep quiet girls for relationships cuz at the end most of it does not end up as a big deal
she may seem that way to you but may show an air of mystery to them. The forgotten art.
Just because a person is quiet doesn't make them boring.
I got to know a girl who has quite a life, which also means that her boyfriend assumingly doesn't spend that much time with her. She spends her time with her job, her horse, her cats, her friends and... oh I forgot, her boyfriend.
Why do you think someone is boring simply because they aren't loud and talkative?
You'll learn how irrelevant this question is during the course of your life's journey
"Prettier girls" LMAO mind your business. You don't know what's happening with other people.
How do you know she has no personality. If you try talking to her you may see she has a lot to offer which is why the guys are attracted o her
she's cute she's quiet and mysterious they dont know her theirs your answe
I use to like this girl in my class and she was so quiet a lot of people didn't even know her name she was the funniest most random person I know
I don't like boring girls. At least, I don't feel attract by them
She's probably really hot. At that age, personality counts for zilch with most dudes. We lookin to slash, that's pretty much it.
Girls and Boys have a bit different views on what's pretty and what's not... She might not be seem that much to you but She is attractive to the guys... and she is mysterious and not predictable so it makes her more interesting
Because they probably don't want drama. No offense but girls your age are very dramatic. So to see a quiet one is very refreshing
Guys hate drama.
At your age, a lot of teenage girls live on melodrama like it's a food group.
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