Why are guys more open than girls, and why do they constantly ask for nudes?

[Anonymous]

OKay so like this one guy is 16 and at some point he would always ask me for nudes, i always said no until i just gave in one day and sent them, every single day after that, like no joke, he'd ask, like wouldn't that get boring? and i felt like i had to send them, so i did. Then this one time on his social media he posted a video of him and his friend playing video games or whatever then like a minute later asked me for a nude, i said no because i knew somebody else was there, anyways he said there wasn't a sent a dick pic to prove it, but im like 99% sure there was. Anyway I've noticed that with a lot of boys they can just whip their dicks out in front of their friends etc, and they just dont care, like why is that? And also this guy lives in a different part of the country to me but every single guy i talk to will eventually ask for nudes, even if im not flirting what so ever, its just so annoying like why? woudn't they want to physically do something rather than look at a screen. I've only sent nudes to that one guy but everyone else is so annoying.

[Anonymous]

see this: I see all this talk about teens sending nudes. In the USA, this is considered producing and distributing child pornography. This is a federal offense, and teens have been prosecuted. Yes, if you are under 18, you can be charged. If a teen receives any type of nude picture, then the person sending the pictures is guilty of "pandering obscenity to a minor". It is possible, then, to be guilty of both producing and distributing child porn AND pandering obscenity to a minor.

Many other nations have similar laws, so it is not necessarily a USA only issue.
Also, age of consent laws don't apply here. Under 18 you are guilty under federal law, regardless of the age of consent in states.

Wake up kiddos.

[dogbert444]

I hope you can trust this guy not to name and shame you all over the internet!! You just shouldn't get involved with sending any personal pics. Facial ones can be photoshopped onto other nudes. All sorts of things can happen. You can bet your life, he's shown them around!!

[Asker]

yeah i kinda figured he has which kind of bothers me because he screens hotted them all and acted like he didn't, but i just want to know like why he wanted them because it was like a month ago but for like 3 weeks straight he would ask, and it was the same type of photo overtime so i don't get it?

[dogbert444]

There could be many reasons why he wants them. To upload on the internet. To show his friends he's got control of a lady. I hope he's not trying to blackmail you into sending more. If he does, call his bluff and tell him to get lost. Whatever he says he'll do, I've yet to hear of it happening! He doesn't want to be known as a blackmailer!!

[LiLMiSSunny21]

It's so gross! Guys only think with their dicks!! Trust me I have 3 older brothers & I asked them the exact same question & they told me that it all goes back to how they go when they watch porn & getting themselves off! Also if they keep asking don't answer them they are so not worth it! Your are worth more than that! Also they like to show their mates to! I had a guy try filming getting undressed when we where dating & he sent it to all his mates... So just be careful guys can be really nasty when it comes to girls & showing their mates they don't care.

[oldlady]

I think there are guys who can be trusted not to share your pictures (just as some guys will tell war stories to everyone they know about your sex life and other guys are happy to just enjoy it between the two of you) and I think it's probably true that guys are more visually turned on than women are (although the sight of my boyfriend's gorgeous body certainly does it for me). Doesn't sound like the boy you were sending too was one of the trustworthy ones, though. Feeling pressured is always a clear warning sign.

[9mfeo]

Boys are gross and immature. You don't need to feel pressured into sending nude photos of yourself. If you're not comfortable, don't do it.

If you are going to send nudes, make sure your face isn't visible.

[abundantlyrich]

He's a sexual predator and a perve. Enough said. You shouldn't be giving them your nudes anyway. You are still a teen. Why are you being submissive to them? You don't owe them anything?

[Asker]

yeah i know but i just don't want to say no because i don't want them to think I'm lame or boring and they just have this way of using their like manliness its so annoying because i really don't want to send them and afterwards ill be like next time I'm saying no, but i never do, its so hard!

[abundantlyrich]

Sounds like you're easily influenced by them. Be the tough one to say no and stop acting like you owe them something. Who cares if they thought badly of you? Just imagine what these guys would do to you if you work with them... You won't survive in this world if you do what people ask of you so easily.

[Anonymous]

First and foremost, never feel pressured to send nudes. It is your body and the internet is forever. Even what you thought is deleted is on a server somewhere and not going anywhere. So don't put anything on the net you don't want haunting you later in life.

That being said, men and boys are visual. We are more turned on by things that are visual, what we can see. So getting nudes does that, hence why the porn industry in 80% geared towards men.

Also I have never met a dude that would just whip his dick out in front of his friends. The closest thing to it possibly is changing in locker room at the gym.

[jacquesvol]

I never asked a nude.
If I want one, the net is full of them.

[justbanANNAz]

i didn't even read the rest. why did u give in?

[DarkHumorRUs]

I'm not and I don't.