Why do men ask for nudes?

[Anonymous]

Why do men ask for nudes?

I’ve been talking to this guy for a few months. I smoked up with him once and when he left that day he was like “send me something so I can remember you 😍😌” and I sent him a Christmas tree sarcastically.
It’s been a month and I haven’t seen him since his been away. We’ve talked here and there to catch up.
Yesterday we are talking about him coming back and he tells me if he had motivation maybe he’d come back faster and I replied saying I’m sure you have all the motivation you need and he goes like I need a little more Yunno. Like? What’s wrong with him?

[raven6933]

This is a society problem. People have been brainwashed into believing that people should wear clothes. Nudist colonies have far fewer problems. Mainly because the ability to cover and hide things are no longer there. The more you tell someone no, the more determined they become to do what you said no to. People need to stop punishing women for what she wears. It's not her fault that you can't control yourself. Yes there are instances of men being raped but that's extremely rare. There's also the problem of "society" dictating what is the perfect body. What may be perfect for one is not perfect for someone else. It's almost a no win situation. The more you hide the more who want to see. The more you expose the more you get blamed for someone else's inability to control themselves. You were not born with clothes on. Don't use weather as justification to force people into doing something that they don't want to just do you'll behave. This all started in a man written bible that it was the woman's fault for wearing clothes 😑. People need to be responsible for their own actions and stop playing the victim. I. E. he/she was showing too much therefore I thought I should harass/rape them. Keep your hands to yourself and mind your own business. For some this is an impossible task. Do better. Only you are responsible for your actions. Long yes but it all ties together.

[Anonymous]

Because some men think they're entitled to physical or digital copies of the women they're interested in. Likely this is due to an underlying need to feel some sense of control over their partner, as in 'well if she ever... then I have these pics of her'. Friends of mine have had nudes or videos of themselves released online- one friend even had a porn site purchase a sex video an ex made of the two of them. It takes a lot of time, money, and energy to track down and (hopefully) remove that material from the online universe. In the case of the sex video, my friend's dad contacted every porn site they could think of in the hopes of finding and removing the movie. Her dad ended up having to pay the website an undisclosed amount of money- money the website's owners claimed were 'lost revenue' from them taking down and deleting the video.

If you send pics or vids of yourself, keep in mind that once they're sent, they can go literally anywhere, to anyone, and stay out there for any length of time.

[miadee]

Same. I was really interested in a guy romantically, I could even fall in love him. He was asking me for nudes. I eventually got the ick.

That question feels like he is so used to getting nudes, he gets nudes from everyone, he's open to get nudes and he might keep getting nudes even during the serious relationship

This is usually a habit, huge redflag. It shows he constantly seeks for sexual excitement whenever he lose the sexual excitement, he can go and easily get it from somewhere else.

That make him not relationship material.

[AmandaYVR]

"What's wrong with him?" What's wrong with you? He's a normal guy. He has urges, desires. He doesn't want a picture of a tree. He wants a picture of you. Doesn't have to be a nude, but at least something of you.

[Asker]

I clearly stated he wanted a nude. “At least something of you” read properly before commenting. Don’t just reply with you ass

[AmandaYVR]

"Doesn't have to be a nude, but at least something of you."

You're the one who doesn't read.

[miadee]

She clearly said he wanted nude not "at lea something of you" Stop trying defending and sucking men's ass 😂😂😂

[AmandaYVR]

@miadee Just because I don't think it's a big deal doesn't mean I'm "sucking men's ass."
I happen to have a good relationship with men.
She knows the guy, he's not some total pervert stranger asking her for them.

You two are just being typical females who attack someone just because they disagree with you. Despite what you think, you are not the moral police.

[SteveSmith1985]

Easy. "What's wrong with him" is that he's a fucking idiot. Just a jack-ass. Not "a bad guy"... but not the kind of guy I'd want any women in my life to ever consider. This dude just sucks. He's sleezy and just... I mean... this is not how "guys" act. It's how a certain type of guy acts... and that type is "fucking idiot"

Find a better guy. Seriously. This dude just sucks. Don't waste your time with that shit. Decent guys don't relate to girls that way.

[LickwidSkie]

Guys like looking at naked women. Simple as that. However, sending nudes isn't a good idea. There's no telling what the person might do with them, especially if they get mad at you. You could end up getting slapped with criminal charges if kids happen to see them, even if you had absolutely nothing to do with it.

Aside from that, if he could have come back to you sooner and chose not to, I think you'd be better off finding someone else. Wanting to be with you should be the only motivation he needs.

[Lycirian]

It's easy. If a men asks you and give it to him then he knows that was easy. Having something easy means it wasn't worthy.

See a men is a hunter. We went into the bushes and wait for hours and hours and hours and hours, if we really want something.

If we get it in one hour we can get to another one and get a second one.

But it shows something more important ten that. It shows that if I can got that from you so fast, any other meant can get it to which means for us that you aren't loyal in a relationship.

This is what happens in our brains without even realize that we got that opinion about you now in our brain.

There is a saying that says...
Let him see what he can get but let him imagine what he can have.

So you sending the nudes the imagination is gone as fast as possible.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I've gotten nudes from just about every girl I've been with. It's just a fun way to let the sexual tension build up and look forward to sleeping with eachother. It's really not a big deal.
I've never pressured them to do it though, and always offer to send them one first. Which they gladly accept and reciprocate. If they get offended and say they're not into that, I'll apologize, but every single one has been more than into it so far.

The relationship has to be sexual in nature for it to appropriate though. Like fuck buddies. If she's just a friend or you plan on making this girl your wife at some point, it's probably not the best idea to ask her to send nudes

[miadee]

You cannot force anyway, that'd be sexual assult. It is annoying when men ask for nudes. It feels like "He gets nudes from every girl" like you just said. And that gives the ick.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Ok. That's your opinion. Some girls like to have fun, some don't

[abbyjgriffin98]

Here's a tip. No matter how close you are to a person, never send them your nudes. A lot of people make that mistake and then their nudes suddenly end up on somebody's Facebook page. Get rid of him.

[Zandoval]

Eh I've got plenty of nudes with time. Even when an ex of mine cheated on me quite brutally, I just deleted it all. Because using that is just a dick move. There are better ways to make people's life a living hell for a bit without resorting to cowardice.

[Summeroflove]

The same reason women do. Because they’re horny. Don’t send them… to anyone unless he’s your husband and even then it’s not the best idea.

People want to use you for sex. If they really wanna see a naked body so bad. They can go online. Bur when that is degenerate.

Once someone wants nudes. You know that’s all they’re after. Just block and leave them be. Find someone better

Obviously not all men are like that

[ManOnFire]

I can say that I've never asked a woman for nudes. Any time I got them it was because we were flirting enough to make her comfortable to the point of 'surprising' me you could say.

Not to say that the naked female body is unattractive - which it certainly is great naked, but it can often be much more exciting to see a woman in revealing clothing than just entirely naked. Like wearing a black push up bra, or a sleeveless top showing great deep cleavage. That kind of thing.

[Stoner710]

Well guys like naked women men are very visual now he should wait until you’re married until he sees you naked (not saying you want to marry this guy). We need to go back to the dating scene like we saw in the godfather between Michael, Corriero, and Apollonia Vitelli where yes they were dating but weren’t allowed alone together because we know but single men and women in there 20 who are interested in each other do.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Expecting emotional attachment without physical attraction in a romantic relationship, is unreasonable.

He just wants to see you naked to know if he's interested, so either block him if you're not interested in him, or show off nude in person without touching if you are interested in him, but don't send nudes.

[TheSpaceGnome]

And no, its not weird, nearly all animals with complex eyes do naked mating displays to impress a sexual partner, humans are no different.

[Anonymous]

Please don’t send him nudes, especially as a bargain token. Like nudes motivate him? Really? How many other women’s nudes is he motivated by? lol he’s just looking to get laid and create a casual sex situation. You can do better, if you believe that of course.

[Filthy_Immigrant]

I never asked for nudes though I have received a lot of nudes from chicks I used to cyber with during my teen days


Not only is this a form of a compliment but it just feels like a major accomplishment to us men when women just don’t mind getting intimately exposed to us

[miadee]

Compliment and accomplishment? I do send nudes too. We simply don't care if you expose us, We seek for attention and validation

[Filthy_Immigrant]

@miadee I met both.

its a compliment because again this means you dont mind getting intimate with us, which its also an accomplishment for us because obviously not all men are able to accomplish this.

"We simply don't care if you expose us"

unfortunately Amanda Todd wherever she's at must furiously disagree with you

[nudetru]

why not I think it's.. really too see if we can get one anything naughty.. we go googly
for..

it's could I. n a way indicate mutual nterest.

but likely he's shallow he wants precise point of reference.. as to match it up to his ideals.. some times women misrepresent them selves..

[Sour-rose]

Bruh... isn't it obvious? So he can jack off to you later and maybe share it with his friends. Of all my sea of men I've met, none asked for nudes. Boobs? face? Sure. But full on nudes? Guy is just a untrustworthy bastard.

[insteadfew]

None asked for pussy pic?

[Sour-rose]

...2 folks of my life. One was boobs. Oh but these were ladies by the way. So doesn't... count?

[insteadfew]

Haha what? Women asked for your pussy pic? Why?

[Sour-rose]

@insteadfew Because we were sharing? She showed me her boobs and pussy. Aaand she expected the same in return... I said hell no. :)

[insteadfew]

Did you like what you saw and felt aroused looking at her body?

[Sour-rose]

@insteadfew Heh, no. Still was an asexual idiot and still am now... i know what I said.

[rachel776]

[Singing_Hollow]

Whats wrong is he only sees you as his play thing. DO NOT send him nudes please. If he is not consistent with his conversations and only talks about sex then thats all he sees you good for. Dont waste your time with him.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I do it because it's funny. I showed my wife where I asked this chick that started trying to talk to me to send me nudes. She pointed out that's probably the kid's teacher... oooff. I still sort of hope she sends me the nudes though.

[RolandCuthbert]

We like looking at naked women.

What is the big deal?

Why do certain women shame men for liking women's bodies and sex? That makes no sense.

[Tonyblony5150]

He is a weirdo and will probably show those pictures to a lot of people. I can't express how serious I am. Stop talking to him and don't ever think about him again if you truly cared about you you wouldn't want to show you to all his friends that way. Plus he may be able to use them against you someday. Tell him the buzz off

[FunkyMonkee]

Because we rarely ever get to see naked girls and love to look at them. It also gives us an idea of the kind of girl we're going after. If she doesn't mind us seeing her naked, she might be a fun girl to be with.

[Bricealan]

I have been asked for a 'penis picture' on GAG, and had a girl send me a nude, from the rear, in the bathtub, asking me to 'evaluate' her 'asshole"

Men are not the only offenders

[CreatingWonders]

He sounds like a creep to me, whatever you do don’t send him naked photos of you, it’s never a good idea to send photos of a sexual nature to anyone online or in person as you have no idea what they’ll use them for.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Because are more visual. The thing that turns them on more is a visual representation.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

I don't know. I don't see the point in it. I mean, it is just a body, nothing else. So no point in it from my perspective.

[OfMiceandMen]

Sounds like a douche. I'm sorry but you don't ask for nudes? If someone offers them, fine, but you should never ask for them.

[smilelots]

do what you feel is right for you ,, in the end if he likes you it will show no matter what you send or dont send. but be yourself if sending nudes is ok with you then make up your mind and do or do not there is no try.

[JJ092003]

It's so bad even on here. Guys send nudes before even saying hello lol

[BrookeS]

What if a girl asked for nudes?

[Wade12345]

True story: About half of women who have actually talked to me online always want to send me their nudes, and I've never asked for nudes before.

[Preeti161101]

Even it

[AllGoodNamesRGone]

Even it?

[insteadfew]

Damn that's a sexy pic
Who's she?

[Anonymous]

Men can be desperate creeps and yes, I know they are visual, but that is hardly an excuse.

[HighValue]

Low quality people ask for that. Also, low quality people use drugs.

[EaterPeter]

Wish I can tell you. I may want to know how much you like me. Can you loose clothes for me in front of me. I like to see your goodies. It has became very important for me for her goods to be certain way.

[TonyV]

Geuss he's trying to see if you're taking this serious.

[virtue2332]

Because we are a visual when it comes to sex.

[summiter]

They like something to look at when they jerk off

[Sparkie460]

Some guys get off looking at nude pictures of women they have been with. Some guys even show off the pictures to his friends. I think it's disgusting and disrespectful to ask for nude pictures.

[mobiusforniner]

Because he has only one head. And thats not the one without a brain.

[Dragonstarterplus]

Cause some women send nudes to guys if they ask

[JosyJosy]

Horny and I think they want attention like 'o she gave me a nude, she wants me'?

[Erron_Black]

hello josy how are u :)

[fonduegirl]

They're shameless

[LemiaOfThunder]

He wants to wank thing about your boobs and pussy and then send you a picture of his cum on your nudes.

[Anonymous]

Well guys are visually stimulated and they probably are using it for masturbation purposes and it’s different when it’s the person you are talking to compared to anything they can find on the Internet for free

[NostalgiaSenpi]

There's millions of pictures of naked women online, but the guy wants your naked, not theirs. Take it as a compliment

[Anonymous]

I wonder why the membership on here keeps dropping.

[es20490446e]

Do you think there's something wrong about him asking you for nudes?

[OddBeMe]

1. Nude pics get us off.
2. It’s a control thing.
3. It could be used against you if you give them trouble.

[miadee]

why is it control thing

[OddBeMe]

@miadee if you leave I’ll post those nudes on all your family’s FB pages. Is a sentence I’ve heard sociopaths in true crime shows say.

[BrookeS]

How often do you get girls asking for nudes?

[boobliker]

don't send any nudes as you never know who he may show, send him your face with a kiss

[gorydetails]

Men ask or nudes because they want to see you naked.

[HaveNoName]

Because they think every woman on the social media is a cam model.

[LiamJHayden]

I don't. And you should never send any.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Men are very visual creatures she just wants to see you naked. You must be hot take it as a compliment

[driven159]

because they are immature and have no clue in life same as women too not just guys

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women ask what we do or how much we earn or how tall we are… to see what is important to us.

[Hell_boy]

Maybe because their search bars are being monitored 🧐
Lol😁

[iSensei]

Maybe he just want to know u trust him or not

[Anonymous]

Because some women are foolish enough to comply.

[Celticwolf78]

Because they have no self respect for themselves or to women

[riverrat3]

i don't ask, but if i did it would be to see if you send them

[Catharine_N]

Horny lmao that's all

[Anonymous]

Men don't ask for nudes

Pervert ask for nudes