Men's body hair is a HUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUGE turn on for me. The further away from typical girl appearance a guy is the more sexually aroused I am. I even prefer "ugly" but traditionally masculine guys than "very pretty" boys (like J Bieber...). My girlfriends make fun of VERY hair guys (think hair on the back...) but that sh*t makes me cream.
So for me, the more hair everywhere, the better. That said, I'd never tell any guy what to do with his body. And I'd prefer that guys do with their bodies what THEY like, not what they THINK or read girls like.
Where are you from , because i see most women are the way your female friends are about male body hair. Most cringe and make fun of lots of male body hair especially his hairy chest and back. Do your lady friends also make fun of lot of arm and legs hair on men and like them to be as smooth clean skinned as possible as the men in the pictures?
Why is it that most women and girls assume that a very hairy man would obviously be having hairy chest and back and makes rude comments and fun of them... Personally you even like lots of hair on the chest and even back , shoulder?
@gullryvia My girlfriends are typical American brats (I say that with love). My family is Scandanavian so the guys aren't very hairy, and with bright blonde hair it's hard to see. I have the darkest hair in my ENTIRE family, kinda gold-brown. My dad joked that my mom had an affair after four boys to finally get a girl.
But I love hair on a man's arms, legs, chest, stomach, back. I love hairy eyebrows, unshaved below... Wrap me in man-hair, please. :)
However, I'd never make a guy feel bad b/c he was smooth. And if a girl makes fun of any guy b/c he's hairy, that girl should be cut off from the intimacy train--sorta like how you get kids to like vegetables. If you don't like what's on the menu, go to bed hungry. You'll change your mind soon enough. People bodies aren't things we buy at Walmart and discard when we're done.
I see , so your female friends would Love shaven legs and arms on men over somewhat hairy! I suppose most women , be it American or otherwise prefer and like shaved smooth men including the legs and arms. Isn't it? That's why everywhere in magazines and beaches you see shaved smooth legs and whole body on men. Have you ever seen hairy man on the beach , pool in reality? You even like hairy shoulder, back and even hairy balls , butt on men... even for sexual intimacy, intercourse and oral? Are you comfortable when you see a guys thick chest hair prepping out of the top front shirt button? Putting head on a guys chest and shoulders despite him having lot of coarse long thick hair?
Yeah, and we get older and busier and the shaving is less important anyway, we get hairier too, men and women, so it's kind of irrelevant as long as you can still enjoy each other... who even started the whole clean shaven thing?
@gullryvia I can't believe I'm answering this so bluntly, but HELL YEAH! The more hair, the better for me. But you're right now that I think about it. Nearly all the guys I see at pools and beaches are very carefully shaved, even waxed. I hadn't thought about it before now. :( Oh well. Maybe I'll buy my summer 2020 vacation ticket for Sicilia or Greece. :) Any suggestions?
Wouldn't date a guy who shaves their whole body or legs. Some trimming or like shaving your chest for example is fine but shaving your legs as a guy is weird in my opinion. I'd be uncomfortable with it. Also I don't think you should obsess over being smooth/hair free. Personally would never date a guy who needs to shave their whole body due to a hair insecurity 😐 Mean but just being honest
First of all, I don't think it'd look weird and secondly, I'd date a guy with above average hairiness and I'd be fine if he trimmed it but if he were to shave everything (regardless of him originally being hairy or not) I wouldn't date them. Turn off for me. Especially so if, like I said earlier, they were to obsess over shaving everything due to being hairy. An insecurity like that is a total turn off. Men are allowed to have insecurities but letting them take control of you in my opinion is not attractive. I'd prefer someone more confident
"Closely" trimmed his "whole" body.. Bruh just say you shave 😐 Anyways still no. But don't be bothered by my opinion, it's MY opinion, not anyone elses. That's one person in this huge ass world. You do you, it ain't my thing, but it's some other girl's thing. Whatever makes you happy.
I have a rule I hold to, I won't ever ask a woman to trim or shave anymore than I wiling to. I've had women enjoy me having a beard, having pubes, and being clean shaven on both counts. Never shaved my arms or legs, don't think I ever will. Never really saw the point of women doing so either.
My only thoughts on body hair are women shouldn't have mustaches, and neither gender should have so much pubic hair that giving/receiving oral is an uncomfortable experience like pushing through sawgrass.
Nice to know that women have enjoyed you being smooth shaven everywhere except for legs and arms and even enjoyed your beard and hairy balls and public bush. The very same women enjoyed your smooth body and even enjoyed your hairy skin?
Yes, as I enjoyed theirs. You're the same age as me man, you know those desires, and how important the push for things like being shaved and things like that change over time, especially in a relationship.
Yes, if I could for lack of better phrasing, part her bush out of the way and open her labia some to go down on her then it didn't bother me at all. If I could not, and there are several reasons for a why not there, then I would ask her to trim up. Ditto if I'm with a girl, she goes down on me, or sucks on my balls and is pulling hair out of her teeth... time to clean up.
@gullryvia really as a guy, the only time, ONLY time you want to shave your body hair is if you're getting paid to do so for modelling, and even then most of the time they'll only want shaved pubes for the banana hammock.
@kim45456 From our conversations before Kim, we would never get to the point of even seeing if we each have body hair, we are diametrically opposed and on different continents. Sigh, so why bother commenting on why you wouldn't sleep with me because I don't shave my body and don't mind if my women are the same? It's childish. Apologies in advance if I'm missing something or frustrated, just got woken up by a spam call and checking messages. That one kind of took me by surprise lol
@kim45456 it's alright, probably more my day kicking off that way that I'm frustrated by, don't worry kim, I'm sure we'll have more productive and fun arguments in the future lol
I don't 100% need to, but I used to in high school because my ex preferred me fully shaven. Now I just don't do shit for others. I do me for what I think looks best.
Just from the practical standpoint... PLEASE trim it. Don't have to shave it regularly or wax it... Just trim! I dated some VERY hairy dudes, and sometimes it's like fucking a gorilla and living with a mastiff! It gets everywhere! Next time I meet a new guy on a date and it looks like I would have to dig hair out of my teeth if I ever wanted to give him a bj - I'm walking, man.
I dont know where men came up with all this crap about removing hair. I have kept all my hair since it started growing i have very light hair on my arms. As for my legs the color is darker so I do shave my legs. It lools better when im in a dress or skirt and have on a pair of pantyhose.
LoL, you say you've kept all your arm hair since it grew because it's really light and not really visible... but even you do shave your leg hair since it's dark and coarser.!! Same is for the men with dark thick coarse body hairs... they need to shave it since it's quite dark coarse long and doesn't looks nice in shorts , half sleeves or when shirtless. Don't ya think so?
Thank God I'm not vain like so many people appear to be nowadays and your and a woman should want her legs to be smooth. A guys legs should have hair. Everybody dose have their own opinions. So thankyou for yours
@gullryvia. As for the amount of hair you get on your arms legs back chest where ever. Unless you have more hair on your body them an ape. Leave it alone. You might like to note a silver back is the head of the group and he dosn't mind any of his hair neither do the women of the group.
Silver back gorilla? 🦍 Wow... gorillas all have hairs and hence the gorilla women obviously wouldn't mind his hair because everyone has them , even women gorilla have those
@gullryvia well by all means if you wish to look like a woman then thats your choice. It should be intresting to see you walking in high heels but you'll need the heels to show off your smooth legs in your shorts.
Yeah sure smooth hairfree legs sikin won't look that bad TBH , but why wear high heels to flaunt those sexy bare smooth skinned legs , why not just expose them by wearing knee length shorts and sneakers?
Yeah maybe I " want to be smooth as a woman" but why did you say i want to " act" as a woman as well? Just not so. Isn't it better to be smooth as a woman rather than having a hairy chest and stomach as a woman's groin area can be if natural?
Its ßuppose to be natural and hairy the hair prevents many contaminants from entering the vaginal canal. As for those who say well with all the hair you will end up with odors.. i say try a wash cloth and some soap. And why would any woman want a so called man if he wants to feel like a woman
I should have know i would talk with someone who dosn't know what a wash cloth is. And maybe you mightblike to know that man scapping didn't become popular untill the mid 80's. There is nothing natural about a man shaving his body. For that matter there's nothing natural about a woman ßhaving her body either most women shave their legs for many decades or even centuries. Men left their hair to grow because they wern't affraid to be men
Then why don't women also stop shaving their legs , arms , pits and groin area... why women need to shave theirs already minimal and least hairy skin? A woman's skin is already so so less than a man's skin. And j seriously don't know wash cloth what you are talking about. !! You feel its healthy and okay for a man to keep his hairy balls and pubic bush all thick natural? Does pubic bush have any purpose on a male groin area as it has ok a female groin area?
I can't speak for all women but as for myself i only shave my legs. I dont have a need to shave other areas as for a previous mentioned article of clothing I enjoy wearing. When removing them hairs which have worked through get plucked out if i haven't shaved my legs. And this is one girl who will never get a wax job.
Which piece of clothing are you talking about, i don't get it and am curious about please. Also, just wondering, as you say you don't remove any hair except for lower legs, do you shave it or just closely trim it and leave pits and private hair all natural or its closely trimmed for sake of cleanliness and tidier looks?
I think men look good however they are. I personally prefer men with body hair, it just attracts me more - it comes off as more masculine, even if that isn't always the case. I like larger tatted dudes, anyways. Big beards and all!
If your love is true , then Why would his body matter in any way? I don't know what others think but according to me , it's his heart that we love not his body.
I am not that matured to answer this. Both r fine. I don't know. This is my first time thinking about a topic like this. Even if they shave it , it will grow again it's biological reaction of body
It doesn't matter if they do. I some of my guy friends do because it looks better when they have softer skin. But they do it on arms and legs and torso.
Yes, remove it as much as possible especially if you're hairy after if you have not a lot and thin hair you can keep it (but if there's a lot and dark it's better to remove).
The quesion isn't lacking what I think is the best answer, which is remove as much or as little as you want, it's your body and no one else has the right to tell you what to do with it.
Having said that, I think a lot of hair around the family jewels doesn't look that good.
A trim is good.. I wouldn’t really care As a woman I know how painful waxing is and how tedious shaving is so I couldn’t imagine what pain and how time consuming it would be for a man with tons of hair There’s always someone that just wants you as you are find that someone :)
Chest.. if it’s to the point where skin isn’t able to be seen through the hair at all, then yes a trim but legs no not at all But that’s my opinion is this guy trying to get a specific girl, starting to date, or have a reason for this question.. like why is it an issue suddenly?
In general. since he is very hairy man otherwise.. He has very hairy skin. So, light trimmed chest and stomach is more than enough for you, but how about somewhat hairy shoulder and very hairy forearms and thighs?
personally i think its kinda queer to shave all your body hair off as a dude. i would not like it and it would make me feel like im dating a twink or little boy. trimming is fine and practical. but i prefer my boyfriend to keep his hair, and he's really fuckin hairy lol
My second wife said that she so jealous of my bald legs. Sh tried all sorts of things to get the same. But a lot of the guys thought I was gay not having facial hair. I use to tell them I'm worse than that I'm transgender...
It's their body, they can do what they want. I don't mind either way, as long as it's not too much hair (above the average). Hair on forearms can actually be sexy.
Like I said, they can do whatever they want. I wouldn't want to change a guy. If he likes it that way, so be it. If I really hated it, I just wouldn't be with him.
i dint like it when men remove their hairs completely cause then they look like kids xD But some like it. Do what makes you feel better in your own skin no matter what people think.
Many times it's needed especially for the men who otherwise have coarse thick hair elsewhere. How do you prefer/want on the chest and stomach, if it's lots of hair? Light trimmed? Closely trimmed or natural?
So what , it does look nicer cleaner tidier and aesthetic, so what if it's somewhat feminine, but it seems and feels better than lot of coarse lond hair, no?
In close trimming you put trimmer really close to the skin and cut off all the hairs that's almost above the skin... in light trimming yu just cut off some hair so that it looks tidy and is not so long
There was this guy client when I was working in the Clinic at Massage School. None of the gals in the class wanted to go near him because he had almost as much hair as an ape! I didn't have much problem with his hair. His big problem was that he smelled bad, like "city dump" bad!!!
Why did you say such a big " Eww" 🤔 It looks cleaner and aesthetic i suppose and that's why every man in modelling, actors and pornography keep their body bare smooth. You rarely see any guy with hairy arms or chest/abs hair anywhere
I mean I am not trying to be offensive or anything but my skin crawled when I saw those pics. Don't know what it is but those pics looked unsightly to me personally again I mean no harm 🙏 The way that guy is posing and shaved looks like a man trying to act like a girl which is cringe for me
Maybe the last picture is bit girlie and cringy because of the pose and type of underwear he is wearing. and i can understand that what you say. But hey , how about the first three pictures? They're decent manly poses i suppose. You see that smooth men everywhere in magazines, porn videos , beaches and pool
Just curious, what do you like/expect/prefer on a guy who has LOTS OF HAIR all over his chest and stomach , very hairy legs, thighs and even arms , some hairy back , upper arms and shoulders?
Honestly I do not hate if someone is more or less hairy. I prefer at least some hair because it looks manly if he has a nice beard and all. It is just those pictures look weird for some reason I cannot explain lol I am sorry if that is you 😭😭🙏
When I hear "he shaves his legs" I just associate that with me and my girlfriends loll I do not know why but the guy does not sound attractive to me. It is a personal thing
Thanks for your honesty 😀👍 I can understand that " men shaving legs and arms" is seen as a bit weird especially in Asian continent where you are from because most men avoid shaving theirs while expect their women to shave theirs! Double standards for these men i suppose, Lol. May I ask something? If YOU were a male and had VERY hairy body most of the place and even on " odd" places such as the hairy balls, butt cheeks, shoulder and upper /sides of back alongwith hair elsewhere... how would you feel about yourself and do about it? 👍🤔 And if you dated such a man , would you at least prefer he at least trims it and shaves his odd hairy parts? Don't mind so long questions 👍
Yes there is double standards but then again we do not expect men to wear lipstick either. There always have been different beauty standards for men and women. Either way as I said the issue of body hair does not bother me lol
You look quite beautiful and modern woman almost like a model 👍😀 Am surprised that you prefer hairy men over smooth skinned men. Most of your female friends feel the same way as you do?
Wow thanks for the compliment :) I honestly have never asked them what they think about this topic loll but I am sure they are almost as apathetic as I am. My boyfriend is hairy and it does not bother me and its not something I normally notice in guys unless they are super hairy
How much hairy is your boyfriend , if i may ask? And where does he trim/shave his? Also, do you prefer/like if " very hairy" men shave it , or closely trim it or prefer absolutely natural on the body everywhere?
Not considering myself a model LOLL that is too big of an accomplishment. I do photo shoots from time to time with help of my photographer friends but more out of passion instead of a career for both me and my friends. 5'4 and 1/2. I would say my boyfriend is medium hairy and does not shave. Like I said before I do not care whether my man is very hairy or not. If I love him then I love him; hairy or not. Why are you so obsessed with body hair? 😂😂
5'4 1/2 inches... why not say 5'5 rounded off..🤔 Lol. Why typically mention those half inches additionally specifically! Lol. You've got a nice built and a nice face... you can even be intimidating to some men by your beautiful looks and nice decent height TBH! Actually i am a really very hairy guy and hence so obsessed over it. I don't know , never been with any girl and hence I feel girls would hatee hairiness and would appreciate smooth shaven skin especially it would look nice to be smooth shaven next to a woman's smooth skin or else being very hairy male body would look really odd and beastly next to her skin 😔 Your boyfriend doesn't even shave his balls, pubic bush or armpit?
Wouldn't it look weird to have lots of hair everywhere else especially lot of hair on the thighs and belly, buttocks but clean shaven groin area and smooth balls?
No but I have seen on a few occasions women pulling pubic hair out of their mouth, like in a manner of speaking without saying anything. But then going back down again.
What hint? Your question clearly states removal! Pointless conjecture but anyway, you can shave whatever you want and I'll keep growing my not very good beard.
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