Guys, Why do girls wear chokers but guys don't?

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Namyar · Accepted Answer

Its the feminine thing. Girls subcounsciuosly love to submit themselves to a masculine, strong man, who can lead and show the way. Its like the man walking the dog with the choker, it kinda reflects that level of control. It maybe sounds really bad, but girls usually deeply really love this aswell as a man find it very attractive when women show these feminine traits.

So when a man wears this, it really look weak. It looks like the man can be and is controlled by someone, which is not masculine. Masculine for a man is being dominant, have this independent leader attitude that most women love.

Kabluie · Accepted Answer

I have some chokers, sometimes we''d wear them with other necklaces so it's like a combined look. Like I have a chain choker with a key hanging on it which could be seen as a dom, can match if our date is wearing a padlock choker. Subtle hints.

Some guys have a felt choker which Kpop singers sometimes wear, or dog collar types, sometimes tattoo chokers are cool.

Chokers typically tend to be a signal of a sub thing, but it can be the other way. I just like them combined with other necklaces too.

Xitomyth · Answer

Aside form looking better on women, it's been my experience that just about anything will feel like it's choking me. Ignoring fashion, it's likely just a comfort thing, I prefer to wear things that are at least a little loose or have some give. I'm not claustrophobic but I'm not a fan of restrictive wear.

HawkPerception · Answer

Here's some news you may not be aware of. Girls don't have to wear chokers. Girls don't have to wear dresses. Girls don't have to wear lingerie or anything girly. But they are attractive to men because they look feminine. Chokers make the girl look submissive and most men are attractive to submissive women.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Women used to wear them to show they were sex workers back in the day. And then women just started using them as a fashion thing.
Guys didn't used to do that much sex work or show that they were with them since guys would have to mostly hide that work due to a lot of guy sex workers are gay and would of been killed for it or shamed. Therefore we didn't see it as much of a thing for us guys.

The_Maphio · Answer

Personally, I think it's a matter of size. A girl's neck tends to be thin in comparison. A large enough choker to fit a male neck would be big enough to look bad. Plus it'd press on the Adam apple and that'd be terribly tedious.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

According to my friend Google some guys do wear chokers & my friend Siri suggested some really good safety tips on wearing them.

Apope16 · Answer

Chokers are typically a sign of kink. it is a signal to a guy that she is pretty kinky in the bedroom. she likes whips, chains, handcuffs, cages. she is dark and mysterious.

anylolone · Answer

I wear them. Well, tight collars, buy's technically a choker because of it.

Most guys avoid jewelry, in case the going gets tough, which is why my shit is made to loosen or break if pulled.

My long earnings are so frail they break on their own.

Maybe I should do something about my pierced nipple, but to be honest most times people tried to choke me to death it was with a chokehold, so maybe it's paranoia.

Lynx122 · Answer

They do it's just rarer

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

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TheFlak38 · Answer

Because the point of chokers is for guys to treat you like obedient dogs. And when we fuck you doggystyle we can tighten it to turn off your gas during climax.

backontheblock22 · Answer

Because it’s too feminine and most men have to act masculine if their straight.

Phoenix98 · Answer

Aside from the fact tee have no reason to we also have an Adam’s apple.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't like having things on my neck, or having it touched in general. Also not a fan of how it looks unless part of an overall outfit.

slatyb · Answer

It’s just the custom at this time. Some clothing is considered feminine and men don’t wear it.

BrianMerritt · Answer

I've seen guys wear chokers before. They can look good.

Pogi-Paddy · Answer

I don't even like to wear anything around my neck, because it is a choking hazard in my line of work.🌹

Tomtom9090 · Answer

Chokers are a fashion statement that indicates 1) You are a sexually promiscuous woman and 2) You like to be choked during sex

MrTaboo · Answer

As it should be. Because collars go on girls. Then get leashed

EyesOfGod · Answer

Because men talk their bitches for walks and men can walk themselves.

berserk945 · Answer

Girls can actually pull them off because it look stupid on a guy

Steve1071 · Answer

I take it a black bow tie doesn’t count as a choker for men. Cause there are times they sure feel like a damn choker.

QuietRunner · Answer

All I know is watching Andromeda was almost too much

Ad_Quid_Orator · Answer

I think it's because guys just aren't into embellishments as much as girls.

jerdanro · Answer

A choker is sexy on a woman. It can also imply submissiveness which is attractive to many men.

JamieLoves · Answer

It’s a woman thing, I love them on girls. I know some guys that do. Jeff Beck is one..

Yellovv · Answer

Because that is not for us, that is for girls, but we have necklace...

Anonymous · Answer

Guys used to wear a silk cloth around their neck many decades ago but it makes them look gay now

ItsMeItsMe1989 · Answer

Guys certainly could, and many will. If the woman is the dom. in the relationship

KneeDragger · Answer

Chokers are cute and sexy little jewelry items.

Fennec4xx · Answer

Do submissive guys attractive? That collar represents obedience

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