Its the feminine thing. Girls subcounsciuosly love to submit themselves to a masculine, strong man, who can lead and show the way. Its like the man walking the dog with the choker, it kinda reflects that level of control. It maybe sounds really bad, but girls usually deeply really love this aswell as a man find it very attractive when women show these feminine traits.
So when a man wears this, it really look weak. It looks like the man can be and is controlled by someone, which is not masculine. Masculine for a man is being dominant, have this independent leader attitude that most women love.
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I have some chokers, sometimes we''d wear them with other necklaces so it's like a combined look. Like I have a chain choker with a key hanging on it which could be seen as a dom, can match if our date is wearing a padlock choker. Subtle hints.
Some guys have a felt choker which Kpop singers sometimes wear, or dog collar types, sometimes tattoo chokers are cool.
Chokers typically tend to be a signal of a sub thing, but it can be the other way. I just like them combined with other necklaces too.
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Aside form looking better on women, it's been my experience that just about anything will feel like it's choking me. Ignoring fashion, it's likely just a comfort thing, I prefer to wear things that are at least a little loose or have some give. I'm not claustrophobic but I'm not a fan of restrictive wear.
Women used to wear them to show they were sex workers back in the day. And then women just started using them as a fashion thing.
Guys didn't used to do that much sex work or show that they were with them since guys would have to mostly hide that work due to a lot of guy sex workers are gay and would of been killed for it or shamed. Therefore we didn't see it as much of a thing for us guys.Here's some news you may not be aware of. Girls don't have to wear chokers. Girls don't have to wear dresses. Girls don't have to wear lingerie or anything girly. But they are attractive to men because they look feminine. Chokers make the girl look submissive and most men are attractive to submissive women.
Personally, I think it's a matter of size. A girl's neck tends to be thin in comparison. A large enough choker to fit a male neck would be big enough to look bad. Plus it'd press on the Adam apple and that'd be terribly tedious.
According to my friend Google some guys do wear chokers & my friend Siri suggested some really good safety tips on wearing them.
Chokers are typically a sign of kink. it is a signal to a guy that she is pretty kinky in the bedroom. she likes whips, chains, handcuffs, cages. she is dark and mysterious.
I wear them. Well, tight collars, buy's technically a choker because of it.
Most guys avoid jewelry, in case the going gets tough, which is why my shit is made to loosen or break if pulled.
My long earnings are so frail they break on their own.
Maybe I should do something about my pierced nipple, but to be honest most times people tried to choke me to death it was with a chokehold, so maybe it's paranoia.They do it's just rarer
Because the point of chokers is for guys to treat you like obedient dogs. And when we fuck you doggystyle we can tighten it to turn off your gas during climax.
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