... if a girl gets a haircut or does their hair nice or do we just want them to?
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It depends on the level of subtlety of everything as well as the individual guy. It also depends on what's up in his life or what he's thinking about.
One girl I dated was mad because I didn't realize what was different about her. I begged a friend to give me a hint. "Look at her eyes."
She had lost a contact lens, and one eye was her usual brown, and one was a beautiful green. That's when I found out that her eyes were actually green. But I hadn't noticed all evening.
Same girl, I noticed she had changed a skirt, I noticed her hair looked different, a different perfume.
But sometimes, you have to not get angry if it's subtle. If you get a teeth whitening, or you painted your nails a sightly different color, most of us might not notice as quickly as if you got a large tattoo on your forehead. We won't notice a 5-10 pound weight gain or loss, especially if we see you a lot.
For what it's worth, I try to notice certain things, but it can be the "wrong thing" on occasion. I notice shoes you haven't worn before, but you actually are wanting me to notice you got a teeth whitening. I notice your eyes look even more beautiful, and you want me to notice that your hair is a 1/2 inch shorter on the sides.2