Why do we compare ourselves to other females beauty on Instagram?

[Aimee_]

I look like this and I hate how my body looks here.

[GaGirls]

You're cleaner than the board of health. Yeah we do. All wise people say not to do that, yet everyone makes that mistake. I do not do it. I'm the happiest person in the world because of it. You shouldn't feel bad over something you cannot control. Just don't focus on it. Focus on all the good. If you do that long enough and often enough you will start to forget all that other crap. I don't use social media/besides this and I watch where I go on this site. It is great. Even if pop on my old social media I don't really go on there to see how people I use to know are living. I got my own little race I'm running against myself. It's just and me and me. I love it. You have to know... Hey Will Smith can feel bad looking at Oprah... Will freaking Smith. All things are small relative to something. I am sure even Oprah probably when she was young and less wise use to look at models and feel bad.

[Aimee_]

Hey, I only post pics of myself in gag. I don’t use social media either. But it’s like my brain is already programmed to feel that way. Sadly. I think oh my god she’s do pretty I wish I looked like her or have her body. She must have very good looking guys. And I can’t even keep one for more than a year.

[GaGirls]

That's why you have to retrain your mind. You have to practice self esteem. You know the definition of esteem? It is admiration. Self- Admiration.

Write down 10 things you like about you. Hell you are the highest form of creation of the planet. On top of that there is no one else like you here on earth. Write down 10 things you are grateful for. It can be anything.

You know how when you have to go to school but then you find out it is a snow day and then you suddenly feel great? Or how when your going on vacation you feel great even though you have to wake up early to catch the flight? That is called a positive attitude. You wake up with a bad attitude cause you have to go to school but when you find out it is a snow day and school is canceled you sudden have a positive mental attitude. But we can do this without there actually being a snow day. All you have to do it think... What if there was a snow day how would I feel. What would I do. That is called rejecting your outer world and originating what you want inside your inner world. You don't get emotionally involved with the outer things you don't like. You know they are there but you let them be. Originate what you want and let that control how you feel. Get emotional with that.

Anyway try some of that stuff in training your mind. Make those things a habit. Build the guy you want in your head and feel what it would feel like if he was yours already. You may know it is utilizing newtons third law but also you will become very attached to the mental picture to the point we need it will become infallibly real by growing into such a connection with our life that it will become real it will become so knit with habit and emotion that our interest in it will be those which characterize belief.

[Anonymous]

i see nothing wrong with your body in the picture and you're honestly hiding your body in the first place so it's hard to tell. but i honestly wouldn't look at this and think of how your body looks. it's a normal pic. you just look normal. don't compare yourself to others on social media. it's not healthy and it's a very hard hole to dig yourself out of. trust me. social media is fake as fuck.

[Ascarymanasks]

Why because you compare yourself to them, that’s all guys do the same thing it’s nothing bad ig it just shows you aren’t secure enough with yourself if you think you look bad when looking at other models or other more attractive people, I personally think you look fine

[jasco]

Because you think she's pretty and you more than likely feel like you aren't. Than again it's human nature to want to be better and self confidence plays a role to

[Aimee_]

I have never felt pretty or good enough

[jasco]

why?

[Aimee_]

Just haven’t

[jasco]

would you like some help with feeling better about yourself?

[Soyyo9]

Girl please. If that’s really you I think you are cute with style and at least your skinny. I haven’t seen skinny since high school.

[Staximus]

You're crazy, there's nothing wrong with the way you look

[Aimee_]

Why do you say that

[Staximus]

You're just sitting in a funny position and tearing yourself apart for no reason. Stop thinking like that and you will be happier

[Anonymous]

Because you like most women. You have big ego's and have to be prettier than everyone else. As that's all there was to life. It's pretty sad. 🙄

[LegendaryIcon]

men. it's all about men, especially if you're straight

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You looked pretty and sweet

[emperor90]

Because we are jealous

[Aimee_]

We are !

[PeterSmith1983]

Very cute 😍