True from years ago. We were on vacation away from the kids. the wife had one piece bathing suit at the beach which was mixed use topless a special nude section and with bathing suit and no children. We were sunning and drinking and the wife giving a running commentary on everything from saggy tits to guys with big beer bellies hanging over their dick we had a fun day. And laughing and enjoying what was on display. the evening was nice quiet no kids and sex was great. After breakfast we were going to the beach the wife told me she forgot she had nail salon appointment so I was to go set up at the nude beach, we had been to topless beaches before but never nude that she would be along shortly. About 20 minutes later she is walking down the beach wearing her short robe and a small basket she waved I turned back toward the water, and she kept walking. Next there is a shadow over me I look up it is my wife standing balls assed nude and for the first time a shaved pussy I almost choaked and instantly had a raging hard on she sat on the towel with her legs open and smiling and asking if I liked the view and I was dumbfounded. She wanted to go swimming and she said loose the suit which I did and, in the water, we went we had an hour of fun grabbing kissing and sucking. We got back to the room and did not leave until breakfast she said she had always wanted to do that and while at the salon she had a few drinks and thought it would be fun to get bush shave off and come out nude to the beach. We have done this a few times after, but the most thrilling is when the kids are gone and after drinking the wife turns off the yard lights pool lights house lights and sneaks into the pool nude and yes 5 or 6 other yards can see into the pool, and we have great sex. We also have a lot of pictures too.
Omg gosh! Thank you for taking the time to share your experiences and thoughts on this topic. I enjoyed reading
Advocates for women having the freedom to expose their breasts, just as men can, fail to acknowledge the fact that a womanās breast and nipple are sexually attractive to a man. They are also an erogenous zone, in most cases bringing pleasure to the woman when stimulated during sex. If exposure became commonplace it would invite consequences of inappropriate staring, touching, disrespect and possibly violence towards those women. Furthermore, the concealed female breast has with it an element of mystery, imagination and attraction for males. Removing that element would make the sight of female breasts commonplace resulting in indifferenceā¦possibly having a negative affect on arousal for men (like watching too much porn). For argumentās sake Iāll throw in the age factorā¦are we going to allow young girls to walk around topless? Leave things as they are, which is to limit nudity to private and secluded areas (like beaches or clubs) where it is acceptable to everyone in attendance.
I agree with half of that but which are you saying, that it will make men MORE aroused, or LESS aroused? Cause the way you wrote it, it sounds like both would just cancel themselves out and not be a problem.
@IceCreamSandwich I feel the same way. Half agree.
Nost people do not know that in New York City it is legal for a woman to walk around topless. About 10 years ago one of Bruce Willis s girls was photographed walking around the city topless by The New York Post
Yes but at least here in Europe it's quite accepted overall don't know about other places
I wish America wasn't so strict with nudity and censorship
As a woman i never want my man show his dick lol I'm really sooooooooooooooo jealous
I don't think penis and boobs are synonymous
But I understand being protective over what's yours.
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First of all let me just answer the question yes yes they should. Now for some gritty oh my gods and what if "Karen" objects 🤦
Somewhere over time in America women's breast became an object of sexual desire. I believe it stems from the christian beliefs that have influenced laws and policies in America over the years, in order to dictate what's acceptable in society, aligns with antiquated Quaker Christianity propaganda. It's been implanted in my brain because of society rules, regulations, and laws, additionally they're (women's breasts) are always covered. (I do like a nice set of... )
The human body is beautiful, in all of its colors shapes sizes and genders. So if anyone feels comfortable enough in their own skin to show their skin equally and lawfully in public, according to the Christian Quaker blah blah
blah. Their our bodies, men and women should have the decision to go topless anywhere it's acceptable to be shirtless.
Thank you for taking the time to leave detailed feedback. This was very insightful and helpful feedback. I appreciate it.
You're so welcome dishy😎
Giggles 😂
I would be perfectly fine with my gal going to the beach without a top. Breasts are natural, and a normal, beautiful part of the female body. Modern society has overly sexualized female breasts. If a guy can show his chest and nipples at the beach, then why should a woman have to hide hers? Free the nipple!
Yay! Free the nipple!
Damn right! 🧅🧅❤️
Sure:) If she wanted to look at other guys after the places I took her to I would have no fear of her stepping out:) Even if she decided to do just that I would let her go & be happy for her & find someone else myself. I have no wish to see a flower wilt. I spent the last 22 years learning how to move on & also have a clear picture of what I want & a woman that has no desire for me definitely isn't it:p
That's kind of sad. Going topless doesn't mean she's not happy in her relationship or that she will flirt with other guys. Some people want to embrace their nudity and it has nothing to do with not having a desirable partner.
I wonder why you think this way.
You should know the intentions of your partner. If not, you need better communication
I could tell lol.
Oh okay. Maybe more practice will improve your relationship skills.
My opinion, women should be able to be topless anywhere a man is. It's just fair. Those who don't like it can stay home or require men to be equally modest. Imagine that!
There are some clothing optional beaches near me. I'd love to go to one with my girlfriend. In that context, I'm fine with whatever she does. It would be fun to be truly free with her...
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I LOVE this comment. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic. So spot on
Yes, I would.
Honestly female breasts aren't all that sexual to me when just *looking* at them.
And I don't really see the big deal.
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Also, I don't really mind that much sharing a girl to begin with.
Add to that seeing other guys who care more about her breasts look at them with desire is fun. :-P
And hey, it's probably more comfortable for her too. :-)
You'd be okay with other guys showing attention and staring?
Oh I see! Thank you for your help
Her choice if she wants to go to the beach sure if that's what she wants, who am I to say no.. her life her choice. If she wants to go topless then that's fine too, again I'm not controlling so I won't make her doing anything she didn't want to let alone stop her doing as she wishes. Her body her choice
Beautiful answer
Fine by me to both questions.
As much as I love breasts I also realize that the sexualization of breasts was never really a thing before Abrahamic religions got their foot in the door and it's only gotten worse from there.
If a guy can do it i think women should have the option to as well
This was such an insightful and informative comment. I really enjoyed reading your thoughts on this topic. Excellent feedback
If she wanted to I would be supportive.
If she didn't want to, I would also be supportive.
Sometimes, I like the idea of other guys seeing her topless but not being able to do anything about their lust.
Other times, I cannot stand the idea of another guy seeing my girl even slightly undressed.
In terms of other women, that is their personal choice, but they should accept that if they do, they might get a few glances.
Would you / do you go topless on the beach?
I want to really badly but my man said no unfortunately
I just enjoy embracing nudity. I don't care what other guys would think. They get to be shirtless all the time and no one says anything about it.
I think itās fine but there would be an adjustment phase for places where the society is not used to women being openly topless. Itās tough as a male teenager to be around that when the hormones are raging but yea cognitively it seems super reasonable.
That's a good point. Young boys would probably struggle the most to control their urges.
If she is not having a top, I will have two for her in advance.
Not possessiveness, but to save her respect.
I love her, then my dialogue would be. "Not going anywhere without wearing a top and a bottom"
She will understand that.
Or If I am super-rich,
I will buy her a beach for doing that.
I loveeeeeee this answer!
Thank you for taking the time to explain your answer. I enjoyed reading
I'd be fine going with my girlfriend going to a beach nude. But I would expect people around her to respect her body and her boundaries. She might not be perfect, or to someone's taste, but she is a person who has taken the risk of putting her trust in all the men around her to feel safe around them.
I really like this answer. You make a really valid point. About other men maintaining boundaries and being respectful towards the man she's with
I don't know tbh, I can be quite jealous so there's part of me thinking I wouldn't want other guys to see her, but im also not controlling and I think it would be quite sexy, and I wouldn't mind going to a nudist beach and would like a partner to join me then so I dont know tbh 🤷āāļø
I enjoyed reading your thoughts! I think it's natural instincts for a man to be protective and yes I meant to add topless with her partner. Not topless alone
Yeh but obviously atm it's different, a guy it's normal to be top less, a girl it's still not widely accepted, at least not in my country. Although it should be, because biologically speaking there's nothing sexual about woman's boobs, it's just a thing that's been made out to be by the society that we live in🤷♂️
I agree with you 1000%
In the 1890s in the UK showing too much ankle was scandalous. It has nothing to do with the part just people’s attitudes about it.
Ofc not... Wearing only a bikini already uncovers a lot of the women body that any real husband or boyfriend should be jelous about...
Those things aren't talked about a lot for a reason... Those are the basics of life...
Thank you for sharing your honest thoughts. And that's true wearing a bikini can show more than enough. But sometimes it would be nice to not have to wear a top because it creates bad tan lines skin discoloration.
I would be alright with it. Western culture is very different than others though. You never know when a "Karen" will roll up and try to fuck up your entire day.
Those are the worst. I feel like I get attacked by Karens wayyyy too often.
She wouldnāt do it, self conscious about mom body. Not around me or them but around anyone else. I donāt see how itās fair to fault her for things changing after two choices we made together.
Oh I see
If my girlfriend loved it and felt confortable walking around the beach topless, that would be completely all right for me. Actually I'd appreciate that very much: some kind of shared fun ;0)
This was such a good answer! Thanks for your help
You're welcome girl :0)
I think everyone should be free to show themselves without the fear of being judged of criticized.
LOVE your answer
Love to share my ideas in your interesting questions 😁
Such a nice guy! You rock 🎸
Awww you make me blush, thanks for saying that girl. 😊
Maybe at a topless, adult only beach. Itās not my thing but Iād consider it. If itās a regular beach the answer is no. Itās indecent to flash random kids in public.
I love how open minded you are. Great feedback
Absolutely fully permission, but she doesn't need my pemission, she is free woman got choice to exercise freedom.
She did topless on beach.
I like when she topless in public.
This is such a sweet answer! Thank you for taking the time to write this out.
She would never do that. My partner and I both dress modestly. I wear rash guards with shorts and she wears burkinis or other modest swimwear.
Oh I see! That makes sense
I think it's not right that they allow men to go to the beach without a top or shirt but not for women, I don't know about this maybe on a Nude Beach? Lol
Yes!!! Love your post! Topless equality
@secret6620 Thank you
I know a woman that sunbathed topless and burnt her nipples. She was in pain for a long time. Fortunately she wasnāt large enough to bounce around in a bra.
I was raised on a farm. So bare udders wouldnāt bother me if she was into it.
That sounds incredibly painful
Yeah I think I would be ok with it , itās actually legal here in New York for them to go topless in beaches and parks if they want but no one really takes advantage of it because no one else is doing it around them I guess
Oh wow! I didn't know that you could go topless in the parks too. That's crazy but so empowering.
Since 1992 here but I think many women don’t know it , not sure how many other states allow it
I just assumed it was still illegal everywhere except nude beaches lol
Yeah I could understand that but they can only go topless legally here
That's so cool!
If everyone is topless at that beach and I was with her, then I don't mind. But if she was the only topless woman there, then it's a problem.
I really like this. Thank you for taking the time to explain too. I appreciate it
I think it would be fine. I would trust my girlfriend/wife, I wouldn't be so trusting of others thinking it would be an advertisement. 😅
I love how secure and open minded you are. More guys should be like you
Thank you! 😊
Only if i can let my balls (just the balls no sausage) dangle. Let's make ourselves impossible to talk to lol
I don't think genitals are the equivalent of breasts. Your chest would be the equivalent of a woman's breasts. Just topless lol
They're equivalent in the level of distraction they're going to cause the opposite sex
Can't argue with that 😂
Listen lady my eyes are up here
Ahahaha 😂🤭👏🙈
Definitely gals should be allowed to go topless, BUT intill it's totally normalized, don't get upset if the guys are sporting towel hangers. look, maybe stare, and want to touch.
Thanks for your help!
If it were a topless or nude beach I guess not. I wouldnāt want her going aloneā¦. either with some girl friends or myself. I would prefer if I went with her though.
I meant to make an update that she won't be alone and that she will be with her boyfriend
I really like this comment you made. Excellent feedback
If she's with some trusted friends then sure, not alone. Are weirdos out there.
Of course! Definitely not alone but with the boyfriend or s/o
Yes because she's coming home with me afterwards and I get to see her topless the whole time so sure!
LOVE this answer soooo much!
I would go as long as it was a nude beach. I donāt think women shud be allowed to going topless. I believe the sexual attacks would increase dramatically.
That's so scary! I hope sexual attacks don't increase if they legalize women to be topless in public places
I have no objection of the women exposed in public. Do complain if you are stared at most of us male chauvinist or perverted male population.
Lol! Thank you for your help
No I would not be okay with that. Since It would not makee happy or proud ha I g ma girl walking around people at the beach, With her boobs out bouncing nah not with me.
Thank you for being honest! It's common for men to be protective of their woman's body
He'll yeah especialle I like women who respect their bodies.
She doesn't need my permission and its her life, so I wouldn't interfere
Excellent feedback
NO, I would not be happy. Not that she ever would but that just isn't going to happen.
I completely understand! My man doesn't approve either. But I understand his reasoning plus he has a bad temper.
They can if they want. America doesnāt allow it because America sexualized womenās breasts.
So true! I feel like Americans sexualize everything women do.
If your girl is doing this she's not worth keeping around. And no women shouldn't be going around topless, men and women are not the same.
You're hilarious. This comment screams insecure male.
Embracing nudity has nothing to do with being promiscuous. Two completely definitions. Who hurt you?
Different definitions *
You are very aggressive unprovoked. Have you been cheated on and that's why you're behaving so irrationally? I'm just curious
I'll take that as a yes. It's okay though. Just need to date better quality women.
Oh I am lol. But I wouldn't expect you to know the difference from this commentary. You sound like a bitter and single guy. Best of luck though.
OR more like one of those unhappy guys in a relationship that doesn't fulfill you. So you're hostile about everything that doesn't fit into your ideals
You seem so unhappy. Hopefully your miserable energy isn't carried over into your marriage. I can see you being divorced sooner rather than later.
I don't get upset lol. But sounds like you are projecting those feelings onto me. I must have struck a nerve. No worries. Old dogs can always learn new tricks.
Who says I'm not? Lol you don't know anything about me but I know a lot about you. You seem to share like an open book.
Here's an idea. Who is spending time with your wife while you're here arguing with me. Be a better husband and go spend time with her so you don't get divorced.
Awe! Go spend time with your wife that you love so much. And stop wasting my time.
Sure... Text your wife from work then ahahaha...
Why are you still here? You've been dismissed
Absolutely not ! I never ever bear someone make attention towards my girlfriend. Ethically and socially it's is not good to women go on beach top less
Very understandable! It's totally normal to feel protective.
If my partner is comfortable with it then why not her body her choice plus i enjoy the excellent view 👿
Great feedback!
One I my self would be ok with it if it was legal by the law so I say yes it should be ok.
God Bless
Very good point
I believe that full nudity should be an option for both sexes, nudity is nothing more than a lack of clothing, there is no deeper meaning.
So my answer is yes, I believe it should be an option.
Absolutely LOVE this comment
Happy Easter! I hope you had a good weekend
Thank you! ✨️
No i won't be ok with my girlfriend going topless... but... i would be more than happy if women and girls are allowed to go topless anywhere and if they choose to stay topless.. so beautiful ā¤ļø😍
That makes sense. My man told me no when I asked him. He's very over protective it's just tits but I respect his decision
Would you be ok if your man exposed his groin area publicly? 🤨
Genitals and breasts are not synonymous sorry.
Both are sexually appealing things.. no?
So are feet. But they are not synonymous either.
A chest is similar to breasts.. penis is similar to vagina. Duh lol
But legs and feet of a man isn't sexually appealing at all while legs and sometimes feet of a woman is highly sexy
You don't know what other people find sexually appealing lol
Do you think some women find a man's legs /thighs or even chest sexually arousing?
Yes. And some men do too.
only if we both are alone lol. and its me starring her all day 😍
That's sweet
Uh oh!
That's not always a bad thing. Alpha trait.
Unless its a nudist beach then no. I won't be okay with her being topless.
I appreciate the topless Korra photo
I completely understand!! And thank you!
I'd be hard with whatever makes her feel comfortable
Oh wow! Thank you for your help!
sure why not. People put too much sexuality in female boobs in my opinion
That's sooo true
Yeah why not. My only concern is if Iām not there and not knowing if sheās safe in that situation
Oh no! I should have specified that you will be with her. She won't be alone.
I am totally fine with it.
Would you go topless if you could?
I really want to! But my man is very protective and won't agree to it. Even if I'm with him at the beach. He wants to fight anyone who looks at me wrong. I try to calm him but he's a firecracker 🧨
Umm... well... 🙊🙈
That says it all. Hope you don't stop posting because I love your pics. Always brightens my day.
Total trust is the key to avoiding jealousy and it takes a long time to build. I am fortunate to have that. I could sit naked in a hot tub with a half dozen hot naked women and she knows she has nothing to worry about.
I understand. I will definitely take your advice. It's just hard sometimes. When he's always so overprotective.
Oh he'll yeah. I will proudly walk along side her😍😍😍😍
Love this answer!
my ex did it without me once. mind your she had perfect DDs (not boasting). she saw heaps if guys taking photos (at Bondi Beach in Sydney lol).
also I wouldn't care if I'm with them.
Lol! Sounds like a wild day at the beach for sure
I wouldn't be okay with it. Not because she's a woman but because of all the perverts and douches out there.
Very true! And protective partners are such a turn on.
Sure!
not to sound like I own a woman but i would not let her go anywhere without a top.
Her tits are for my eyes 👀 only
Sounds very reasonable and natural instincts for a man to be overprotective
I agree 1000%. Very alpha point of view.
Depends on how crowded it is.
If it's quiet, only few people there, I'd be ok.
Oh that's a great point. If it was like a private beach or tiny lagoon then she would have her privacy
I absolutely would be okay with it. I think the US is far to uptight about nudity.
I agree 1000%. Entirely too uptight
Of course no...
Why : because her tits will show her tits!! 🤷🏻āāļø
Totally understandable! My man is very protective too. He told me no to being topless at the beach.
He's real lover!! ❤️
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I feel women should be allowed to go topless any where a man can.
LOVE this answer!
If I'm allowed to tittyfuck her on the beach, then maybe lol.
Oh wow lol
At a nude beach or where it's accepted. Anywhere else no because it's saying she's now single and trying to break up with me
Oh wow! That's a interesting perspective
No because no one looks at men's chests like they do with women.
That's very true! Breasts are definitely more sexualized
Its ok by me. I like to look and I am sure others do too.
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