Guys, would you be upset if she didn't wear sexy clothes that you bought for her?

[Anonymous]

[Cuminginside]

I was mad when my ex girlfriend bought on sale clothes like that but they were not for me so I told her like I could try them on at least so she said no so I said who are they really for she would not give you a straight answer I told her if you have somebody on the side we get equal treatment she did not reciprocate so luckily the clothes all have the tags on them so I brought them back to the store for a Store refund and I told them why I was returning the clothes they were clapping for me I did not get physical with her even though I wanted to I just got even.

[Oigit]

I wouldn't buy her clothes. Because I don't like when people buy me clothes. It causes my independent streak to go into overdrive. I know the clothes I like and I am capable of getting them myself. So don't buy me clothes and I'm not going to dress differently because other people think I should.

[NoUsernameSelected]

If it's something that I wanted to her to wear only for our private time, than yes. The last thing I would ever do is tell her how to look in public. I mean, I'd do a lot of things for my girlfriend to satisfy her, I would be surprised why she isn't willing to do the same for me or if I have been lacking and she thinks it's not justified that only I get what I want (which I usually make sure, doesn't happen).

A relationship can only work if both parties are willing to give and feel great to satisfy their partners' needs. If something goes to far for one party, it should be discussed - if there is no solution, maybe you aren't meant for each other.

Don't take this as gospel though, as you can see, there are many guys here who'd put you on a pedestal. It's your choice, but from my personal experience, it feels as good to give as it is to take and it makes things more satisfying.

[Reaper1985]

I’m currently single but I wouldn’t buy a female clothes. That she didn’t pick out for herself to start with. Rather just go shopping with her to give. My honest opinion on outfits she tried on. However if she asked me to buy her clothes but rarely wore them. Then I would likely be upset for wasting money on them. Which would likely cause me to spend less money on her over time.

[integrale77]

Not bought many clothes for my girlfriend yet but she is a very practical girl, jeans, t-shirt and trainers is her style.

If I bought something sexy she might wear it to please me but it wouldn't be a preference if it wasn't comfy.

[Lliam]

I'd be disappointed if she didn't try them on or at least tell me why she didn't like them. I'd be happy to let her exchange them. But, after all, I bought her sexy clothes for my own enjoyment, not hers. LOL So I think she should humor me. :-)

[razelove]

Yes, I get upset if she doesn't wear weird stuff I buy on a whim like cat ears, collars and what not. Hmm, it has been a while since I've bought a sexy bedroom outfit though, I should get on that, thanks for the idea ;)

[ChrisMaster69]

Well, chances are I would never be buying her ‘sexy’ clothes in first place.

i have have never really bought a girl clothes etc unless she’s with me and SHE chooses.

so it’s a situation that would not likely happen

[Pyrofox]

I'd agree to let her wear one of my super big baggy comfy sweat shirts on top of it and then she can deal with me when we are alone sneaking peeks. Then at least she can be sure it's just me looking. XD. I'll find away to make it work.

[ShadowMonarch]

Of I would be... men choose those clothes taking time and thinking how would they look on her... but guess what? She doesn't wear them... what would you feel if your boyfriend or husband did that?

[Asker]

but the clothes are too sexy. if the clothes are cute and less sexy, she would wear..

[ShadowMonarch]

Sexy ones that change your character shouldn't be worn... I agree

[Sixgunsound]

I flip the script and ask for three ideas, that way I know she likes it and it fits and thus will be happy with what I get her and it’s still a surprise.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

A little. Rather her just say she doesn't need me to do that for her. This isn't really a gesture I do very much at all though

[Nawlins34]

I wouldn't buy them until I knew that woman well enough to know beforehand if she would wear them or not.

[TommyMountainFigure]

You obviously don't know my g/f. She'd get upset if I DIDN'T buy her sexy clothes!

[crossdressingrihno]

If we're talking about buying lingerie and s*** like that I'm either going to shop with her or she can do it alone

[TheLoneTerran]

Those kind of clothes are a minefield. I wouldn't buy those.

[Fireguy17]

just because we think it looks good, doesn't mean she will think the same, or it is comfortable to wear.

[invalid1]

No, maybe she isn't comfortable in them.
She is not an object.

[Poseidonboi]

As long as she explains why I do not see the issue
Like I be happy to exchange it for something she would prefer
Just don't pretend to and then never wear the clothes it's just a waste

[Jamie05rhs]

No. If she doesn't like the clothes, she doesn't like the clothes.
Next time I'll work with her to pick out something she likes.

[ImNoOne111]

A little bit upset, you know. I bought it to see her trying it and she doesn't, can't force her to it, its her body

[Massageman]

I'd just exchange it for something she DOES like to wear - at least wear for a minute or two. ;- )

[BLP11520]

Through experience let her buy her own sexy items... don't make the mistakes many of us do. She wears it , you are not.

[Akpos]

Yeah, l will, because l bought them for her to wear them

[Bklynbadboy12]

I wouldn't be upset but I would want to know why she doesn't like it

[slatyb]

I don't pretend that something I want is a gift.

[exitseven]

Maybe disappointed but not upset.

[Iron_Man]

Then let me take them back and get my money

[Pudsmucker]

Little disappointed maybe, but not upset.

[Samhanks]

Yes, unless she has a logical explanation!

[Imsmurter1]

I guess. Never occurred to me but perhaps yes

[EaterPeter]

I would be fine if she gives me good sex