Why do young guys always have their shirt collar open?

[neilsmart]

[bzcxx]

Shirt collars are traditionally not meant to be buttoned. All formal shirts do not have buttons on the collar. I get my dress shirts tailor made and it comes with a slot under the collar to insert a collar stay (either made of metal, silver or mother of pearl). Any shirt with buttons on the collar immediately relegate it to become an informal shirt. If you look at morning or evening dress, none of them would be buttoned down.
Take a look at how men in the royal family dress - classic Windsor/spread collar that’s left open. Ask me anything about men’s clothes (traditional ones like dress shirts, suits, pleated pants etc) and I can probably answer you.

[neilsmart]

so why do young guys always have their shirt collar open like in the pic above?

[bzcxx]

Because the top button is not meant to be buttoned unless you’re wearing a tie/bow tie

[bzcxx]

And that shirt, by virtue of being patterned, short sleeved with a breast pocket is a VERY informal shirt.

[bzcxx]

The most formal shirts are solid colour, long sleeved with no breast pocket. Those are usually worn with a tie or bow tie. Then you’ll see the top button actually fastened.

[neilsmart]

he looks confident and relaxed which makes him look attractive with his neck naked

[bzcxx]

Personally for me when I wear button up shirts, I do not button the top two button. Makes it slightly more casual with some flair while looking elegant

[neilsmart]

its a good look! In contrast it look comfy compared to girls wearing a choker

[bzcxx]

Yes that’s true! I personally do not own T-shirts. I love wearing long sleeved shirts (with sleeves folded), spread collar with top two buttons unfastened

[neilsmart]

thats very attractive. I feel slightly submissive when I'm wearing a choker while chatting to a tall guy that is wearing a shirt with his collar open. I guess it's the contrast of his neck naked and free while mine is constricted in a tight choker all night. I guess it makes guys seem more dominant and in control

[bzcxx]

Yes it does make guys seem more dominant! You wear a choker?

[neilsmart]

yes sir, can you see it on my profile pic?

[neilsmart]

well?

[bzcxx]

Oh yeah I can! Sorry I just saw this

[neilsmart]

what do you think of it?

[bzcxx]

I like it!!

[neilsmart]

tighter than a guy having to wear a tie?

[WindAtMyBack]

I don't want to be strangulated. Buttoning that top button is horrible. Except for shirts meant to be worn with a tie that top button isn't even meant to be buttoned. It's just for show. Sensible shirts don't even have a top button.

[20yearsolder]

Because it looks stupid to be buttoned all the way up unless you're wearing a tie. It's much more comfortable that way also

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[Havthrills]

Just for you to enjoy seeing their neck. For me, I can't stand something on my neck like that so I keep it open. Don't you like seeing it open? I bet you would want it all way unbuttoned.

[neilsmart]

guys look confident and relaxed with their collar open and their neck naked for sure

[Havthrills]

I like mine all the way unbuttoned. Why not just let it all hang out?

[neilsmart]

sometimes when i'm chatting to a guy with his shirt collar open, it makes me feel jealous of their comfort since my neck feels restricted in a choker lol

[Havthrills]

Do you like chokers? How many do you have?

[neilsmart]

yes i have one choke and it does feel a little tight but i'm used to it now - my neck feels naked without it so i wear it everyday

[Havthrills]

How and why did you start to wear it?

[neilsmart]

i always got more attention from guys when wearing it and also several of my ex bfs used to say it looked hot so i just kept wearing them

[Havthrills]

It does look hot. Very hot. How long have you worn one?

[neilsmart]

like since i was a teenager - all my ex bfs used to enjoy putting it on me a little too tight

[Havthrills]

I had a girlfriend that loved being choked during sex. I should have put one on her. You have a beautiful neck. Choker suits you. Do you take it off at times?

[neilsmart]

i rarely take it off - yes you should have put one on her to assert your dominance over her

[Havthrills]

Next time I will. A little wider than yours probably. With a loop on the back for something extra.

[neilsmart]

you could pull on it to make her work harder for air

[Havthrills]

Most definitely. Like fkn her from behind. Also have a leash on it so I can pull easier or strap her down

[Mark987]

I do only because I don't like the top buttoned. Feels like it is something against your neck. If I am at a wedding then I will for sure or a formal event

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[FilmGuy93]

It’s more comfortable and relaxed to dress that way.

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[Bricealan]

BUTTONING THE TOP BUTTON MAKES A GUY LOOK LIKE A CONVICT. NOBODY DOES THAT.

[ketrdu]

It's easier to breathe. Fastening the top button feels like I'm being choked.

[neilsmart]

guys look more relaxed, confident and attractive with their collar open - the guy in the picture looks good with his neck naked

[msc545]

We are supposed to wear it tight around our necks?

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[msc545]

yes.

[Staximus]

No guys button the top button unless they are wearing a tie

[Anonymous]

For me personally my neck is a bit big for some of my shirts and it cuts off air making me go red in the face which isn't good unless I'm being choked in bed.

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[jerdanro]

It's more comfortable, if you aren't wearing a tie.

[Changiis07]

To have their own style look cool...

[neilsmart]

but why though?

[TheMajesticKing777]

It's more comfortable I guess

[neilsmart]

guys look really relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to girls wearing a choker like me lol

[TheMajesticKing777]

I don't know how chokers are a thing honestly, doesn't it bother

[neilsmart]

it feels sexy wearing it around guys on a night out

[TheMajesticKing777]

Oh well in that case fair enough

[Ironic_Method]

... why would you button the top button?

[neilsmart]

guys look more relaxed, confident and attractive with their collar open - the guy in the picture looks good with his neck naked

[TallAnon]

We generally don't like being choked

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[front2back]

You always leave the top button undone.

[Googlemyahoo]

Its comfortable having a tight collar

[TrillXHippy]

Cause we like it that way that’s why

[neilsmart]

guys look more relaxed, confident and attractive with their collar open - the guy in the picture looks good with his neck naked

[Anonymous]

I do that because it feels comfortable.

[neilsmart]

guys look relaxed and confident with their collar open, in contrast to me wearing a tight choker

[Anonymous]

breathing room more comfortable

[neilsmart]

guys look more relaxed, confident and attractive with their collar open - the guy in the picture looks good with his neck naked

[LavLavLuv]

to breathe

[neilsmart]

guys look more relaxed and confident with their collar open - the guy in the picture looks good with his neck naked

[Bismarck_96]

Cause Summer weather

[neilsmart]

guys look more relaxed, confident and attractive with their collar open - the guy in the picture looks good with his neck naked

[Bismarck_96]

I don't know but I do enjoy squeezing women's neck with my hands lmao

[neilsmart]

do you have big hands? i've had guys squeeze my neck with their hands until my tongue starts to hang out lol