I try to be attracted I'm just not. One got upset at me for rejecting. I prefer more tone/fit and healthy.
It's a personal preference. If you don't, you can't be shamed into it. Tell that friend to eat her least favorite food and enjoy it. She can't. Because it's not her preference.
I will say this though: I found my partner unattractive when I first met him. After I got to know him, I found him attractive. So understand that just because you aren't INITIALLY attracted, doesn't mean it can't change. Give a guy a month or two to impress you if he's got a good personality and heart. If he still unattractive, leave.
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You're 27 and asking if such thing is wrong? Trying to be attracted to something is different than what your mind says is like trying to tell a cow to jump like a cat... it won't.
Not really. We should all be permitted our preferences. It’s just a double standard in the west. All women get to be “beautiful”, but short men, fat men, balding men, and men with too much body hair are not; to name a few. Heaven forbid a man be all of those things. He’d better be filthy stinking rich, charismatic and funny. Ell oh ell! The “body positivity” movement begins and ends with women. Men still have to earn love and respect the old fashioned way.
because that's perfectly normal. Fat's not attractive no matter how much social justice is attempted by kool aid drinkers. Guess what - black women aren't attractive to most men and its not racism, neither are red haired freckled white women. It's called biology and you can't change it because guess what? - Life's not fair! I mean society is pretty fucked the hell up when someone is sitting here feeling guilty for not preferring a fat partner -holy fuck!
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What is wrong with that? I don't find fat women attractive at all, as I work hard to stay fit and trim and no fat ass or pot belly. Why should others not have the same respect for the body they were born with.
Let me guess and you are Victoria secret model. I am Michael Jackson's long lost daughter yeah right in my dreams only lol
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don't force yourself to feel attracted to something you're just not into... that's just looking for trouble
I don't get why some people are so sensitive over that... You can black list anyone and find them unattractive... For ANY reason YOU want... It's the definition of being a person lol...
No it’s normal and logical to not find people who have obesity attractive.
Nothing wrong with it. People have preferences. It is what it is.
nothing wrong with, its normal to care about looks for dating
No. It is not wrong. You cannot change who you are attracted to, or not attracted to.
Nothing wrong with that at all. You like what you like. Now please explain to your fellow women that it's not wrong for a man to find a fat girl unattractive. Thank you.
You are not into overweight males, so don't force yourself to do so.
Nothing wrong I don't find fat women attractive.
You shouldn't try to be attracted o anyone, just let it happen naturally.
Nothing wrong is that...
But for that you also need to be fit n hot.No it's not. I don't find obese women attractive.
No lol. That is called sexual preference.
No that's your preference
No it’s not wrong at all.
Neah, can i jerk to you?
It is right.
You’re fine.
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