What does “good hair” look like to you?

[Audiofox]

I have to know because even when I put hours into styling my hair properly people still think it looks bad because it isn’t “perfect”. I don’t really like spending hours in front of the mirror every morning and I think my hair looks good “wild”. My hair has always been impossible, it doesn’t look brushed even when I brush it and no frizz control product on the market does anything to help. It also won’t hold a curl for longer than a few hours at most. It’s quite fine but I have a lot of it and too much heat styling causes breakage. Also, working as a nurse my hair is back all the time causing more breakage. Can’t use a volumizing shampoo because purple shampoos don’t have a volumizing option.

Is hair that isn’t “perfect” just always considered “bad hair”?

I always thought hair was pretty because it’s hair, even without being styled. How can anyone sacrifice sleep to spend hours on their hair in the morning?

[es20490446e]

Your hair is used to too much stuff. If you remove the excess, with time, you will need less and less of it.

And here's the dark truth: your hair oil is not dirt, it is meant to protect the hair and clean it.

But when you excessively remove it, your scalp compensates that by secreting an overdose of oil.

You can help the process out, a lot, by putting some kind of oil on your scalp after using shampoo. Like almond or argan oil.

I personally ever wash my hair, not even with water.

[Crafteroon]

Hair is hair. Try to keep it healthy and go with a style that works for you.

Since you say you don't like focus too much on it, stop obsessing over every little detail then. Saying you hate spending time on it while continuing to focus on it will not give you happiness.

It's like watching someone explain to others how you should let a wound heal on its own, and a moment later seeing them picking on the scab. Practice what you preach.

[Audiofox]

But then people tell me I don’t get asked out because my hair looks bad.

[Crafteroon]

I guarantee that if you asked them out instead you would go on more dates than after any amount of effort you could possibly put on your hair.

[AmeerX]

First, stop damaging your hairs with heat.

Now to the main point. I saw your hair in the question you asked and your profile. You don't look like you have a bad hair day.

Why are you over conscious about it?

And for the frizz, I think you should stop worrying too much about your appearance. You are fine ).

Though I feel you dye your hairs, stop dyeing out your hairs. Thin hairs is not a problem as long as they are strong and not feel damaged. And

[Alex8736]

just be yourself with your hair and someone doesn't like what they see then simply don't look. Also as part of your comment as being a nurse constantly putting on rubber gloves can do a number on your hands and a fellow person in the medical field it's always key to moisturize your hands the moment your shift ends. just saying 😊

[Nik1hil]

Have you tried the Tissue paper trick to fix your frizzle hair, while you comb them!..

Some girls hair go frizzly due to Static Energy.. And then no product and fix that, or so I have heard!..

[CuriousMufuxka]

Usually just straight. I know girlies take forever fixing their hair (Thank fuck for 2 bathrooms!) But most of the time long and flowing just works :)

[Dreamclouds]

This is amazing to my mind

[MementoMori777]

I just thought hair was hair