I’m pretty but not gorgeous, and I want to get plastic surgery but apparently guys don’t like that. Should I just deal with how I currently look?

[Anonymous]

I want to be stunningly beautiful and not just someone easily forgotten, but plastic surgery is costly and apparently not attractive either. I work on myself physically - working out at the gym, wearing a size 4, my hair is pretty, my face is probably a 6-7 on most days but looks good in some photos. I did gain some weight however - went from 123 pounds to about 134 and can’t seem to lose it - I’m also 5’9. No idea where my insecurities stem from but I know I am not happy with how I look at all.

[Tenebrae_mentis]

I think the most healthy thing to do would be to try and learn to love your body for what it is. Chances are you're just being unfairly harsh on yourself. I'm wary of plastic surgery, as I don't think it addresses the root cause of body issues. There's the risk that you still won't be happy after you get it, and there's plenty of examples of people who just kept making modifications until they looked... well... Y'know.

You're probably fine as you are and how you carry yourself is far more important than the little details of your structure. Cut yourself some slack. It's ok not to look like a photoshopped image of a model. Even the model doesn't look like that.

[In_Trance]

What's wrong with how you currently look?
Or is it only your perception?

[Asker]

I feel like I see a monster in the mirror. I have some lines/creases by my mouth that I hate and my nose doesn’t seem to go with my face.

[Anonymous]

They say they don’t like it then I say oh well I had this and that and they are like I wouldn’t have ever guessed looks good😆

i never disliked though my appearance surgery won’t make you like yourself more. Amazing hair color and style and eyebrows and subtle enhancing make up will make a basic face beautiful.

[Anonymous]

Just do what you want to do, and what makes you happy. Its your body, not anyone else's.