How do you feel about a teenage girl (16-17 years old) posting pictures of herself on social media, wearing just a thong bikini?

[Anonymous]

[Miristheiss]

No minor should have an account the parents cannot see and have access to. Good parents would take that down and take away her social media access because she can't be trusted with it. Parents should be involved in her life and protect from all of these poor decisions.

[EpicSnail]

What happens when she leaves home? Can't protect kids forever.

[Miristheiss]

@EpicSnail
Once she's gone and moved out... it is her life to be as honorable or as nasty as she wants. It's not your responsibility anymore.
As long as she is a minor and under your roof though, you raise her right.

[EpicSnail]

I just don't agree that controlling someone is necessarily raising them right. If she's gonna ditch the rules the moment you aren't looking, what is the point?

[Miristheiss]

@EpicSnail
You raise them right. You set the rules and boundaries and you don't let them break them.
You asked about thong pictures. No good parent would let that go. You seem to be advocating shirking your parenting responsibilities because in 5 years... they may still rebel when they move out. That is a cop out.
"Controlling" That's a woke buzz term... as if parents should let bad behavior go because it is "controlling" That's another cop out.

I'd not let my daughter own a thong bathing suit. We'd be having an intervention as to where she actually got to nerve to think wearing that was ok.

Usually, girls with a strong and loving father in the home that instills good values in the daughter won't' have a daughter dying to wear thongs and to post picks on line to get thirsty simp boy attention. Fatherless homes tend to have more of that.

[EpicSnail]

LMAO the girls I have met who rebelled the hardest always had the most old-school grumpy authoritarian dads. There's plenty of research to refute you, but you sound like you subscribe to conservative memes, so whatever.

[Miristheiss]

@EpicSnail
Go be whatever type of dad you want.

[Adaeva]

@Miristheiss You stated. "Usually, girls with a strong and loving father in the home that instills good values in the daughter won't' have a daughter dying to wear thongs and to post picks on line to get thirsty simp boy attention. Fatherless homes tend to have more of that."

That is absolutely true and is overwhelmingly supported by the facts and statistics.

[EpicSnail]

@Adaeva Sources?

[Adaeva]

@EpicSnail www.heritage.org/.../the-real-root-causes-violent-crime-the-breakdown-marriage-family-and
www.fixfamilycourts.com/.../
fathers.com/the-consequences-of-fatherlessness/
www.zeroattempts.org/fatherless-households.html

Just Google to find dozens of other sites.

[EpicSnail]

@Adaeva So all your sources are conservative lobbying groups. Okay.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

The same as any female of any age doing the same thing... attention seeking, basic, low class, zero dignity.

[LazerBean]

I'd think she's probably from a broken family and going to be a single mom.

[Adaeva]

70% of all teen pregnancies are from single mother homes. And, it is much worse than that because 69% of children are in two parent homes and 21% of U. S. children live primarily with a single mother. Therefore, 70% of teen pregnancies are from only 21% of homes. That is a daughter from a single mother home is almost 5 times more likely to be a pregnant as a teen.

[Wraith_Cemetery]

@Adaeva Yep, nailed it.

[Adaeva]

She is a common slut as their are too many of those in today's world,

[EpicSnail]

Believe that is known as "jail bait"

[Mamasanma]

It's legal in most places

[EpicSnail]

@Mamasanma Legal to post, not to possess.

[EpicSnail]

I guess maybe it is, I guess I misread what she was wearing.

[Sparkie460]

It's fine if she's looking to attract the wrong type of audience. She is asking for trouble

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Nothing, only that she looks good or not-so-good, depending on the girl.

[DizzyDesii]

Her parents are slacking

[boggboss]

A bad look but not my concern

[art84]

She wants attention.

[msc545]

Very bad idea.

[riverrat3]

If she is comfortable doing it fine

[Anonymous]

a lot of girls do that. No big deal