Instagram is a bit of a guilty pleasure for me, I travel a lot and I like taking some nice pictures of myself. I've got a lot of really great bikini pictures, but I'm always wary of posting more revealing photos online as I'm scared what people will say. I'm wary that friends (from both genders) will feel I'm very attention seeking, or that people will call me a slut behind my back.
The photos I take are tasteful, even though I'm wearing less clothing, I'm not trying to be vulgar. Here are some examples. I don't mind it if I seem showing off a little bit... because it's a little true, but I don't want to seem overtly sexual or convey any message as such. Please let me know your impression from the photos and if you think it's inappropriate.
What do you think of a girl that posts bikini photos?
To determine if something is "classy" or not is truly in the eye of the beholder and is a common way for women (and men) to morally rally against women i think. I admit, I first look at a bikini photo and wonder if I think it looks good and if the person looks happy. Sometimes i wonder about how they did the camera angles and if they are posting it because they recently went through a break up and this is part of the self-confidence upswing lol.
Myself, I used to be pretty judgmental and insecure about wearing revealing clothing. But i think as i've grown more confident in my own body, i've come to care less about how other's bodies affects my own perception of what bodies should look like. I think we're only young once, and if you got it or have the courage to not care that someone is going to look at it and not like it, then go for it. At the end of the day, you really shouldn't be treated as any less of a human being for how you are dressed.
I think your body is very beautiful and you should be proud of it. If people judge you, because you appreciate your body, they're in my opinion two-faced. There's a lot of pictures like this on aesthetic profiles on Instagram and nobody is slut-shaming women and celebrities who take pictures in bikinis and so on, so why should they judge you if they know you personally. I think they should be happy for you that you are confident enough to post them. And the pictures are not even that revealing so I don't see any reason why you shouldn't post them. If you like the photo and feel good in it I think you should go for it and post it. Or maybe ask your friends what they think about you posting pictures like that. But always put yourself before others. It's your body! You can show that your proud of it! If it doesn't feel comfortable then don't. But I support you. I think these pictures are excellently taken and you look like you're a professional model.
First of all I am not able to recognise you compared to your DP Pic and those bikni pic. I Didnot feel any of them inappropiate just playful. Posting them on Facebook or Instagram is obviously attention seeking and I am talking in general sense and not name calling why do we post them because we want to be liked by people and we need positive acknowledgement that they appreciate the effort you put in on your body to look that great someone to comment on the beauty i understand but it's you'd choice completely if you like it you did it no need to worry about people be wild be free be what you want to be..
Those photos are tasteful. I don't consider them slutty in the least. It's sad that people would judge such photos as attention seeking or slutty. Maybe they're jealous. What's wrong with an attractive women being comfortable in her own skin? You're gorgeous, by the way. Women like you are like sunshine on a cloudy day, or like joyful color in a drab landscape. It's impossible not to see the female form as sexual. What's unfortunate is to see sexuality as lewd and, consequently, expect women to conceal themselves. As far as I'm concerned, you have a healthy attitude.
Many people love to show what they have. Bodybuilders love to show off their muscles. Beautiful women love to show off their beauty. If they look great in a bikini they show that off. I think women who post bikini pictures look great. Nothing wrong with it.
I don't see anything wrong with those photos as you are a traveller. It's okay to be sexy in appropriate circumstances. Also, there are a lot of bikini pictures online that are more sexier. So I won't make a fuss about it. I must say, your photos are really good, whoever took that they must know how to capture a photo.
Once a girl puts herself in the sexy eye candy category guys no longer put her in the academic category or professional category or leadership category or sister category or trustworthy friend category - it’s like nobody notices the quiet violin concert 200 meters away when there is a loud rock band right next to them playing songs 4x louder. Speak quietly and you will be remembered and trusted and confided too.
It does come off as attention-seeking, especially if you’re the only one in the picture, the location isn’t as prominently featured as your body, or you clearly posed out of the water for the photo. These examples are tasteful for the kind of photos I just described but the last and second to last ones are bordering on Insta-thot territory. The pouty lips, boobs pushed together, and screen partially obscuring the background so your body is clearly the main focus make them a bit much.
Depends on mental state. Yours defines self-worth by presenting an image that's accepted/approved of by others, as you want to do something, but avoid being yourself based on whether others will accept or reject you. I'd say worry obsess on inner self-esteem growth, as much as acceptance and approval, and this whole situation will become irrelevant.
Instagram has model/woman who post nothing rare in them. Good background with nice cool glasses. About over sexual horny convey shit messenger you will find them anywhere in around the world. even In this opinion section or how do l look section you will find creepy shit with weird username with no profile pic so just ignore such shitheads. Its your choice your life.
This is you? Trust me if they would be talking it would be out of jealousy. But keep your profile private tho. I post bikini pics too nthng wrong with that. Usually the setting and the pose give a hint of attention seeking more than the fact that you are wearing a bikini.
To me none of these seem overly sexual i think people will try and say otherwise because you are very attractive but likeing to take pictures like this and being proud of what you look like and showing off a bit is not wrong I dont think these are inappropriate by any means they look great
I dont follow girls like this because its always the same content. She may be interesting, have a great personality, a family, a dog, a cat, a garden with crops, chickens, cows, ride motorcycles etc but I never get to see that side of her.
I follow historical reenactors, history page, architecture pages, landscape photography, etc because I find that more interesting than just bikini shots of the same girl everytime.
Now can someone post bikini pics once in a while? Sure why not.
You're going to get a lot of different opinions on this one. From people saying you need to cover up and never wear anything like that to people saying you do you and you can wear and post whatever you want.
So this is my personal opinion. I'm not going to judge you for what you decide to do. I'm also going to say that I wouldn't want my girlfriend posting these. The only thing you can get from them is attention, and I don't see that that's helpful.
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not gonna lie. I find it hot. I don't think anything negative when someone posts those except when she posts about her hair or something she hates while the picture is clearly focusing on her tits or butt.
yep that's it. I appreciate yours because you don't act like it's something that it's not. Also because they're really hot. ;) The backgrounds are almost as attractive as what's in the foreground of your pictures. lol
Thank you! I really agree with you, I remember seeing a photo of Emily Rata, a closeup of her butt and underneath she wrote an essay about female empowerment... I just think when I post a photo on Instagram I am showing off a little bit, and I think that's okay if you admit. Don't post a photo of your bum and write about something political to make yourself smarter... it makes you look dumb.
yeah. there's a time and place for those type of statements, and it's definitely not when you're posting pics of your body like that. haha. Plenty of people do it on here, and it kinda kills the mood. you should follow me though. :D
Well if I like the bod my eyes enjoy. The girl herself... not my type. If you were to date her she is endlessly showing her body to every man on Earth. Nothing special about her to giver your heart to.
Makes no difference to me. Her doing that period rules her out... not some made up number of how many guys she gives herself to as eye candy. I do not share.
Here's something you should know. Even the prettiest person in the world has bashers. You should not let their words hinder you from expressing yourself because the world is full of judgement, it is everywhere. You should do you because nobody else knows what your capable of and nobody knows your story other than you 😊
Just a girl wanting to look confident and attractive. And you look damn gorgeous 😍 No reason to stop just because of slut-shamers. If you got it, work it
That's classy, you actually made it less about you with the Beautiful Background. Nothing like other women I've seen who post their entire butt and more. I'm not complaining either, I actually like the pictures when they do, but there is no shame on their part and it signals desperation for attention. I don't think men should show their approval for stuff like that. Some of these women are in their 30s and happen to have kids.
I don't mind seeing photos like that at all. I mean, it would be weird if you took photos of yourself wearing a ski suit in places like that. You look beautiful and confident, it's admirable.
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Yep, that looks attention seeking to me and only to fulfill your likes cravings.
Nice pics just, if you would like to work in some serious environment it would not be the best side to show...
Unless you want your furniture in porn or promotional materials, but that will not last long as beauty is not forever...
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