What do you think of girls that post images like this?

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This is a random example, she posts loads of bikini photos from different angles but she chooses the ass one first?
Attention seeking much?

Make it make sense. Imagine you are going to date this girl. Why would a girl want to post this if it’s not for validation purposes?

globetrotter22 · Accepted Answer

They can do what they want. But it’s the continual excuse that: oh I do this for “confidence” and “freedom” vs. never admitting they do this for attention that drives me nuts. What’s more irritating is when they get all pissy and defensive when they get sexual comments from guys they aren’t attracted to and then get all creeped out about “sexual harassment”.

When I was in my 20s I was a professional athlete and made some side money doing fitness modeling. I occasionally posted shirtless pics from my photos. They were usually pics of me in action in my sport vs. just posting shirtless in my kitchen or something (although admittedly) I had one or two of those.

I admit the positive attention felt good to an extent. I was an underconfident chubby kid in grade/middle school. Then I was a very skinny and scrawny kid in high school (i was distance runner and a wrestler). Then in my 20s I gained a lot more muscle. Still lean but also relatively ripped.

So when I posted pics on Facebook I would get a lot of likes, some joking laughs from other guys but also occasional sexual remarks by maybe a few semi attractive women but also bbw/unattractive women. Gay men would leave remarks (I’m straight). A man who shows off his body too much is considered “homo” if he does it too much. I didn’t but still.

Anyway did I get all pissy by getting unwanted attention for that? No. Yeah it made me uncomfortable but I’m the one who decided to post a pic like that.

Why is that so many women think they can “segment” the attention they get when post suggestive pics? I mean a true creep goes off on a rant about what he wants to do in the comments section that’s one thing. But they get all pissed off when guys (they find undesirable) make a sexual comment or two.

Stoner710 · Accepted Answer

I can see no problem here,

now I am i ass man so of course the first thought in my mind is nice ass and how can I get into it.

but again this is the problem she's obviously looking for attention on the Internet and any girl that cute is going to have a boyfriend but she is seeking attention from other men at the same time because she needs that flattery. obviously she's not going to cheat on her man (hopefully) but apparently the event she's getting from her man is not enough so she decides to post an ass pic online. she is single then she obviously thinks that posting an ass pic online He's going to the track guys which it well but it's going to attract the wrong type of guys and not the one she's looking for if she is looking for a long-term relationship. she's attracting the type of guys that want to pump and dump without caring about her feelings and her as a person. they see her as an object to be used once maybe twice maybe if she's a good lay frequently but no man is going to fall in love with her in that situation. ends up in the fact that she might get pregnant murdered a child and move on with her life instead of getting married and somebody who loves and appreciates that ask and her as a person and so eventually she turns 40 regretting the fact that she posted that pic and wine to eventually get married and raise family which she can't at the age of 40 because that's usually when menopause starts. this is reality sorry Reality is harsh

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

If you got the goods show them off, calling her a "hoe" doesn't prove she is one. From my experience it's the girls who cover up and seem reserved that are the most sexual and "whor-ish" or "slutty" and the girls who do take pictures like that are trying to gain a following and desperate or bitter horny men and women usually follow to comment and she gets paid, any attention is good attention. Girls like that are usually in relationships or are just focusing on the betterment of their life.

You have to be very insecure to be bothered by a girl's ass in a bikini because people are going to comment on photo's. You do know people date and marry models who have to pose naked, actresses who have nude scenes, what's different? Just say you feel you wouldn't measure up to the girl and leave, because other men and women are perfectly fine dating women and men like this.

Do you assume they wouldn't be faithful because of pictures? Then you have something you need to work through. Speaking as someone who dated an Instagram fitness model, who posted thirst traps constantly for his follows. They have personalities beyond their looks, that sounds so shallow.

You are very insecure.

Smoke-n-Growls · Accepted Answer

I'm not a fan of people like this because what you don't see on their posts is the massive line of inconvenienced other people wanting to just enjoy the view.

Instead, they're stuck waiting for little influencer wannabe to do their self-indulgent pretend model walk for well longer than they need to.

Literally everywhere there's "please limit your time" signs there are wanna be influencers forcing their "friends" to shoot dozens of pictures of their duck face.

I have no opinion on the person in the photo other than "they're probably an inconsiderate dick". I'd rather see just the lake and pier - that's much more rare to me than human ass.

Pinay_ako · Answer

It’s a beach… 🙄. She got a nice body. What’s the problem here?

OlderAndWiser · Answer

She is saying, "If you treat me well enough, this will be your reward." However, this is NOT the kind of girl that you take home to meet your mother.

MoniqueTLC · Answer

It can either way really. The girl might really like the picture, and is confident, self assured in herself to post it for HER and no one else.

On the other hand, it could definitely be for to seek validation because she has a low self-esteem, and is insecure about herself which is why she needs emotional leverage from other people liking and commenting on the post to make her feel better about herself.

I've also known of individuals to post a certain type of picture to get a reaction out of a partner. This could be considered pretty toxic

Screenwriter · Answer

Looks like someone who's showing off their body and seeking attention. Why they'd want this from strangers, I'll never know.

What I think is this person has self-esteem problems and is trying to uplift their ego strength using their looks. Since looks are often temporary and have no deep meaning, basing who you are on them isn't a strong suit.

Looks are part of an entire package. Everyone wants to look good, dress well, be admired. But it's simply PART of who you are, not the whole banana.

I feel when people show off this way, they must not think they have anything else to offer. This is too bad and wrongheaded..

MementoMori_ · Answer

Wants attention. Here's how the psychology works...

A girl who has low self esteem posts half naked pictures of herself. They are a dime a dozen all over the net on every social site.

Then of course men pile on the sexual comments because that's how nature programmed men to think. Mind you it could be a pig in a bikini and they would be drooling too. Just because a guy gets hot doesn't mean she is attractive.

Then the girl fakes indignance and complains that men keep making these sexual comments (which is exactly what she was hoping for because it gives her the attention she was seeking).

It's an easy way for ugly girls (and girls who aren't ugly but think they are) to get cheap attention from strangers. It's a pathological addiction.

MCheetah · Answer

Narcissists who live their fake lives on social media and would die without daily emotional validation from Instagram/OF simps. I also only see equally vain women defending this kind of behavior, cause they too do it themselves. I wouldn't want to date someone like that.

7barbieringz · Answer

I think women can do whatever they want, but don't be surprised when it comes with certain consequences. Like if a guy doesn't wanna date a girl who post pics like this she can't get mad, he has the right to choose that just like she can choose to post her ass

lightbulb27 · Answer

it's a female, doing what a lot of femals do (not all)... that seeks attention. says something about personality, character and such and potential headaches you may be dealing with. all assumptions. what are red flags to some are green flags to others...

Lliam · Answer

I don't see a problem. It's a really good, professional photo. She's fit and confident in her appearance. Her form is easy on the eyes. Nothing wrong with wearing a swim suit.

It doesn't even cross my mind to guess about her lifestyle, attitudes or motivations. I don't care. I'm just cheered by the sight of beautiful women. May they shine, shine, shine.

AMS700CX4u2 · Answer

We truly don't know who posted it or whether she approved. No judgement here. At this point it is an image. We assume its is real but it could be an assembled image. Too easy to throw others into the trash pile as we walk away self righteously. Not gonna do it.

kenzielarson · Answer

I mean, let’s be real and say that they’re definitely showing themselves off. They know they look good and want to show it. Do they want a ton of compliments, messages, likes, etc? I don’t necessarily think that’s what they’re going after. I think they really just want to flaunt themselves, and there really isn’t anything wrong with that 🤷‍♀️

Ukrainianbuddafly · Answer

I think overall it isn't any of my business but generally speaking she either feels very good about herself and isn't overthinking what she has on or if she does she may be overly concerned about other people and seeking male validation. Doesn't effect me either way.

StrongMale · Answer

Maybe she’s just feeling sexy and wants to show off her sexy ass a little bit. Maybe she gets a cheap thrill from the attention she is sure to get. Or maybe it really is validation she seeks. Regardless of the reason, she has a beautiful body and a gorgeous ass, so.. no problem for me.

DaveJord · Answer

Obviously are they attention whores, that get some sense of validation and self confidence from essential posting soft porn images of themselves. But as a man I can't say I don't appreciated it on some level and I always check it out. Thanks for the photo you posted, feel free to post more.

Telekinetic-Potato · Answer

Who knows, maybe she's feeling artsy, maybe she's trying to get laid. Maybe it's some weird way of getting people in her dm's so she doesn't feel lonely.

It could be so many different things and I just feel like it's better to look at the positive than to assume anything negative.

Apple1996 · Answer

I see nothing wrong especially with this pic since it has a nice background going on

AviatorTom · Answer

The purpose of a picture is to tell a story... "a picture is worth a thousand words".

This picture, and others like it, don't tell anything about the person in the picture. Better is a picture that shows her face, which the viewer can interpret.

melanieeeB · Answer

It's all fine, it's a really great pic, from colors, light, location and her body is great too🙏🏼

Aerolyn · Answer

None if my damn business, that's what I think. A random chicken posting pictures of her ass ain't gotta do shit with me.

DJB72 · Answer

What's the problem? She's got a nice figure so why not share the pic? If clicking it opens an OF account then that might be more of a red flag, assuming you're not the one filming with her - in which case you have way bigger problems than her ass hanging out...

trans3 · Answer

I'm completely anti women posting pictures like this online. To me it shows their attention seeking, not loyal to their partner it's such a western woman thing to do. I think there's a fine line between being confident and being deluded, and to many women cross this line and they just look stupid. Honestly I completely rule them out of my potential dating pool cause I don't want to get hurt basically.

NottaNatty · Answer

I see nothing wrong at all but than I see it as art beings I like photography and I just see a picture. But maybe if I knew them personally and this is all they posted I would either assume that just like to model or are kinda conceited, ether way I wouldn't really care tbh. Now if it was my woman It might be cause for consern.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

I've no issue with women showing their ass online. I've no issue with them showing videos of themselves naked doing sex acts online. I would never date one of these women, but they can do w/e they want. It just lets me know to steer clear of them. The internet and social media has made women more honest than they've ever been in history. Accept this for what it is, a gift. Take the information and use it.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

I'll never understand how girls can display themselves like this all over the internet. Can't stand these kind of women. No class.

genericname85 · Answer

they're just superficial narcissists. of course they will deny that they just made this photo because of the awesome scene and not at all to show off their ass.

Twalli · Answer

Why do I care if other guys get hard from seeing my girlfriend. I do. The difference is that I can fuck her and get satisfaction that way. They just have to fuck their hands instead of her. Who's better, the guy having sex with the hot girl or the guy fucking his hand imagining fucking the hot girl?

Truthatanycost · Answer

These pictures are to steal the energy, 'power' and attention from simps that don't know any better. I would steer clear of any woman that has multiple social media accounts or any pictures like this.

ZS007 · Answer

this specific pic doesn't bother me maybe it's cause of the beautiful sea in the background or cause she is casually walking but she is not making her ass look bigger neither is the swimsuit just a string. It's a beautiful photo

SeriouslyFunny00 · Answer

I don't have any problems with girls doing this, I also think her picture is beautiful. 😍 Though I won't post it on public, it inspires me to pose a picture like this too! (and find a good photographer as well!✌️)

DizzyDesii · Answer

She shouldn't be surprised when guys only want her for one thing

Sandeeppingping · Answer

She knows what she's doing, I'm fine with it though, at least she's not making that about to break my neck and pull my lower back in order to show you my face tits and ass in the same pic, So A+ for intentions B+ for effort

Katie1964 · Answer

Looks like most of the women's swimming suits I see on the beach these days. No big deal and she has the figure to wear it well

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Nothing inherently wrong with it. Though I agree with @Smoke-n-Growls when it's people needing like 10 minutes to take a picture somewhere, meanwhile blocking others from enjoying the spot

Anonymous · Answer

Why in the fuck would you want to discourage this? I like it when beautiful girls post beautiful pictures of their beautiful selves. We need to celebrate beauty much more than we currently do. I'm so fucking done with all the idiots who want a constant war on beauty.

Anonymous · Answer

I can't help but think if it's also in an exotic place with clean oceans or a boat ride, then there must be some rich sponsor sugar daddy making it happen. Or the family must be rich to afford hanging out in places like these.

I could be wrong but that's like my first thought. Most girls resort to posting regular beach photos.

AsaKyo · Answer

There's nothing inherently wrong with it, really lmao

Smashingdoozy · Answer

I don't think about it. Maybe I'll think her body is nice. But like it's a body. We all have one. Why would I be offended

FilmGuy93 · Answer

The pictures are generally fine, in my opinion. But I will say that women who post pictures like that are often quite insecure, and that's never good for relationships.

laura_meliaxx · Answer

It’s just her body 🤷🏼‍♀️ She’s allowed to show it and tbh guys always think it’s attention seeking but it’s not maybe they just like the pic of themselves

josephinelcajon · Answer

Attention seekers wanting and demanding to be the center of attention never brings you true love nothing but trouble!

Marshymallow · Answer

People can post whatever they want. If you’re uncomfortable with it you unfollow them. But seriously it’s just bikini, nothing wrong.

Anonymous · Answer

Personally I wouldn’t expect much from a girl exposing so much skin and putting it on the internet. It speaks volumes of her personality and I don’t consider those types date-able. Fuckable yes.

SamIam96 · Answer

I think they have hot bodies and know it. Even if it is attention seeking, who cares? What difference does it make?

McKellar · Answer

I could be blunt about this, but I fear I might be WAY too blunt and the moderators of gag will remove it and receive punishment or something,... so it's best I just make no comment in relations to this.

Anonymous · Answer

I find it attention getting and being a hoe.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Attention seekers who always receive the opposite of what they are looking for. Just an excuse for them to complain about the shred of decency the country is still attempting to holding onto.

PeteBy · Answer

I reckon she's wondering how she's gonna get her four poster bed back to shore.

20yearsolder · Answer

I think she's hot, if you've got it, flaunt it. I don't see an issue with it at all.

KlinkyCoder · Answer

To be honest, I would like a girl doing those pictures if she was my girlfriend. Otherwise... I guess I don't have an opinion? It is a more tame kind of picture to me.

chicosuave · Answer

She is not my type but mostly insecurities and attention seeking.

Anonymous · Answer

Is good. Very nice

Wajahat007 · Answer

It’s absolutely fine to post a picture like this. If someone finds it offensive, they can just scroll down!

Hairylegs222 · Answer

Shows confidence to me. She's confident with her body and buns. Or doesn't mind at all posting it.

MiseriaCantareAFI · Answer

if it's only fans, it's likely just to make it look appealing to the buyer, and then you'll see the rest of the photos and or videos, once you've bought it

Marshmellow52 · Answer

Not a girl I would be interested in. I would have questions about her modesty and her morals, not to mention her mental state. ( if I was a guy)

MikeInHawaii · Answer

It reminds me of a baboon in heat showing off its ass to get a mate.

nomandik · Answer

I absolutely love it there is nothing wrong with a little showing of skin

YollyM · Answer

I personally feel like it depends on the pose but this one is okay, for lack of a better word

TonightYouu · Answer

Sluts

MountAverage · Answer

Totally fine. Only insecure assholes, control freaks, and conservative bigots see an issue with it.

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