I hate it when thick and chubby girls try to say "I look real" to feel better about their looks?

That implies that if a girl is skinny then she looks fake. Or they strongly suggest that men strictly prefer women with curves. Or they try to say that skinny girls look like they have an eating disorder to make themselves feel better about not being skinny. This really gets on my nerves. I'm not skinny, my legs are thick and I have a big butt, but up top I'm smaller like my stomach is flat and I have a tiny waist. Sorry if you've dealt with insecurity issues and struggled with not fitting the mold of what the media claims is ideal, but that's not the fault of girls who are smaller than you. The whole "Men prefer curves" thing may make you feel better, but it's not true for every man. Every man has his own personal preference. Some men don't like huge boobs. Some men don't like skinny girls. Some men don't like girls with large thighs. It's all about what the man is attracted to as an INDIVIDUAL. So please don't try and use false statements such as the ones I began this post with to validate your self esteem.

I think that beautiful women come in all shapes and sizes. I've had a lot of friends who are just bigger girls or more thick girls and the pressure when it comes to body image is heavier on them. But what they fail to realize is that a lot of skinny girls aren't all that happy about their bodies either. I'm friends with a very skinny girl and she wishes she was thicker, but she can't help it. I'm not a skinny girl and I'm not a thick girl so my perspective is very neutral.

Why is it that some of you bigger girls feel the need to try and reduce the value of skinnier girls? Can you give me your perspective? I genuinely seek to understand :)

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idk why this posted in sexuality lol I meant to post it in behvior!
I hate it when thick and chubby girls try to say "I look real" to feel better about their looks?
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