Why do I get stared at so much by men in public? It’s so excessive but I’m not like a supermodel so I don’t get it? I’m not wearing super revealing?

[Anonymous]

[Usernamesuck]

I think it’s because (like you commented) you are a taller than average redhead so you are more interesting to look at even if you think you are ‘average’ looking. Guys stare at most women though honestly 🤷🏻‍♀️ I get compliments and asked for numbers often and you can see I’m just regular looking myself. Are you quite a friendly person or do you smile a lot? because that attracts people too.

[najekim]

Perhaps you have girl-next-door looks that many men crave?

[Asker]

I don’t think it’s that either. I am like 5’9 and a pale redhead, size 4 dress. I have big butt and boobs for my build. I dress in things that fit my body appropriately. And classy things too. I don’t look average, but I don’t think it’s like WOW omg she’s so hot.

[najekim]

Just being a natural redhead alone is enough to make men take notice especially with your other body details. A lot of women would look too.

[Asker]

Well it’s literally everywhere and sometimes I just wanna be left alone haha 😂 it’s on the street, at the gym, social gatherings, etc. it makes me self conscious because I can’t tell if it’s possible I am accidentally looking slutty.

[najekim]

Well, the only way that might happen is by wearing a hoodie up with a cap hiding your hair because once the red hair is noticed, you'll be noticed regardless what you wear. In many places, spotting a redheaded lady is like spotting a unicorn.

[MementoMori777]

Just an attractive person in general I guess

[honestanswersonly_]

What do you mean by super reveling?

[Asker]

I’m not wearing like anything over the top or like revealing in any way.

[honestanswersonly_]

So like your wearing pants and a sweater or?

[Asker]

it’s honestly when I’m wearing literally anything. Tight, conservative, revealing or not revealing, long coat without telling my body definition, short dress with more body definition. You name it.

[honestanswersonly_]

Sounds like your a eye catcher. If your not doing anything to draw attention then look at it as a compliment

[Wise4myage]

You're obviously attractive.

[Anonymous]

Maybe you have beautiful eyes