Is it abnormal to feel this low for my age?

[Anonymous]

I know a lot of people aren’t always pleased with how they look but I feel 10x worse.

Sometimes I just look in the mirror almost everyday and say “you’re so ugly” “who would ever want you”

Ofc you hear people say..”think positive “ etc but it’s not easy.. esp. after years of trauma, let downs etc.. not really being chosen or men dropping you for someone better makes it worse

[lightbulb27]

I'm hearing a lot of people are depressed now, way more than in the past. It's not good and means you need to take action.

That stuff is established in early years of life, so if some traumas occurred at that time, those need to be healed, need attention. Your mind/body will create all the good chemicals you need when you think, do the right things.

You can heal from this and live a good and normal life.

[slatyb]

Yes, it is. Seek counseling to improve your negative self-image. You may also be suffering from depression.

[Asker]

You think so? Depression?

[slatyb]

Maybe. Been there, done that. N counseling helped me a lot. Wish I had gone sooner.

[comekitty]

I'm so sorry to hear this! Please stop telling yourself you're not enough.

Girl, you face that mirror square on and give yourself the biggest, brightest smile and tell yourself, 'you are so beyond beautiful.' 🙂

Don't ever let anyone make you feel less.

Sending you big hugs and happiest of wishes!

[comekitty]

Thank you for the MHO and I truly meant what I said 🙂

[MemeSupreme]

no, feelings/thoughts like that isn't an age thing and it probably makes sense considering your past. try to seek counseling and they can guide you to improve yourself. ik thats the answer everyone gives, but it can help

[Anonymous]

you can find someone at your level

[Asker]

Don’t know what that means but no thanks. I’m content with being single. THANKS!

[Opinion Owner]

ı mean

[Opinion Owner]

you should date guys who aren't handsome

[Opinion Owner]

if you like to be single why do you get upset thinking you are ugly

[Asker]

Thanks.