For reference, this is one of my chokers.
What does choker necklaces mean to you?
For reference, this is one of my chokers.
"Historically, chokers have been regarded as being 'high fashion', but there have been periods in history where they were associated with prostitution."
Urban dictionary says "Women wore plain red ribbon chokers to indicate that they were prostitutes. Plain black choker necklaces sometimes signified secret lesbianism. These necklaces transformed into a regular necklace worn for fashion purposes. Choker necklaces were very popular in the 90s as celebrities started to wear them more and more. It is still a trend to this day."
I think I even heard once that they mean a woman sucks dick.
And, of course, leather chokers with metal rings or studs, or dog collar chokers no doubt indicate that a woman is into BDSM.
But I agree with you. I think pretty chokers look elegant, especially when matched with certain outfits. They draw the eye to a woman's slender neck and delicate throat.
I don't read anything into it if they look nice.
🌟 of course, ur a good noodle
I have a lot of freinds that wear chokers. They're cool. They look cool. Personally I think they are pretty attractive but as an enhancement to an outfit.
They do look similar to some sexual/BDSM collars but if that's not what your wearing them for them who cares what people think.
Unfortunately some people will always judge and also it's another case of the masses sexualising women
It is quite common to sexualize women and it gets so annoying. Thanks u were very helpful ⭐️
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The "meaning behind them" is just made up and silly. To me it is just something for women to wear around the neck. Crop tops are way more provocative than jewelry.
I can c how clothes can be more provocative then jewelry fr but people hav a problem with them
I randomly saw a meme a few years ago that suggested girls with chokers love anal, so I have been attracted to chokers ever since. Even now knowing the meme had no basis whatsoever, it still rouses the animal brain when I see one.
Oh scary
I love chokers on chicks, they are hot. My favorites are the thick black ones with a pearl or some kind of pendant, they always make me think she is a blowjob servant.
Fuck Cinderella then 🙄
Choker…someone who wears that probably likes to be choked. Not a scientist, just observing the world 😆
Yeah ur just using subtle hints lol
Don't think much of it at all. Just a piece of jewellery or clothes.
As it should 😂
I think they had a touch of class. There’s nothing provocative about them alone.
Nice to hear
Ok but when i wore a long choker i showed my sister and she said i looked like i was hanging myself.
well i dont see how someone can be comfortable with a thing gripping their neck so one can only assume the comfort isn't what they use it for, do what you want with this information 😂
Unlike men, we do not hav fashion that is functional like fake pockets in our clothes or small ass pickets to fit a dime at least lol
Its just weird how people hav a problem with a necklace 😅
no one has a problem with a necklace but if your necklace is gripping you by the throat then even tho i dont have a problem with it, i can see why some might, it gives the wrong message, same with booty shorts for example, its a clothing that does the same functionality as normal clothing but because of the amounts of skin revealing, it can give off the wrong message, this is what happens when people sexualize clothing chokers are just an accessory that was sexualize, you can thank deepthroating pornography for that lol
these things were a new idea until it reached porn, now everyone that wears them look like dick gobblers to some people.
I worn mine quite loosely its dangilin. That is true and it is very sad that porn contradicts our views on clothing. Take knee high socks for instance, i find them cute and sexy but it can be taken the wrong way bc of views from porn. Take away the porn and u just hav long socks 😂 now i hav a question, what if i toned it down a look and wear a elegant dress but with a choker? Rather then shorts and sleeveless shirt with it? Would that look better? I won't look like a dick goblin then?
do i look like a dick goblin detector to you lmao if anything they gonna be like "look at this dick gobbler trying to hide her dick goblin-ness with a dress, yOu aren't fOoLiNg nOoNe" with these people you can't win, perspectives can be taken in any way so trying to please these people shouldn't be your goal, here's another, you can be a dick gobbler and you are stressing so hard cause you wanna hide it 😂
nah foreal tho, my point is that it doesn't matter, its just clothing and you know who you are and and that man you got, if someone's opinion is gonna count, let it be that mans opinion, he's your dude bro on some real shit.
😂 yes fair but his views can be so extreme that I don't know if that mindset is normal
well i dont know how to respond to that 🙂
Maybe im too old but i dont understand why people want dog necklace around their neck. Do they want someone walk them like a dog?
Maybe they do.
Its a BDSM thing. Shows that your a sub. Like willing to wear a dog collar, be choked or good at deepthroating
I didn't get my choker at a sex shop tho 😂
I used to wear a lot more of them
I have a collection 😄
Now why dont u wear them anymore 😂😅
Oh i get that. My style can't rlly fit into a category i wear whatever im in the mood for whether it is preppy or grunge clothes
I love that, its funny how people assume people r dick gobblers for wearing chokers so is Cinderella one too? 😅
Im done 😂
They mean whatever you want them to mean. Some Goth collars hint that the wearer is submissive to someone, but that's not necessarily true.
i wear a ton! i just think they’re pretty, cute, and cool
Its a necklace 😅 i agree
to me chokers are saying "i have daddy issues and i'm great at giving blowjobs".
I always think the wearer is involved with BDSM.
Mhm okay 👌🏼
You look really nice. Smooth chest, I envy it
Oh. U got bumps on urs?
I meant smooth hairless skin...😑🤯
Oh. Thank you. So u look like lord farquad?
Kind of this 👀🤮🤐😞😭😨
Oh. So? Dont be insecure about ur hairs. I like werewolves 🔥
Oh seriously 😒?
But werewolves... isn't that enough to feel insecure about my body hair 😭?
Oh. Women dont rlly care if ur hairy af tho so long as it isn't a medical condition
How can you say that? Ever had any discussion on this with your female friends?
Oh. I hav 0 but i think u posted a question about this or someone did. I dig the hair
I was curious, where are you from
Usa wbu
She’s currently owned. Better leave her be. Another kidnapping victim will be along,
Dog collar
Thats what my boyfriend says 🙄
It could mean she is into choking.
Thats what i think it means 😂 but in all fairness, it is just a necklace
It's just a kind of necklace to me tbh.
Dog collar
Blue collar
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