Keep it 100, would you consider yourself objectively good looking?

[Anonymous]

No, far from it

No, I would say im objectively normal looking

Yes

No, but I have potential to be

I don't believe that it can be objective

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I went with "I don't believe it can be objective" and I'm being 100.

For example, I think I'm better looking in Japan than I am in the US. I've had a much easier time getting dates here when I was a bachelor and flirty women still while married.

In the US, I think at least my shorter height (173cm, although I'm taller than average in Japan among people of my generation) diminishes me in many American women's eyes. Being half-Asian might also diminish me, on average; being half-white in Japan tends to seem like a plus to a lot of Japanese women (not all for sure, but we don't have to appeal to all women to have an easy time dating if we magnetically attract even a minority).

In terms of the closest things to objective and universal standards of beauty like health, I'm in very decent health for someone in my 40s and I'm exceptionally athletic for my age as a lifelong athlete. That's probably a general plus. My body is covered in scars though and I'm missing a big toe on my left foot from an injury, at least the latter of which might be a minus.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Trying to be 100 without any degree of modesty, here's some pics of my physique. Being 100 about it, I'm obviously not a bodybuilder (I'm a sprinter and barely work on my upper body). Yet I think this puts me at a fairly high percentile in terms of mass and leanness among people in their 40s:



Not amazing and definitely not top percentile but far above average in terms of athleticism, explosiveness, speed, mobility, and leanness for a 43-year old.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I've also aged reasonably gracefully although a lot of people tend to think I'm considerably younger than I am (possibly a pro to some women, a con to others). For example, here I am in my early 20s:


Then close to 40:


I mostly just bulked up a lot.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Anyway, that's as close to being objective and not at all modest as I can get. Again I do much better in Japan than in other countries but having traveled around the world, I really started to notice just how subjective this tends to be.

[tremendousfern]

By good looking I'm thinking 5/10+ (average looks and up)

I think most people can be good looking by just staying fit and healthy, having a positive demeanor, and wearing good clothes. Obviously that won't fix your hideous malformed face, but it doesn't hurt your chances either.

[MemeSupreme]

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depends on the day

[Anonymous]

I definitely feel like I'm above average but I'm not exceptional by any means. Probably a decent 7-8.

[Sonorous]

I think I'm only slightly above average looking objectively speaking. 6/10 max. I say this because if I stop making efforts, I will fall completely into average & then into below average if I make some major lapses.

[Anonymous]

I don't worry about it. Because once you get passed 40 no woman is attractive anymore really. So after 40 the playing field is pretty level. If she thinks I'm attractive then cool. If she doesn't I'm just going to laugh. Because I can pretty much guess her future.

[Account]

I am alright. Doesn't bother me and I don't think of it unless when I am asked.

[Phoenix98]

I'm decent looking and by no means unattractive.

[Nikki1989]

Nah, just another face in the crowd.

[nawtee_me]

@Nikki1989 absolutely not just another face in the crowd...

[PeachyPie93]

No I'd say I am normal.

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think saying average is realistic and fair

[laly520]

yes ig

[NathanDavis]

Yes.

[euniestars]

I’m a lookmaxxing god

[exitseven]

I am pretty average.

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes.