tbh I came only to gain xper from this question since it has a boost.
I am not a xper farmer but I can't help my greedy side when I see somethings extra either
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Yeah I do, definitely not perfect and all that but I'm happy with the way I look and that's all what counts
I don't think I am the most beautiful ever, but i am definitely good looking
So most guys are saying they are good looking? I doubt that's true, that just means your average in looks. I don't think it's fair to go by how you see yourself in the mirror. Plenty of people think they can sing, because how they hear themselves sounds good. When the reality is they are tone deaf and their voices are bad ha. I'm not saying to think you're ugly, but I've felt I'm pretty good looking, but not simply because of what I see in the mirror as that could be biased. I feel I have to be at least good looking because people, not family related because that would be biased too. But people finding me handsome or cute or good looking. And girls I've dated have been cute or pretty and plenty of girls flirted or checked me out without knowing my personality who were hot or pretty, so I feel if good looking girls check you out, you have to be pretty nice looking. If it was mainly or only homely girls that have checked me out, I would feel I'm average looking. Not saying I'm hot, but have to be nice looking to an extent to have gotten looks from girls who are very pretty having ogled me and check me out or flirt with me, etc.
Only on certain days where I truly have the time to care for myself to look decent, I mainly see myself as average. Life throws too much responsibilities my way majority of the time that I feel the stress of life makes me look tired and old, but the constant hustle and bustle keeps me from fully caring about my outer apperance. I've come to prioritize other things than being so anxious and self obsessed with what others think of my outer apperance for me to personally put such an effort everyday.
Actually there are some days i just wake up and feel super beautiful and gooood looking, and sometimes the paradox, but when i feel goood looking itβs 100% and i love when i do.
Generally i know iβm good looking ( even if itβs not by the norms of how the world define it, but i like myself specially when i see on myself some details that other girls hate but i love on me and do not change them like my eyebrows that i dont clean, but i find them natural and normal and special and never make up them )I thinks I'm average looking. I'm not ugly, but not model looking either. But I may have some advantages with my appearance although I'm ordinary looking, since I lives in Norway where these features may stand out. I've black thick straight hair, brown eyes and is tan. So I looks kinda exotic and stands out in that way - so I may be more noticeable. Most people are either blonde, light-brunette/hazel or gingers with blue/green/gray eyes and light-skin. I'm also slim and don't have to worry about getting out of shape. My skin is also clear without any spots.
now I do but when I was younger I didn't at all, some girls looked at me really weird and they were really mean. I move to Canada and now I have girls hitting on me, some staring at me, yelling things at me, one day I was looking at some photos of me when I was younger, I notices that I was a really cute kid, now I'm more confident on my looking. I think some those girls played some mind games on me.
Everyone is beautiful in their on way, the thing is that you have be confident on your looks, people will judge others in their looks because they are jealous soo they do that just be feel better about themselves.Yes i do. I am really tall (6ft1/185cm), pale, skinny and blonde with thick dark eye brows, long brown eye lashes, small lips, high defiend cheekbones and a little gap between my teeth. People say that i glow or look like a fairy tale creature (more fairy or mermaid then witch lol).
I didn't always feel good about myself but last year i finally started to have confidence and people would hit on me all the time or give me lots of compliments. I also dressed better and was/am more happy and outgoing.
Plus it also helps that i have been able to do some model gigs.I'm nothing special to look at. But who looks at my face anyway?
No.. not really. I guess not to some women... and on here all women it seems since I've been here... here's how it goes for me. I chat with a few that seem to really hit it off and a really healthy conversation and it goes back n forth between the two of us for awhile. Nothing out of the ordinary, they seem gung ho. Then soon as pics get brought up everything is up in the air regardless of how the conversation or how well you match together. If it's not what they expect, they'll ghost. Looking at it from the wrong perspective (looks)
I mean, I don't have crooked teeth, my body is slender, not too tall or too short, my hair is always shiny and it's natural and healthy, my face is flawless, I don't have pimples, I'm very strict on my skin routine, my skin always smells good because I have the best body lotion, I have no hair on my body apart from my head, my fashion sense is classic so it never dies and I look expensive, I have a mole under my left eye which is a beauty mark, love it. So yea, that's beauty for me. Whenever I see girls similar to me, I see her as pretty
Fcuk... it's a tie... so far.
Girls seems less confident
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Girls don't worry if you think you can't compete with beauty. I am a good looking guy myself (atleast that's the impression I get from others) but I am very ordinary, I seldom found good looking girls to be genuinely interested in me, probably because they know they are pretty and they get more attention, so they have more option to choose from. I am usually attracted to ordinary girls who are intelligent, witty, fun loving and kind.
Guys don't worry too much about looks, stay sharp, polished, confindent and be yourself.Yes I mean look at me and tell other wise.
If I get many down votes I will not be sad xdNope lol I'm short as hell, have acne, had bad teeth but I got braces so that was fixed, can't grow much facial hair, my hair only grows a certain way no matter how it's cut. There are a couple tjings that i think might make me attractive though. I've been told I have a nice jawline and i have a deep voice so I've also been told i have a nice voice lol that's about it honestly
I have a good skin care routine so most days are good days for me. I used to be pretty self conscious but looking healthy and being an healthy weight has done way more for my confidence than I realized. I think overall I'm average but mellowed out enough to be a cup of tea most people like, and the taking care of myself really tricks you into thinking there's more there. I'm also pretty nice in person so when I get positive reactions from people I assume it's more that than my looks.
Yes, I consider myself good looking.
I'm tall, I have huge shoulders, I have big muscles, and I'm naturally tan. I don't think my face it ugly either. I'm trying to trim my stomach a little bit, but it's not big enough to be disgusting either.
I'm not saying I'm like a male model, but I'm fairly attractive.- u
Yes. Really, really, really, really, really REALLY ridiculously good-looking...
I've never had a problem dating beautiful women. Many occassions i had strangers approach me and tell me I was very handsome man and have been told I resemble Tom Sellek.
Meh... average looking at best.
I don't know, I go back and forth. The more important question is am I attractive to the majority? I hear good and bad all the time. Funny thing is the guys down the street (and in general) that I hear talking about me negatively, are the same ones I'll hear saying I'm cute or whatever and they'd "smash".
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