Do you think it's okay for a woman to wear a bikini out in public on the streets?

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CrazyGirl2 · Accepted Answer

Wearing a bikini at the beach, or walking to and from the beach to your vehicle is perfectly appropriate, as is wearing a bikini at a. Beachfront café or restaurant. Although one would hope the woman has the decency to at least wear a sarong or other cover from their waist down. However, wearing a bikini on city streets… No, that’s a bit too classless for my taste. Obviously if one lived in a city where personal vehicles are not practical, and one was walking to or from a park where sunbathing is commonplace, yes obviously that would be fine. Like most things in life, this issue is highly nuanced, and context is everything!

Now, your question asks is it okay! I would say it’s not immoral, it’s just inappropriate. It a woman wants to walk her dog in New York City in a bikini top and shorts, that’s her right, but I would caution any woman choosing to do that, that she has no right to complain when men (or women) stare at her! It is unusual to see someone wearing only a bikini top in the middle of a city. People would give her just as many, staring gazes if she wore a full length dress made out of Hefty brand black garbage bags! People will stare at the unusual. However, I feel strongly that too many women these days, dress in the most skimpy and provocative outfits imaginable JUST to get stared at and receive inappropriate comments, because it makes them feel like a victim. Sadly in a culture where victim status is social currency, some unstable people, especially women, thrive off their victim status! So it would not surprise me at all that a woman dressing like this would finally get home, or Starbucks, and immediately make an hours long instagram live, complaining about “Rape Culture” and how many disgusting “perverts” stared at her, and all because she was "Just walking her dog to Starbucks!” (Which of course is a registered therapy dog, because why not? After all, she’s way more special than everyone else!)

I blame social media, and the ever increasing phenomenon of “Main Character Syndrome”. People are rapidly being positively reinforced for their behavior on social media platforms. Sometimes this leads them into being manipulated into performing more and more outrageous behaviors in order to obtain the increasing social approval that they crave but otherwise lack in their real life.**

Thanks for the great question
Sincerely, Laura 🤗 🥰

**Source: https://www.psychologytoday.com/The Trouble With Main Character Syndrome by Phil Reed D. Phil. et al. Paragraph 7

Moirine · Accepted Answer

Rape culture is sickening in this country. Bikini top in the street,  no ,  at the beach, definitely . Personally I don't like revealing clothes but as always people should wear what makes them comfortable while keeping predators at bay in mind. A lot of times men don't care what you're wearing, they rape children, animals and fully clothed women , even with every inch of their skin covered and find a reason to blame women and kids in baby grows. 1st picture is acceptable but 2nd one is a definite firm NO.

mstbooblover · Accepted Answer

Strictly spoken I don't mind, or to be honest, rather would love women to wear a bikini in the streets. Nevertheless the ladies would have to accept glances and good looks from guys, and probably I'd be one of them from time to time, be it already only because I like to see women's features.

On the practical side, the gril in the first picture (green bra and shorts) seems much more acceptable generally than the girl in second picture (black undies), because the latter seems to walk in undies... Not a problem from my side mind, but one has to take into account the habits, traditions and feelings of other people in general.

I guess that sunny days and beaches make such bikinis far more acceptable for most people. In any case it is wise to take into account the places and circumstances before choosing how to dress that way.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

If a girl is allowed at a beach or swimming pool in a bikini, I don't see why she shouldn't be allowed in any other public setting in one unless it's a formal attire occasion like a wedding or something. That would be like saying guys shouldn't walk outside shirtless.

However, when it's indoors, just respect whatever the rules are. If the mall says to cover yourself, just do it.

Fashionista Amy · Accepted Answer

Wearing a bikini on the streets is generally considered inappropriate in most settings unless you're very close to a beach or pool area where it's more accepted. Every place has its norms, and it's usually best to dress in a way that's respectful to the community. Besides, wearing a cover-up or casual clothes over your bikini can make you feel more comfortable and look stylish at the same time. How do you feel about it?

MaddyJ · Answer

Really depends where you are. In a beach town in summer sure. In the downtown of a random city, no.

luvstoned4him · Answer

I voted No but thats because of certain reasons like 1. my country isn't safe in terms of r***p culture, secondly I love a bit of modesty. I mean its great to leave a little something to the imagination as my grandparents used to say and 3. Its not of our culture especially with regards to the laws.

patois · Answer

Swim wear is for swimming. If a dude was walking around the city in a speedo you'd probably think there was something mentally wrong with him... The same goes for women, except we tend to think they have daddy issues and are probably working as prostitutes.

nolabels · Answer

Sure, why not?

I was in an elementary school office one time, picking up my kid early in the day to take him to an appointment, and in walks this statuesque tanned MILF in a gold lame` micro string bikini and stiletto heels to pick up her kid.

OMG!!!
OMF'ingG!!!

She's standing there, frickin' cool as a cucumber, playing with her keyring, while everybody in the place is trying their darndest not to stare at her.

I'll never forget it as long as I live.

RavVid · Answer

Girls do on hot days in Australia. Whilst I wouldn't look twice on a beach, if I see a girl in a bikini at the supermarket I get an erection. It is not just me, other guys say the same.

It comes down to seeing more than your expectations are. Girls in bikini's reaching for an item on the top shelf will never grow old.

So it is OK if you don't mind us getting erections and having a good look. Don't complain if you do.

Friendlybro79 · Answer

I think what does the law say. In my country depending on the state women can be topless wherever a man can be. Why is a bikini such a big deal? It's amazing how many people are uncomfortable or unable to handle a female body lol.

This all said, it is important to recognize a business might have a dress code to enter like a restaurant to which then it might not be ok if you want to do business at such an establishment. In public however go for it.

soe11 · Answer

To me absolutely okay. Shouldn't be restricted. Indeed it's a basic human rights. Morality my girlfriend and her mum wear Teeny Tiny triangle adjustable strings bikini top with micro figure hugging tight fitting hipster shorts publicly freely.

kellytheman · Answer

Maybe if you’re close to the beach or if it’s incredibly hot on a side walk near a beach but I think going into stores or just on the city probably not. It might okay maybe a bikini top but I think wearing some shorts or cover you below the waist should be done especially if your wearing a thong.

Goahead76 · Answer

It's not really something I would think about really, I mean if it's a hot day it would seem like a pretty natural choice.
If you were wearing just that indoors in the air conditioning it would seem strange, just like it would for a guy having his shirt off.

JesseP1nk · Answer

Its even illegal in Spain. You get 600 dollar fine if you do.

LaurenM1997 · Answer

The first pic yes the second one no too scandalous

Anonymous · Answer

Depends. If it's a really hot day, or she's near water, a bikini top with shorts or a skirt seems appropriate. It does look weird, though it's not offensive/indecent, to just wear the bikini without any additional coverage for at least the bottoms, if she's not on a boardwalk/pier or the beach/poolside itself.

snowboarder720 · Answer

I voted yes. Women should be able to wear what they want without being sexualized according to what they wear. Honestly, if all women wore clothing like this it would be and should be more normalized.

Rei13 · Answer

I think it just depends on where you are. On a beach (or surrounding area like a board walk or even restaurant) or at swimming pool it’s appropriate, randomly going to a mall or a grocery store not appropriate.

blueonblack22 · Answer

If it’s a hot day and she’s head to the beach or pool or something that’s understandable. But it really comes down to practicality vs. wanting attention. There is a difference.

Razp_Sorbet · Answer

I think this advertisement for icecream explains it perfectly

Peteraustralia · Answer

Yes its okay and perfectly acceptable. Bikinis came in as a progressive idea. What is wrong with showing bare legs in public? If others don't like it they can look away. Muslims can wear a burqua in a bank so why can't a lady wear a bikini in a shopping centre or beach?

Kreneman · Answer

Unless the street is by a beach, park, pool (especially around a hotel resort) or festival, parade, or party going on especially in a hot weather like the Summer is the appropriate time for woman to wear a bikini.

tzdc21 · Answer

If she wants to wear provocative clothing in the open on the streets fine, but she has no right to complain when she gets catcalled. I mean you practically opened the door for that to happen in the first place.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

I saw a single girl doing that (shorts and bikini top) on a hot day in the city's most prestigious shopping boulevard. I admired her confidence, she definitely turned some heads! :-)

Lynx122 · Answer

If it's at a holiday place and you're going into town to get ice cream or something then yes but in a city when people are going to work it would look weird.

4ngelic · Answer

if your in a beach town or litterally right next to the beach (provided you're wearing shorts or a pareo or something) and it's summer, then it's totally okay. in other settings no

Phoenix98 · Answer

If your right beside the beach/ocean or like on a boardwalk or something then yes. But if they aren't near the ocean or a body of water then chances are they're just wearing it for attention.

GeminiDiamond · Answer

I surf, a lot. I wear the bikini top around like a shirt if I'm near the ocean. I do put on shorts like the one picture after I wash the sand off.

Lliam · Answer

If you are comfortable with it, I don't see a problem. In fact, I rather enjoy seeing women in bikinis. 😃

DishLady · Answer

In beach towns like Miami, meh, it seems fine. In other regions it might be shocking.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Sure why not. Summer is here and it is hot!!!

ClassyMe · Answer

No! It’s one thing is you’re by the beach/ocean. Otherwise, absolutely not! Especially if you’re at a store, hotel (unless by the pool), or even mall.

CrabCakes11 · Answer

She could be topless for all I care as long as her genitals and anus are covered.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

I don't see why not, if men can.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I do when it’s hot and we’re going to or came from a pool, pond, or beach 🤷‍♀️

MisterWack · Answer

Men walk around shirtless so, I’m cool with it especially on a hot a** day.

red324 · Answer

Always thought it's strange that's it's fine to walk around in nothing but a bikini, but I get the stink eye if I showed up to the super market in my boxers

_SilentWolf_ · Answer

If it is not within the hotel boundaries or on the beach or beach road, it is not normal, I do not find it right.

genericname85 · Answer

it's "ok" but it's weird. like you don't see men run around in swimming shorts in the streets.

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

It's not the 1800's. Females should be allowed to wear what they feel comfortable in. If that is topless so be it. Only exception might be areas themed for children.

Treehugger572_55 · Answer

I lived in a (safe) beach/surf town for the majority of my life and walking around in a bikini was the norm for teens and kids my age so I’d say that it really depends on where and who your surrounded by and obviously if your comfortable

Anonymous · Answer

Living in a beach area makes this pretty normal. But you're going to look like a fool if you do this in Canada

DrPepper12 · Answer

IDGAF if she topless! Its HER BODY! The discussion ends there.

Anonymous · Answer

First of all, that second pic is not a bikini, it’s lingerie and it looks like she’s a model.  And yes, so what who cares.

RingOfFire · Answer

I would say yes as long as she doesn't complain about men staring at her.

DrewJohnson · Answer

💯. I see it all the time. It's perfectly fine.

Theodoricus · Answer

No of course. Women should look clean and elegant as they can.

handsomelad70 · Answer

But if she's got big boobs, she'd better expect us lads' eyes to be devouring her !!!

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, Absolutely!!! The Bikini Covers All Parts That Are Required By Local Laws… There Is Absolutely Nothing Wrong With Wearing A Bikini For Females And Trunks With No Shirt For Male…

Imsmurter1 · Answer

Yes I welcome it. Especially attractive women.

MacDaddyRico · Answer

It depends on the location.  Any big city, no. Beach towns, yes.

onedarkcloud · Answer

It would be nice to see BUT as we all know some asshole will do something stupid to spoil it.

MrDaveAPSI · Answer

Probably not, but, there's nothing "illegal" about it.

Xoirwinkan · Answer

It's called being an attention whore, so no.

No_use_for_a_name · Answer

I see this happening quite often where I live and a bikini top isn’t much different from when women wear a crop top tank top.

jackohudson · Answer

People should be free to dress as they choose. And I can't say I find this particular clothing unattractive.

Daniela1982 · Answer

The black one looks more like underwear. 😯

waterliliestxt · Answer

Definitely dependent on the area, not necessarily because of her but because of the community

MysteryKnight11 · Answer

It's not underwear, so it should be okay and not frowned upon

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes , I see nothing wrong with it

electromagnetic · Answer

It’s usually okay if near a body of water.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

Only if it is very near to the beach.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Very common around here in the warm months.

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