Do you think people should care about what other people think about their appearance?

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

[imtiaz45]

While it's natural to care about others' opinions to some extent, prioritizing self-acceptance and personal values is more important. People's judgments about appearance are often subjective and influenced by societal standards, which can vary widely. Focusing on self-worth and confidence based on your own standards and achievements leads to a healthier mindset. While feedback can be useful, it shouldn't dictate how you feel about yourself. Striving for personal happiness and well-being should take precedence over external validation. Ultimately, cultivating self-love and resilience fosters a more positive and fulfilling relationship with one's appearance.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/NEqIYOPfY2A

[FunkyMonkee]

No. I think people should mind their own fucking business! Like Jimi says, "I'm the only one that has to die when it's my time to die so, let me live my life the way I want to!"

https://youtu.be/hTHCIzgHFrk?si=kryk7rZOKYfUA_FE

Or, as Fishbone puts it, "So what if I wear mis-matched monkey boots, pajama bottoms and a suit made out of poison ivy for 6 million days!"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQy2Vgj22Zc&pp=ygUWZmlzaGJvbmUgZmlzaHkgc3dhIHNrYQ%3D%3D

[Anonymous]

If it is their boyfriend, girlfriend wife or husband yes.

Their friends who they are not genetically related to. Yes

If they are going to an employment interview yes

If it is a complete stranger sitting on the same bus as them who they are likely never going to see again. NO

[TheLovelyIntrovert]

Yes and no. If we're talking about upkeep keeping yourself clean then yes. Looks in general no.

[NathanDavis]

this...

[AI Opinion]

I think it’s important to strike a balance. Ultimately, your confidence and comfort with your own appearance should come first because that’s what truly radiates beauty. That said, we naturally seek some level of validation from others—it’s human nature. If caring about others' opinions helps you feel your best, then there's no harm, as long as it doesn't overshadow your own self-worth. After all, the most attractive thing you can wear is confidence! How do you feel about it? 😊

[Rosexøxø]

I disagree with one of you for once. 👍 it’s a proud moment. And sad a robot encourages self destruction and altering 😂

[DishLady]

Not really. As long as you’re happy with yourself, you’ll appear confident enough to appeal to others as well. Just stay humble so you also appear approachable as well.

[Rosexøxø]

Confident and approachable. Best combo 👍 💯

[DishLady]

@Rosexøxø ;)

[Byte131]

I took the advice of someone that means a lot to me, and they told me, unless someone pays your bills, or give you money to live on, it doesn't matter what you wear or what others think. It's your life. And you only live once, so enjoy it.

[Ms_Facesitter]

To an extent, because I hate those questions "Why am I single, not attractive?" and then you see that they're not taking care of their body.

[Rosexøxø]

I see what you mean and for dating self preening and self awareness is good but understanding and self care/ value/ love should be most important. I think they shouldn’t care about what others thing to better self, they should just be taught/ informed on how to care for themselves and learn the importance of that. If they’re not taking care of their body they can lack awareness and maybe never taught to do so. Or not seeing the purpose and their own value. Care for shouldn’t ever be to please others but to care for just that- self, but I’m merely just stating this is all 🙌🙏👍💯

[Ms_Facesitter]

@Rosexøxø Exactly! And by doing so you'll also attract the right people :)

[itsannalee]

No, people should know how to dress according to the occasion.

[Nifrayu]

Not at all. I only care what I think about my appearance. I'm like a flower. I can be different from every flower around me, but I will still stand pretty in the field.

[Anonymous]

I think people should care about thier appearance, not what others THINK of thier appearance.

[paledreams]

People should care - yet let's face it pun intended - i know what I look like - look at my handsome crooked smile 😁

[Xoirwinkan]

For strangers it doesn't matter, but women in your life will get annoyed if you dress too casual or wear too old clothes

[Rosexøxø]

Nope. Then they’d never be free. 💯

[Rosexøxø]

They’d have to fit in one of the boxes and would be like people on social media fishing for likes- except in real time it’d be people fishing for approval of their style and/or appearance and the more the better. They’d either constantly madly strive for it instead of having better pursuits or they’d suppress the need to strive but never live to their fullest potential of confidence, doing everything half effort, attention, and with mental practice/ capacity, so they’d never feel confidence in both the things they do and how they appear- really just viewed by the many many different ‘others,’ and that’d be an unhappy life. They wouldn’t be confident and then they’d struggle to show true authenticity and confidence which is also attractive and possibly not end with anyone or end up with someone who liked their false traits/ sub par traits, etc etc. and they’d ultimately not live the life their destined to or capable of.

It quite literally is just too much of a distraction- all that is- is a distraction, and it definitely does trickle down and affect other areas. People shouldn’t ever really be so consumed with appearance and how others perceive these/ our appearances. Besides the fact is no one person looks EXACTLY the same every day- weight fluctuates, blood flows, temperatures shift, body ages.. and on and on. From bad hair days to skin colorations, skin textures, muscles and fats. We never look the same and never will as we age. Why try to strive for any look when it will change. It’s like building a castle on the sand every day just for the water to wash it away and we do so, so vigorously for the approval of mere passerby’s who will never give a second glance and each have their own preferences and some are not even at the beach looking for castles. Some collect seashells, some are there for the sand, the waves, the people, the local food. Etc etc.

[Rosexøxø]

So go for your own purpose and pursue your own dreams. Let the sand be. Let life run its course and accept people for how they’re born and how they wake and look every day. We’re humans. This is all we’ll ever be appearance wise. To rate it is just awful.

[Phoenix98]

To a degree yeah.

[Ladsin2]

Doesn't matter. They do.

[handsomelad70]

No, unless they're slovenly and unhygenic.

[Anonymous]

not if you like it

[justme444]

Absolutely not.

[jahaims]

Just their s/o

[Countrygirl777]

I mean I do

[Skyros]

Of course