Do you try hard to be/look sexy or do you feel you just naturally are?

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Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I’ve never wanted to look sexy because most men don’t want to love such women. For instance, Bipasha Basu is considered sexy in my culture but most guys would prefer to be with someone like Alia Bhatt. I have realised that there are two kinds of women according to men:the ones they would have sex with and dump and the ones they would love and care for. I don’t want to live without being loved so on an everyday basis I like to dress modestly and don’t wear makeup. I know I have a curvy yet slim physique and there are white guys who passionately hate women with big breasts like mine but there’s nothing I can do about it. I don’t want to go under the knife to look a certain way. Sometimes, I wonder what it would be like to have smaller breasts. Maybe they find that look more elegant and innocent? I weigh only about 50 kg and I still have 28DD breasts. Some girls think it’s advantageous but I know that white guys prefer smaller breasts and I am primarily attracted to white men. It feels bad honestly. I have been called sexy and I didn’t feel flattered because I don’t want to be the woman who seduces and is never loved. I want to be the cute girl someone I like would consider for marriage. Unfortunately, the girls who belong to that category according to most Caucasian men have blue eyes, blonde hair etc. and don’t necessarily have voluptuous bodies. Do I have to play the bad girl because I look a certain way? It breaks my heart 🥲

mandyfire98 · Accepted Answer

I'm just honestly living my life. Are there times I feel sexy? Sure.

Do I do certain things to feel sexy? Sure.
Certain things I wear make me feel sexier than other things.

I just usually overall just try to be me and hope that there are times maybe it comes off sexy.

EzraIsShy76028 · Accepted Answer

I mean in my opinion when people have to TRY to be something it just comes off as embarrassing in the end.

That applies to not only trying to be/look sexy, but also to trying to be/look tough like a gangster, trying to be/look like an intellectual who knows everything, anything really.

It's like just act like a normal person goddamit! If you're any of those things it'll show through naturally, you shouldn't have to try or force it.

Datboi65 · Accepted Answer

I don't try, and I don't think I'm "sexy" either lmao. I'm good-looking, but nothing crazy. I wear clothes that fit and are true to my style. My wardrobe is diverse, but I don't like being flashy. I prefer simplicity.

MaddyJ · Answer

I don’t try. And I don’t really think I’m sexy. I’m just me.

Chevy1_kb · Answer

No I don't I wear what I feel comfy in sometimes I get dolled up but usually on nights out orpartysbut casual day naa if no one likes me they don't if they do they do I'm no bothered I don't try and look sexy I'm a nice looking women but I don't try to dress sexy I just be me am not an attention seeker that I need to make myself sexy

BobbieBoy666 · Answer

I feel sexy when I'm nude underneath and while wearing my pink robe with white heart  I'm a Sexy girly Boy. 💕 I'm a Sexy Girl on the inside. 💕

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

I was.  Then, I wasn't.   Now, I am again.  I was aiming to stay fit & healthy.  The sexiness is just an added reward as a result of taking care of myself.

easymfbrezzy96 · Answer

My old man says I'm naturally sexy but I still do my hair and makeup to feel prettyv

CalmUntilAbused · Answer

I just am who I am. If there's one woman in this world who' will consider me attractive, that's enough for me.

Dinklex3 · Answer

I don’t think I’m sexy at all 😅 I stopped trying years ago because I always ended up embarrassing myself lmao.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Don't do that at home !

HawkPerception · Answer

By body's decent. Face is average. Overall self esteem due to all factors in life... well below average.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I just put on a shirt and pants and go out into the world. I don't really try to look a certain way I just wear what I like. And be how I am.

AviatorTom · Answer

Trying to look sexy is fake, and often fails. I prefer a natural look. Just be yourself. That's what I do.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I don't try beyond the basics (aka showing some boob once in a while and wearing things that have a shape) because trying harder makes me look cringe and cheap.

V_Injector · Answer

I don't try too hard, but I get hard when I see sexy.

sexy_julia · Answer

I feel that I am naturally sexy. Even my husband thinks so.

slatyb · Answer

I just am. I don't get it, but women like me. Maybe because I pay attention when they talk to me.

RavVid · Answer

I'd say that some women are naturally more sexy than other women.

RingOfFire · Answer

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soe11 · Answer

Naturally, but I keeping fit myself. Swimming, jogging, and regular exercise too.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Trying isn't something I really do, just on general principle.

Fireguy17 · Answer

I don't try at all, and I would say I'm a solid 6ish.

Makeushiver · Answer

May I ask who the fetching young lady in the photo is? She looks very sexy.

bobby_bush_eater · Answer

I try to look like a well put together young man regardless of the setting. Other than that, I don't know.

morganherrel · Answer

I try, and I wish American women still tried as well.

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

neither why would u wanna b sexy when u can be beautiful?

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

I feel like I naturally am

Nikki1989 · Answer

I just am me.

schoolgirlskirtcaley · Answer

I feel I naturally am

paledreams · Answer

Look at me - who could say I ain't lol 👀 🪞

Anonymous · Answer

Just comes natural. I don’t really mean it.

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

I don’t try.

robocop666 · Answer

women like me so I change nothing

Account · Answer

Neither.

MK1997 · Answer

I just am

LiamJHayden · Answer

Neither.

jahaims · Answer

Neither

abc--123 · Answer

Neither

jack1924 · Answer

I am sexy AF

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