I don't go and think about this constantly, yet sometimes I see myself in the mirror or shadow of a window and don't feel handsome at all. What I can do, is drag my ass to the gym and minimize the sweets and candies to once a week!
You have your finger on the pulse. And if you take better care of yourself you will FEEL BETTER about yourself and life.
I'd also suggest seeing a counselor to get to the bottom of why you HAVE NOT been taking good care of yourself. Sometimes it s simply you've let yourself slide because of responsibilities. But it might be that you've been depressed and out of sorts and have put self care out of your mind.
This REALLY means you need to see someone and perhaps gets an antidepressant and do more work on yourself in general. Good luck.
If you're not happy in general, something's wrong... Take care of it. One step at a time.
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I have better days than others but overall I do feel sexy.
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some people seem to think so... I don't do anything about it, I don't need to
whenever I am in front of a mirror, my perception is... do I feel okay? that's how I face myself... it's not about if I look this or that, looks never really mattered to me that much or at all
do I feel okay? yes... I'm okay, lol
I'm always sexy and beautiful/handsome. 💗
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I don't think about it, but I get kind of confirmation from what happens around me
My question is: Why does everything about a person always have to revolve around sex/pornography?
The definition of "sexy" states that it is "sexually attractive or exciting". Why does one have to be judged on sex? Why is sex so important when talking about a person?
No, I do not feel sexy because I do not objectify and sexualize myself and neither do I sexualize/objectify other people. They are human beings and not objects.
And I certainly will not want to do anything about it. I simply find it disgusting to be treated as an object. Every human being has the right to be respected and not objectified.
Sure. At least enough to not be insecure about it.
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