What is your preferred height on your heels, and for guys, how high of a heel do you like your partner to wear?

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Lliam · Accepted Answer

3 to 3.5 inches. No need to go over 4". I'll add that I HATE platform soles.

I had one particular girlfriend who was 5'1". We met when I was 36 and she was 30. She always wore heels unless she was home barefoot or out exercising. She wore them all day at work and even when we went on outings. They didn't seem to give her any discomfort at all.

One time, we spent an entire day walking around San Francisco. She was wearing 3" corky wedgies. My feet were tired but she didn't complain a bit.

I asked her why she always wore heels and she said she thought her legs looked funny without them. I was incredulous because she had the most perfectly sculpted legs imaginable. I think she was self-conscious about her height.

Her shoes didn't cause any problems, either, because her little feet were flawless.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

I love a girl that wears heels and sexy shoes , to be honest , she doesn’t have to wear them long because I’d be carrying her into the bedroom lol

Caroline91 · Accepted Answer

I love kitten heels. But when dressed to the 9s, 3” heels. With a 1” platform sole, I’ll go 4”. So, 1-4”

sage2021 · Accepted Answer

For me 2 inches

OneViewpoint · Answer

LOL, I'm about 6'2" with an athletic body type so most women find me an acceptable accessory when they are in heels. :)

As for me, it's nice to see a woman in 5 inch stilettos if we're gonna be going back to the bedroom later on. Or a nice pair of boots with 4-5 inch heels. But as much as I like what heels do for a woman's legs and ass, I'm sympathetic to the reality that those things are not comfortable and hard to walk long distances in or navigate a staircase in. So I don't expect it. It's a nice surprise when she chooses it.

molonski2 · Answer

You know , I'm well aware and conscious of the danger of heels , but I admit I utterly love them and I'm very used to tall women in big heels..

I'm not super tall , but lets go the extreme , say she is nearly 6ft in 7in heels , towering over me , I stand up straight , I want to get up there and passionately caress her neck , its just such a turn on , absolutely awesome.

A special event like this.. hmmmm , gotta take a cold shower , flushed , hahahahaha , incredible.

Grond21 · Answer

She doesn't wear them very often, although I think it would be nice if she wore two inch heels a little more frequently. When we're going out for something formal three inch heels are great. I don't think five would be realistic for her but four might be fun. I don't know that she has tried those before

Sachem · Answer

I'm rather short and was athletic in my younger years. I coached and admired tall, strong women. They do not intimidate me in the least.

Having said that, I say wear what is most comfortable for you. I've known women who wear 5 inch, open toed, backless spike heels when doing housework. Each of those women were superb housekeepers who said the heels improved their posture, energized them, and made their legs more attractive. If that's the case, fine. Nothing wrong with that at all.

neilsmart · Answer

i always wear 6 inch heels

Stevepro68 · Answer

What ever she wants. I don't have height issues. She just looks good in heels. Whatever she likes even if it's taller than I am.

rizzzz007 · Answer

Fir me I don't have any problem if girla look taller by wearing heels. And I prefer 3-4 inches heels and I just fucking loves heels and its like a fantasies for me also but I know heels don't give pleasure to girls but yes I love when girls wear heels.

AviatorTom · Answer

Women should wear shoes that are comfortable. Stilettoes can't be comfortable... and they're dangerous.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

Five to ten cm, I‘d think? More than that and it often looks impractical or silly.

Zack-Bann · Answer

I don’t like short heels  Esthetically speaking either high heels or no heels at all can look good  But to be honest it’s not something I stop to consider all that much beyond noticing in passing

michelle3685 · Answer

I primarily opt between 3 and 4 inches. I have some 5's, but rarely wear them.

FreyaRed · Answer

6,5 cm is comfortable to walk more limits my mobility and is just for optics

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Heels more that two inches look uncomfortable and unsafe. Not on my woman!

HungTexan · Answer

I like high heels, but I think women should decide for themselves.

worldscolide · Answer

Honestly I never cared. As long as she is comfortable. I'm not one of those that believes women should sacrifice comfort for beauty

XXblack88 · Answer

I'm not a fan of heels so probably 2 or 3 inches is the tallest I would want to wear

LaurenM1997 · Answer

For me I can’t wear heels as they hurt my feet I’m better with flat shoes

Shiprex · Answer

High heels are pointless in my opinion. Impractical, vain, unhealthy and you less mobile.

Staximus · Answer

High heels are stupid. When I worked at a bar, 90% of the girls who came in wearing heels and stayed longer than 2 hours walked out barefoot.

4ngelic · Answer

tall like 12cm heels but i only wear stuff like that on very rare occasions because i'm already tall

DrPepper12 · Answer

Heels are sexy but SO BAD for you!! To answer the q tho I love short girls so...

GAGsucksballs89170 · Answer

Whatever she feels the most comfortable walking in. I'd rather her walk in 2" heels, well, than 6" heels, sloppily

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 4ft4. I gave up on heels a long time ago.

YourExLover69 · Answer

I don't have a partner right now. I don't mind how high my would be wife/girlfriend wants to wear as long she can handle it and it doesn't bother her. 😊

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

For me it's just a small heel. Nothing tall & outrageous for my little feet.

HawkPerception · Answer

Not a fan of heels. Never have been. They always looked strange to me. I much prefer flats

llorando · Answer

I don't have a partner, but if I did, I'd prefer they not wear high heels, they don't do anything to make a woman more attractive and aren't the greatest for foot health.

Surely · Answer

As far as I am concerned. A woman can wear sneakers. Even though I love long legs. But she doesn’t need to risk breaking an ankle on my account.

Firesparks · Answer

Minimum of 3 otherwise 4 to 6 inches n with platforms

RavVid · Answer

It seems that we like girls to be six inches shorter. I think that remains so with heels.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@kelly6 my woman never wears heels - ever 👠👠😛😋👀 ever. 💄 👄 Ever.

Despina6 · Answer

3 to 6 inches. However, in parts of where I live, people aren’t allowed to wear them because they could damage historical records.

soe11 · Answer

My choice is she should wear leveling to my height. I love whatever she chooses.

Celticwolf78 · Answer

I don't like her wearing heels because it's not good on the ankles

exitseven · Answer

I have never been a fan of high heel shoes.

jazzyk777 · Answer

im more of a cowgirl boots but I'll wear high heels every now and then

zagor · Answer

I don't like heels at ALL. If she's elevated it better be because of thick-soled hiking boots.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I do not care how high, but I dislike stilleto heels. Those things can cause a lot of damage to a floor.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Whatever height she prefers is fine by me. I have no preference.

Blacke · Answer

You expect your guy to be your fashion designer or something?

RedThread · Answer

I don't care what shoes women wear. Just wear what makes you comfortable.

Jay-_- · Answer

Preferably don't want her to wear heels but if she wants to I say whatever she wants.

darkwing91 · Answer

I'm 5'10"/5'11". Her heels should bring her to my height.

fish5505_87 · Answer

Im not a huge heel guy, but heels of 2 inches can be sexy.

Ariesman81 · Answer

6". If she isn't suffering I'm not happy.

OddBeMe · Answer

I like women being comfortable. I know, I'm a weirdo

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

Whatever shows off her legs and is comfortable for her

Anonymous · Answer

I don't like heels at all, I prefer girls in sneakers.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

no heels :D

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Anything higher than 3" is absurd.

chrissykerdock · Answer

i'm 5 10 so i wear 2 1/4 heel most

itsannalee · Answer

3-7, but mostly i wear 5

Bricealan · Answer

@kelly6 Doesn't really matter to me?

krin_m · Answer

What ever she is comfortable with!

CubaPirate · Answer

Depends on the occasion tbh

clampfan101 · Answer

I’m not into heels.

Likes2drive · Answer

Maybe 2 inches on her

dragoblack · Answer

I prefer my partner to wear comfortable shoes

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Two or three inches.

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

My girl is like 5”2 so any heals she wears is fine

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