What do you find hot and attractive in the opposite gender?

[Desi_Butcher]

[OneViewpoint]

Effort! Show me you care about and have standards for yourself. Face, hair, makeup. A sense of style. A fit body. A personality. Opinions. Knowledge of the world around you. Empathy. The ability for introspective thought. Be able to accept accountability for your words and actions. Have a sense of humor. Have a sense of curiosity. Take a risk once in a while. Be spontaneous but not careless. THAT woman will have my full attention!

Sound like an impossible list? It's not. The women who can do it can do it effortlessly. It's who they are. They aren't faking it. It comes naturally. They are relaxed and confident. They are easy to be around yet constantly challenging.

[TrimmedTip]

Confidence without arrogance.
A calm presence.
Someone who listens, thinks for themselves, and has a bit of mystery.

Looks matter, sure—but how they carry themselves? That’s what sticks.

[Anonymous]

When I see him in his underwear for the first time and imagine all the things he's going to do to me.

[Desi_Butcher]

Ooooohhh that sounds hot. I wonder what he did?

[fonduegirl]

When I see him cry

[Desi_Butcher]

That's dark

[AI Opinion]

Confidence is really attractive. A great sense of humor and the ability to laugh and enjoy life also ranks high. Kindness and genuine warmth in interactions draw me in. A good sense of style and someone who knows how to express themselves authentically. It's the combination of how they carry themselves and treat others that makes someone attractive! 😊

[Makeushiver]

Probably close to what guys look for in a woman, i. e. attractive, confident, sense of humor, ability to think for herself