What's one thing, besides looks, sex, or physical traits, that you find incredibly sexy or attractive about the opposite gender?

[MCheetah]

What's one or more non-visual things that can really turn you on in the opposite gender?

I have a few things women can do that can really turn me on, from having a kind empathetic heart, to a (genuine) sense of humor, to sharing the same hobbies and video games as me. But one thing I find irresistible, is when a woman is passionate about something artistic or creative, like singing, music, or drawing. Even cosplaying can suffice. I don't know what it is, but it just hits different. It's like, I can connect with her on a deeper emotional level and it's HOT AS F*CK! 😍

[Aerissa_Jade]

Actually back in September I met this guy that works for a company who designs and creates guns, and he knew a ton of info on guns, far more than I ever could.

He was married but I found it extremely sexy the way he held them and talked and how he would put his arms around me trying to help me hold it while he demonstrated his latest design.

That was extremely sexy and to make it worse, I hardly remember what he was saying about most stuff.

I also find it extremely attractive when he can hold a decent conversation and listen, not just talk.

[Aerissa_Jade]

Thanks for MHO

[Lucy68]

They have to be sweet and show kindness not only towards me but also towards those around him. He has to be funny and can make me laugh cause I love to laugh and smile. He has go be loving, protective, and caring. He has to have ambition and goals. He has to be someone who I know will not only make a wonderful husband but an amazing father and will know the kids will always have to come first. Creative and loves art, and has an imagination. Someone that I can picture myself growing old together and making wonderful memories and going on adventure together.

[jaybee281]

One thing miss cinderella ONE - or do we like get to pick one of those and you've just laid out ideas for us? - and is that one dude you're describing or like a few just to be sure you don't run out of options? - Too many jokes too many I'm gonna stop now before this gets out of hand

[Lucy68]

@jaybee281 tbh I couldn't just pick one cause someone can be funny but not kind or they can caring but not fun if that makes sense. You just can't say they have to have a great personality cause well nowadays that can go either way. I would like all that in one guy and probably why I didn't pick just one. If my response sounded like "fairytale" and "unrealistic" I'm sorry and my apologies for that I'm just a chick that hopes to have a happy, loving life someday and be in a loving and stable relationship where the guy is not a complete a-hole. Again I should have said great personality but as I said it can go either way. Again I so sorry if what I hope to have sounded "immature", "fairytale", "unrealistic" and"stupid". However i couldn't pick just one and I'm sorry if this upset you in some way. Take care, be kind to each other, and have an awesome day.

[jaybee281]

To be honest all you've said makes a lot of sense - like it makes so much sense I'd consider it common sense - I just couldn't help myself but make a comment on tbe difference between the question and the answer that's all - I also think your list isn't a fairytale again just a joke it actually should be everyone's standards - I pretty much check all the boxes except being kind towards people around me and the husband father part - the first one depends on what you mean the second just flat out scares me - And I just realized that if I was you I'd make a joke about how I'm talking as if like I'm a candidate trying to match your list of things - the truth is I'm just saying that your list is pretty real like if I'm 22 and already am very close to that - Or maybe I'm too fuckin good and others are meh so it isn't real? - Well then again I'm a narcissist - no no there are definitely dudes like that, I hope

[jaybee281]

When she's witty and can banter with me - I love that - There are so many times I'd joke something and I have to explain when I meant - it's satisfying when someone understands - and yea I never thought of that before you said it but video games would definitely be a big one for me too

[RealMarek]

Kindness is highly attractive to me.

[KlinkyCoder]

There are certain hobbies and activities she could have that I could potentially find sexy and hot, and not necessarily the same ones as mine, but creative or artistic things especially if she performs her talents publicly. I don't know if it's just me, but those in the creative fields happen to have good looks too most of the time. That sounds like a generalization, but I think there is a tendency of that.

[Lliam]

I'd say women's voices and the uniquely feminine way they move and behave.

[JosyJosy]

Confidence, and yep a man passionate about something, or when he's focussed on something. It tempts me to break his focus ;)

[MCheetah]

Why do all women like ego in a man? Very few of us can be perfect (or think we are).

[JosyJosy]

I don't think this is just a woman thing. Doesn't a guy like a girl who believes in herself and is comfortable being herself around others?

[MCheetah]

I don't think guys care about any of this stuff. I don't want a girl with confidence, no. I want a girl who is just normal and admit she has flaws and isn't perfect at everything, but that she also has some positive traits and can also offer some good things to the world as well.

[JosyJosy]

Hm I checked the guys responses and idd no confidence being mentioned, fascinating, learning something new about you mysterious creatures still :p

[MCheetah]

Women only ever want that in men because they want men who can do everything for them and be strong leaders. Men don't look for women to be strong, take-charge, assertive, or have a super high opinion of themselves, so it's not something most of us care about. And as I said, I would want someone who WASN'T prideful like that.

[scentoflavender]

When a man can fix something.

[Stoner710]

Make cute funny noises

[roro_hlbi]

The words he uses.

[Anonymous]

Common interests or mannerisms.

[Luopio27]

Beautyful voice.