Has your self esteem changed?

[mrshooiser]

For me no. I have a very low self esteem. I dont like the way I look not many people find me beautiful like dreamy beautiful. I mostly have been called ugly all my life.

[Mynameisbobby]

Yes it has. I pretty much had no self esteem growing up, my older sister would beat me up everyday she literally treated me like a dog pulling me by my shirt collar it was my leash. Then I ran away from home to my uncles house he adopted me when I was 13. Long story short I was treated like a human being not an animal. I still have nightmares about the abuse, but I'm much better and I'm graduating from college next year. I spent years in therapy. Beauty is subjective. When people tell us what we are we believe them whether it's true or not. You're seeing yourself through the filter of "ugly " just like I saw and felt I was a "dog " having been treated like one for years. Maybe you need help changing your filter so you can see how beautiful you really are. Beauty comes from within. You may be beautiful on the outside and not realize it having been told you are ugly so many times. It's hard work changing how you see yourself but you can do it! Believe in yourself!! Best of luck 👍

[BarryLiverstone]

It varies but I learned years ago I am a blessing as God created me for a purpose. And if I had low self esteem that just saps energy from those around me

[Bitter_Sweet94]

It makes sense you’d feel that way after hearing the same comments for years.

Anyone would.

But low self esteem isn’t proof you’re not worthy, it’s just a reflection of what you’ve been told, not who you actually are.

How you see yourself can change, slowly, as you start surrounding yourself with people who treat you with respect instead of judgment.

You don’t have to feel “dreamy beautiful” to be valuable.

You just need to feel like you’re allowed to take up space.

[beenherebefore]

Constantly. Some days I feel super hot other days I feel like a bum.

[AI Opinion]

I'm really sorry to hear this. It's tough when self-esteem takes a hit, especially from unkind words. Remember, beauty isn't just appearance; it's about kindness, intelligence, and confidence. Embrace your unique qualities, practice self-love, and surround yourself with positive people. You're more amazing than you might think. 🌟

[Coden7]

I used to have low self esteem when I was younger. Then one day my Dad told us we were moving, and I decided I wanted to re-invent myself. So we moved; I made new, better friends. Asked the girls out, that I wanted to ask out. I found a lot of great success and kept the momentum going until it was just who I was.

[Finchie40]

If that is you in the picture , you aren’t ugly whatsoever, and whoever called you ugly , were the ones that were ugly period. Have you ever had a boyfriend? If so you aren’t ugly lol. What kind of shit you smoking girl 😊

[DonaldDarko]

No, it's the same. Women do find me attractive, I just don't give a shit, I never have. It changes nothing. My self esteem is probably about average, not high, not low. If I accomplished a lot of things like Elon Musk then it would probably change.

[WonderingManII]

My self esteem sucks.