If you aren't up to go in this outfit, then don't. It's that simple. You don't have to go if you are uncomfortable.
Having said that, you are going to be there with all the other girls in lingerie too. I'm sure some of them will be dressed in much less than you'll be in, and you're going to an adult party where people aren't going to be judging you negatively for what you're wearing; in fact, just the opposite. In this context, what you will be wearing is APPROPRIATE, as long as you are comfortable in it.
IMO, you should go and have fun, and not worry so much. Everyone's seen a butt before.
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What sexy costume would a guy wear? I'd probably wear my boxer briefs otherwise I'd be peeking out the side I'm sure. I'm comfortable with my body, been a nudist for a number of years as well. If my girlfriend was going, I'd go. If I was single, I'd ask the person in charge if they invited any curvy women. Chances are they didn't so I'd be more inclined to pass.
You're nervous to wear lingerie to a party, but you're willing to put a skimpy bikini picture up for all of the internet to see?
Anyway, I went to a "safer sex" party and wore bra and underwear... I'd wear lingerie, but nothing see through.
no that isn't really my scene. going to a party like that with your boyfriend and many other people may because some problems if you think about it. but that's just my opinion.
Based on your choice of avatar I don't think this party will be a problem for you.
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This sounds like a bad idea.
It also sounds very trashy.
It also sounds like your boyfriend is WAY TOO into it..
He went and spent money and did not get something you fully approved of before discussing any of it with you or seeing if you were still OK with it.
Who cares what money he spent...You did not even feel comfortable enough to discuss it with him.
Your friend that is going...Does she have a boyfriend?I'm glad you had a good time and you were brave enough to attend. I may have the chance to attend one myself, but I wasn't interested because there are a couple of guys in my friend group who slightly creep me out. I told my friend I didn't want the image of my half naked self burned into these guys' memories because I was already freaked out by them talking to me when we had regular clothes on. Lol.
Guys should only be allowed if they wore lingerie too as a joke. It is a lingerie party and lingerie should be required uniform for all in attendance.
Yes I would go..I am not entirely comfortable with full nudity although I used to streak and was at a party once when everyone's clothes came off...but I am fairly comfortable in underwear...(:
You should not go if you're not comfortable with it, though it could be interesting if you're up to it, even fun. Still, if it's not something you want to go through, just don't go and epxlain why :)
Just wear little shorts under your see through booty shorts. Problem solved.
glad it was fun. I've done that with my gfs a few times. always fun.
I am sure you would...
You are a dude after all...Sounds fun, I would go. It's just nerves, you know? You'll regret not going.
I would go to one if you were there
Yeah and I would shop for my wife and myself
LOL, some of these answers
We had a couple in college.
I have my own parties just me... I love panties
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