Would you go to a lingerie party with guys there?

[ShelbyG]

A friend of mine and my BF's is having a lingerie party on Friday and asked us to go. We told him we would not miss it for the world, but I was drunk when I said that lol. I talked about it with my boyfriend and we decided that we were going to do it. My boyfriend came home yesterday with lingerie for me to wear to the party. The only problem is that the lingerie he bought is a little see through in some spots mainly the butt area. It is a playboy bunny tuxedo costume, the bottom is see through booty shorts with thongs under that and the top is a black corset with push up. I am rather gifted in the bra area and I told him I don't need push up but he bought it anyway. I am a little nervous about wearing it but I would feel bad if I did not because he is really excited about it and he paid quite a bit of money for it. Most of the people there will be people we know witch is not so bad when I think about it. But I just have mixed feelings about it, or maybe its just nerves IDK. I talk to one of my friends today and she is wearing thongs as well with a sexy top so I know I won't be the only one. Would you go to a lingerie party with your friends? Would you wear a sexy costume?

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+1 y

well I did end up going to the party. It was actually very fun and we all had a good time. The plus side is I was not the only girl in thongs, there was 3 of us. I had fun and would go to another one

[MrOracle]

If you aren't up to go in this outfit, then don't. It's that simple. You don't have to go if you are uncomfortable.

Having said that, you are going to be there with all the other girls in lingerie too. I'm sure some of them will be dressed in much less than you'll be in, and you're going to an adult party where people aren't going to be judging you negatively for what you're wearing; in fact, just the opposite. In this context, what you will be wearing is APPROPRIATE, as long as you are comfortable in it.

IMO, you should go and have fun, and not worry so much. Everyone's seen a butt before.

[ShelbyG]

true t why for your advice

[MrOracle]

Glad you went, and glad you had a good time!

[KERMlT]

What sexy costume would a guy wear? I'd probably wear my boxer briefs otherwise I'd be peeking out the side I'm sure. I'm comfortable with my body, been a nudist for a number of years as well. If my girlfriend was going, I'd go. If I was single, I'd ask the person in charge if they invited any curvy women. Chances are they didn't so I'd be more inclined to pass.

[beerY33]

You're nervous to wear lingerie to a party, but you're willing to put a skimpy bikini picture up for all of the internet to see?

Anyway, I went to a "safer sex" party and wore bra and underwear... I'd wear lingerie, but nothing see through.

[ShelbyG]

My Boyfriend put this pic up, but it is just a bikini. Do you wear bikinis to the beach for all the world to see?

[beerY33]

juuuuust sayin. wearing a bikini to the beach is a little different than posting a bikini picture on the internet. and it's your profile, not your boyfriend's.

[Anonymous]

no that isn't really my scene. going to a party like that with your boyfriend and many other people may because some problems if you think about it. but that's just my opinion.

[vmw2008]

Based on your choice of avatar I don't think this party will be a problem for you.

[Anonymous]

This sounds like a bad idea.

It also sounds very trashy.

It also sounds like your boyfriend is WAY TOO into it..

He went and spent money and did not get something you fully approved of before discussing any of it with you or seeing if you were still OK with it.

Who cares what money he spent...You did not even feel comfortable enough to discuss it with him.

Your friend that is going...Does she have a boyfriend?

[WeaponZero]

Guys should only be allowed if they wore lingerie too as a joke. It is a lingerie party and lingerie should be required uniform for all in attendance.

[kano777]

I'm glad you had a good time and you were brave enough to attend. I may have the chance to attend one myself, but I wasn't interested because there are a couple of guys in my friend group who slightly creep me out. I told my friend I didn't want the image of my half naked self burned into these guys' memories because I was already freaked out by them talking to me when we had regular clothes on. Lol.

[taster]

Yes I would go..I am not entirely comfortable with full nudity although I used to streak and was at a party once when everyone's clothes came off...but I am fairly comfortable in underwear...(:

[AlexCab]

You should not go if you're not comfortable with it, though it could be interesting if you're up to it, even fun. Still, if it's not something you want to go through, just don't go and epxlain why :)

[MyNameIsJonas]

Just wear little shorts under your see through booty shorts. Problem solved.

[ShelbyG]

Thanks but I already went to the party

[MyNameIsJonas]

I thought this was 8 hours not 8 days lol

[jennhottie17]

glad it was fun. I've done that with my gfs a few times. always fun.

[Anonymous]

I am sure you would...

You are a dude after all...

[ShelbyG]

Anonymous, Big surprise. most guys with no balls stay Anonymous

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe if I would have gone to the lingerie party you could have seen whether I had balls or not..

Or maybe if I asked only attention seeking, sexual reference questions?

Or maybe if my profile pic was me looking like a complete ho-bag?

hmmm

[ShelbyG]

I'm over it. Moving on

[Opinion Owner]

OK Trash

[ShelbyG]

like I said, Anonymous

[Opinion Owner]

Anonymous Non Trash

[xocelsixo]

Sounds fun, I would go. It's just nerves, you know? You'll regret not going.

[20Questions]

I would go to one if you were there

[humanearth]

Yeah and I would shop for my wife and myself

[Anonymous]

LOL, some of these answers

[JennieF]

We had a couple in college.

[BLP11520]

I have my own parties just me... I love panties

[slipslender]

no.

[Hitch]

I met you at one

but you were wearing a onesie

the adult pajama kind with the feet and everything

[slipslender]

a paperbag onesie! :D

[Hitch]

and it was a used one

[Libarena]

Sure.