first off: GREAT male anonymus user comment! yays! we girls have to read and listen to guys saying all the time that they want "women with curves but no fat other than the breasts and hips area" and supermodel-skinny-wet dreams, and now someone asks for our IDEAL (ideal meaning perfect, but who gets perfect in their life anyways?) male shape and we get the blame? tell me how you guys do it differently!
and to answer your question, whateverdude: I'm into all kinds of shape. I've liked the tall skinny dude who was awkward about almost everything he did and the more muscular boxer guy who my friend didn't really want to meet on the street in the dark because she could've mistaken him for a closet. I've also liked the chubby nerd with the glasses, because he had a great laugh and a good personality and he looked great even though he carried a bit of timber around with him.
What's important, I guess, is always the broad shoulders and less broad hips/waist. I admit, it might be shallow but I don't believe I would go for an obese guy. Sorry. But the ideal guy -for me- ranges from Drake Bell to Ryan Gosling. and I even think Greg Grunberg's pretty good! Vin Diesel is a little too buff for me to be honest. though it must feel safe in those arms - but they may crush you, too!
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Skinny but with just enough muscle for ab definition.
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But I do like just skinny nerdy looking bodies with no muscle almost as much.
If you've seen Rob Dyrdek Fantasy Factory, Drama Pfaff has like the perfect body type to me. Tall and skinny. People think I'm weird for liking that. Most girls like guys that weight way more than them so they can feel smaller but I want a guy as close as possible to my body frame lol.
I find it amusing that the majority want a guy with body fat in the 7-8% range, yet most women accuse women with body fat under about 14% of being anorexic.
Guess I'm going to die sad and alone if this is what the girls are after and won't settle for anything less.
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My guy has a perfect body type according to me :) ...But I don't think he would approve of me posting a picture of him shirtless on a random website so this is what he looks like as far as build and all that stuff. link Didn't think I would ever use a pic of Vin Diesel to represent my bf's muscle tone lol.
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Skinny with a little tone, not too scrawny but definitely not muscular/buff.I like them tall and lean, but toned. Not too skinny, not too muscular, just somewhere in between. Sort of like this link
One thing I really don't like is huge pecs. Sometimes guys who work out have like B cups of their own, it's really gross. I think it just looks nice when it looks like guys aren't trying too hard to be buff and muscular.I'm a sucker for skinnyfat, haha. link
Honestly I like all body types except for guys who look super macho and kind of scary :PMedium. I know some women go for the skinny rockstar look, but personally am -not at all- attracted to that. A man can have some muscle, but not over the top like body builders do. In my opinion Hugh Jackman has the perfect body and look if you want a real life referance.
A tad chubby but not obese. Really strong... but I like the comfy cushy fat feeling. I'm just weird that way.
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dreamy...What a big f'n surprise they all said guys, with muscles or skinny nerds. Why no husky, fat, big boned? that's right we're not good enough for you that's why. Pisses me off because if the Op were a women asked this question and guys didn't say fat women there would, be a outrage. I guess its true women just love big muscle headed jerks.
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Also nice big muscular legs and nice muscular broad shoulders and arms and a nice d***I love guys with a little extra. Someone I can hug and cuddle who's not too hard. Buffness, can be a turn-off for me a lot of the time.
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It's science, it's what they all REALLY want.I just want him to be taller than me. And have normal body weight. Not too skinny, not too fat. A happy medium. :)
For me its slim but,my boyfriend is overweight and I don't care.
Eddie Redmayne! Tall, not too muscular, a bit on the thin side, but still fit with a cute bum ;)
All these answers just make it seem like girls have unrealistic hopes that puts guys like me out of luck.
basketball player, tall and tone with nice arms and abs. picture Derek Rose. Dream guy.
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