Is a really skinny guy a dealbreaker?

[Anonymous]

I used to hit the gym quite regularly until I went to college and was fairly ripped/athletic. However, after a couple of years in college, I've dropped like 20 lbs and become kind of skinny. I just have long thin stripes of muscle and if I lose any more weight my ribs will probably start to show.
As a result, my self-esteem seems to have taken a hit (spectacularly failed relationships in the recent past haven't helped in that regard either).

Anyway, my question is, would you, ceteris paribus, think twice about dating a guy who looks like a human skeleton.
Provided he is not a douchebag, is reasonably intelligent, and emotionally available.

Most girls that I know say it doesn't really matter, but I'm not so sure. I mean, I can see a marked difference in my interactions with the opposite sex now, even though I'm definitely a lot more emotionally mature now than I was earlier.

No, it makes no difference

Not very attractive, but not a dealbreaker

Total dealbreaker, bugger off beanpole

[Anonymous]

every grl is different and the definition of skinny differs for everyone, but if u are like u described a skeleton then no thats not attractive for anyone because it shows anorexia. i have liked guys before that are LEAN naturally. but personally, for me, i want a guy who has some meat on him cause im a tall girl a bit thick and i want him to put his manly arms on me pick me up throw me on the bed and just be a protective dominant type. u dont have to have muscles but just meat. eat more protein and healthy fats.

[bubbiexo]

To be honest it wouldn't be my first choice but I certainly wouldn't reject someone solely for that reason. Just as long as he didn't think I was a fatty, we would be good to go :P

[pr3ttybr0wn]

honestly yes, they look like they're strung out on drugs or have aids.

[bleedingquadrophenic]

I clicked option C. Not that it means anything, but I just liked the sound of "Total dealbreaker, bugger off beanpole"

by the way, I know what you mean about losing weight. I'm an ectomorph myself, stopped hitting the gym three years ago and suddenly I look like slenderman. Gotta start eating and working out more

[Deutchbag]

I'm basically a skeleton but for some reason people rarely notice unless I tell them or they find out somehow.
I'm 183cm/6ft and 59kg/125lbs

[MaskofInsanity]

I'm tall and quite curvy, so I think it would make me feel like a bit of a behemoth being with a really skinny guy. Still, if we have chemistry, that's what matters.

[misscocobutter]

No skinny men can be hot. The last 2 guys I was swooning over were both really skinny, oh and so was the first guy I ever had a crush on

[Sarah_Loves_You]

No , I like skinny guys. I actually prefer them. from my experience that are really good at cuddling and i love to cuddle

[knotme]

It wouldn't be my first choice, but i find you cute, it is not a dealbreaker.

[Anonymous]

It depends on the person I think skinny nerdy guys are cute i'm crushing on one hahaha so you will hopefully find someone like me

[kalrodkal]

I think most girls aren't that shallow unless he is anorexic skinny

[Dzindzer]

If your bones show then yes.

[lamebabe]

Can you post a picture of a body similar to yours?

[VENOMMM]

now watch he sends you a nude pic of himself. you just fell for his trap ol

[lamebabe]

oh gosh :(

[JustinX]

i feel you bro