I used to hit the gym quite regularly until I went to college and was fairly ripped/athletic. However, after a couple of years in college, I've dropped like 20 lbs and become kind of skinny. I just have long thin stripes of muscle and if I lose any more weight my ribs will probably start to show.
As a result, my self-esteem seems to have taken a hit (spectacularly failed relationships in the recent past haven't helped in that regard either).
Anyway, my question is, would you, ceteris paribus, think twice about dating a guy who looks like a human skeleton.
Provided he is not a douchebag, is reasonably intelligent, and emotionally available.
Most girls that I know say it doesn't really matter, but I'm not so sure. I mean, I can see a marked difference in my interactions with the opposite sex now, even though I'm definitely a lot more emotionally mature now than I was earlier.
As a result, my self-esteem seems to have taken a hit (spectacularly failed relationships in the recent past haven't helped in that regard either).
Anyway, my question is, would you, ceteris paribus, think twice about dating a guy who looks like a human skeleton.
Provided he is not a douchebag, is reasonably intelligent, and emotionally available.
Most girls that I know say it doesn't really matter, but I'm not so sure. I mean, I can see a marked difference in my interactions with the opposite sex now, even though I'm definitely a lot more emotionally mature now than I was earlier.
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