Why is guy with skinny arms for many girls a dealbreaker?

[what1234]

Big arms are really that important?

[DougTheDingo]

People can't help what they are attracted to my dude. Its okay that they have that preference. And its okay if you find it stupid. Your best bet is to just live for you and do what makes you happy and try to find a woman who has standards that you are okay with.

[Dipsy]

I used to have really skinned arms. Like toothpicks. But gradually they became a little bigger when I got older. I also train with dumbbells, which makes my arms bigger. A few sessions per week will improve your muscles really quickly.
That's what I did

[thecorseteddoll]

it's not a deal breaker but being a curvy girl I like the idea of a guy being able to pick me up. my man is muscular but I've dated guys thinner than me before

[what1234]

You were attracted to them?

[thecorseteddoll]

of course I was! why would I date someone I wasn't attracted to. lol. my long term friend and lover (obv between relationships) was very thin and very tall.

[what1234]

Does they really have to recompasate a lot o "cover' ther thin arms?

[thecorseteddoll]

I don't know lol ask them. I didn't date anyone who had a complex about their arms honestly.

[thecorseteddoll]

the one I held In highest regard was uber intelligent, cooked, made the best damn drinks, and I lost my virginity to him so I have a biased opinion lo

[what1234]

I am none of that...

[thecorseteddoll]

you also lack confidence. I'm not talking cocky but be confident in who you are. lack of confidence is what most women find unattractive. maybe I'm terrible but I tend to not like chubby guys I dated a guy once who was bc he super confident and we had a great time together

[what1234]

I have confidence uncondiniotally. I made great first impression.

But after that girls see I am not skilled, no direction in life, no job, delayed college degree, balding and skinny arms.

[thecorseteddoll]

sounds like you are dsting jerks to be honest.

[what1234]

Dsting jerks?

[thecorseteddoll]

dating obviously a typo

[what1234]

Could I sent you a pics to rate me?

I am attractive to girls at first, but after that it quite sucks.

[thecorseteddoll]

sure!

[what1234]

I want to send it privately. Can you follow or something?

[thecorseteddoll]

done

[Relatabelle]

Not a deal breaker but I'd like to feel feminine and seeing a guy with big arms would enable that. Kind of guy who's strong enough to pick me up

[what1234]

Why do you assume skinny guy can't be strong?

[Relatabelle]

I don't assume he can't be, but being skinny does suggest less muscle and is a physical characteristic of weaker people

[what1234]

So I am fucked up...

[Relatabelle]

Nope, some girls are into guys with small arms. Just not me personally. It would also probably make me insecure, if I felt bigger than my boyfriend. I'm quite tall and curvy so I might not be comfortable. For e. g however my friend prefers slim guys, skater look. You're not fucked. Being short is more problematic. How do you fare in that department?

[what1234]

I am about 5'10'', but I am really thin and balding (I am forced to go for hair transplant, because I have weird shape of head).

I love this responses "some girls are into that, but I am not..." ... being skinny and balding sucks ;)

[Relatabelle]

Hmm, maybe you can pull off an all bald look. 5'10 is fine. I'm the same height

[Relatabelle]

Although tbh that look is more suited to tall black guys. They can pull off the basketball we vibe

[what1234]

I looked good with more hair, but no, hair transplant is only option for me. What you think about it? Is it deal breaker (hair transplant) ?

Could I send you a photo to rate me?

[Relatabelle]

Yh go on then, but remember I'm judging based on my personal tastes. I'm approx. A decade younger than you, not sure that a balding is a feature I'm typically attracted to. I also come from a culture where thick hair is embraced but I would be happy to rate

[what1234]

I am 27, so it's 8 years difference.

I want to send it privatelly, can you follow or smth

[RJGraveyTrain]

It isn't a deal breaker, but some toned (not necessarily big) arms are more attractive.

[what1234]

I can't get them...

[YepItsMeAgain]

Don't worry too much about it.

[Blonde401]

Meh. I like chubby guys so I like arms with a bit of meat on them yeah

[what1234]

You are shallow

[Blonde401]

😂 because I don't like skinny guys? How is that shallow? Do you like fat girls? It's called preferences.

[Anonymous]

They're under the mistaken impression arm strength matters for pretty much anything (picking someone up, fighting, whatever)

[Anonymous]

It isn't a deal breaker, but if you have seriously scrawny arms I think you're malnourished, not taking care of yourself, which is unattractive.

[what1234]

Could you rate my arms on priv?

[Opinion Owner]

For sure

[what1234]

But i need your profile to send you message